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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #135 on: January 04, 2012, 08:25:07 pm »
“You might be married to the worst man ever, like Asyah was married to Pharaoh - but it didn’t change her and her loyalty and love to Allah.
You might be married to the best of men, like Prophet of God, and still not enter Heaven - like the wife of Nabi Lut a.s.
You might be not married to any man, like Maryam (alaiha salam), and Allah can make your rank higher than any women on the Earth. Know your priorities. Love and trust is with Allah first.”


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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #136 on: January 04, 2012, 08:26:20 pm »
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #137 on: January 05, 2012, 02:44:17 pm »
DELAY IN MARRIAGE


There was a woman who reached the age of forty; her sisters and brothers all got married, and her parents died, and she stayed in the house alone. She was religiously committed and righteous.
A woman said to her: May Allah help you to cope with this loneliness; you have stayed alone after all your family has gone. And she started to encourage her to be patient.
But she gave an amazing response that not even great and prominent people could come up with, and those who heard this answer were stunned by it. She said:
"Who told you that I am living alone? Not at all. I have not lived a single day without the one I love. He is with me night and day, and He does not leave me for a moment, and I talk to Him at moments when He is closest to me. He is my Lord."
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #138 on: January 05, 2012, 06:45:03 pm »
“Oh external worshiper, know that worship without heart is motions. Oh seeker of knowledge, know that knowledge without purification is a dangerous weapon of the ego. Oh activist, know that work without orientation of heart is fruitless. Oh lover, know that love without God is pain.-Yasmin Mogahed
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #139 on: January 06, 2012, 03:09:01 pm »


Not sure of the source here.
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #140 on: January 06, 2012, 03:15:14 pm »
A love letter from a Muslim man to the girl he loves.

Dear Wife-in-future,

If you love me, don’t confess your love to me through haraam ways, This won’t please me and will instead drive me away! Love games don’t attract me. If you love me, have sabr and I will knock on your door when the time is right. Don’t give me privileges which I don’t deserve. Keep me away from you, and I will approach you.... If you approach me..., I will stay away from you. Don’t love me, for I want you ignorant in love. I want to teach you love when the right time comes and when you will be mine, Only when we are joined together under our Creator’s satisfaction!

Don’t tell me what you feel, don’t give me from your time, don’t push me to lose you. I am a man who does not want to see the one he loves committing sins or to live a forbidden love behind her family’s back. I don’t want her to feel guilty and don’t want her heart to suffer. Put me under limits that I won’t cross, kill me inside you so I won’t grow to kill you inside me.Preserve what is beautiful inside you. I want you innocent, chaste, pure.

I want you my love, but with Allah’s blessings and not shaytan’s whisperings. And then, Only then, I will face everything and will be ready to go through difficulties to get you, Don’t be easy because then, I may not value you. Don’t love me now, so I won’t hate you! My heart wants you and doesn’t want to lose you. I don’t want you to be just a passing fancy for me, I want you a wife, a lover, the mother of my children, I want you to be the one I will spend my whole life with. How could I be a faithful man to you when I try to break your chastity? How would I be faithful to you if I push you to betray your family? How could I trust a love which grew under Allah’s wrath ?

To make you mine through niqah is Islam’s way, Till then wait patiently and donot dismay. To love you means to protect you, To Love you is to bring you closer to Allah and HIS deen To preserve you not to kill what is beautiful inside you.

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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #141 on: January 06, 2012, 03:21:34 pm »


I get mine from tumblr. 8)
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #142 on: January 06, 2012, 03:24:13 pm »
Isn't all this for later? ::)
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #143 on: January 06, 2012, 03:27:14 pm »
Isn't all this for later? ::)
Oh no! Banana is gonna spam the thread. ::) :o :o

LOL :P

Yes, it is ... just making preparations. ::) :P
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #144 on: January 06, 2012, 03:30:26 pm »
Oh no! Banana is gonna spam the thread. ::) :o :o

LOL :P

Yes, it is ... just making preparations. ::) :P

Whaaaaaaaat??! How'd you guess? :P

The wedding cake...the most important thing to prepare...should be 3 decks of swiss chocolate brownies :P
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #145 on: January 06, 2012, 03:31:54 pm »
Whaaaaaaaat??! How'd you guess? :P

The wedding cake...the most important thing to prepare...should be 3 decks of swiss chocolate brownies :P
Your too obvious. ::)

Mine will be 7. 8) :P
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #146 on: January 06, 2012, 03:32:14 pm »
Whaaaaaaaat??! How'd you guess? :P

The wedding cake...the most important thing to prepare...should be 3 decks of swiss chocolate brownies :P

Can't we just have butter cake?
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #147 on: January 06, 2012, 03:41:06 pm »
Your too obvious. ::)

Mine will be 7. 8) :P

Are you accusing a Global Moderator of spamming?  :o

:P :P :P
Yeah right..that'll topple before you can even cut a slice :P

Can't we just have butter cake?

Butter cake? On a wedding?  ::)
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #148 on: January 06, 2012, 03:42:18 pm »
Are you accusing a Global Moderator of spamming?  :o

:P :P :P
Yeah right..that'll topple before you can even cut a slice :P

Butter cake? On a wedding?  ::)

Why not? We need a CHANGE! :P
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #149 on: January 06, 2012, 03:45:05 pm »
Are you accusing a Global Moderator of spamming?  :o

:P :P :P
Yeah right..that'll topple before you can even cut a slice :P


I know you are. ::)





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I like to keep it simple and elegant. :D
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