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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #105 on: December 25, 2011, 03:06:45 pm »
True, bud. I love simplicity. Man, you should see the weddings back home in BD. Ya Allah. Astaghfirulloh. I attended one this time and it wasn't a close relatives...after that I made a resolution to never attend one ever again. :D

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« Reply #106 on: December 25, 2011, 03:14:45 pm »
True, bud. I love simplicity. Man, you should see the weddings back home in BD. Ya Allah. Astaghfirulloh. I attended one this time and it wasn't a close relatives...after that I made a resolution to never attend one ever again. :D
We have some liberal Afghans and their function is mixed ::) but us, NEVER. :D It's fun and all ... plus, gives me an excuse to see my cousins. :P
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« Reply #107 on: December 25, 2011, 03:19:24 pm »
You know the funniest part...I've never attended a separated wedding ever in my life. I mean I attended just 3 weddings, till date. My brother, on the other hand, who is in London, attended his friend's wedding (bride and groom both Bangladeshis) and that was a separated wedding. Think about that. :P

I can already imagine how much of fun it is when it is all separated. You can be free and easy. :) Nice at least one of us has got the experience of that. :P

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« Reply #108 on: December 25, 2011, 03:22:36 pm »
You know the funniest part...I've never attended a separated wedding ever in my life. I mean I attended just 3 weddings, till date. My brother, on the other hand, who is in London, attended his friend's wedding (bride and groom both Bangladeshis) and that was a separated wedding. Think about that. :P

I can already imagine how much of fun it is when it is all separated. You can be free and easy. :) Nice at least one of us has got the experience of that. :P

LOL. :P And that to in London ? Cool. :P

That's how it is ... in our culture. At the end of the function, the girl and guys's close male family members come and the women are warned before hand ... so we can cover and stuff. :D
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #109 on: December 25, 2011, 04:25:34 pm »
10 ten topics you should discuss with your potential spouse before you get married. Keep in mind that you are looking for compatibility and not a direct replica of yourself (Seriously, what fun would that be? :P). 1- Religion, 2- Finances, 3- Family, 4- Education, 5- Kids, 6- Employment, 7- The future, 8- The past, 9- Habits and hobbies, 10- Health


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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #112 on: December 29, 2011, 08:57:44 pm »
“Dear Future Husband,
I don’t want to be your girlfriend. I just want to be the one you call your wife. Your presence will give me happiness. You’ll be my halal prince charming. Riding your horse of Taqwa. Holding onto the Quran in your right hand and the Sunnah in your left. I hear you’re worth the wait, so I’ll wait Insha’Allah. My heart belongs to no one, I just thought I should let you know. It belongs to Allah & only Him. You’ll have to get lost in Him to find me & even then you’ll still have to rightfully become apart of my heart. Only through Him. What I’m trying to say is that WE have to get lost in Him to find each other. I hope you’re up for the journey. I know I am <3
I love you =’)”
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« Reply #113 on: December 29, 2011, 09:37:51 pm »
“Dear Future Husband,
I don’t want to be your girlfriend. I just want to be the one you call your wife. Your presence will give me happiness. You’ll be my halal prince charming. Riding your horse of Taqwa. Holding onto the Quran in your right hand and the Sunnah in your left. I hear you’re worth the wait, so I’ll wait Insha’Allah. My heart belongs to no one, I just thought I should let you know. It belongs to Allah & only Him. You’ll have to get lost in Him to find me & even then you’ll still have to rightfully become apart of my heart. Only through Him. What I’m trying to say is that WE have to get lost in Him to find each other. I hope you’re up for the journey. I know I am <3
I love you =’)”


Aww. :P
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« Reply #114 on: December 30, 2011, 02:59:33 pm »
A perfect woman's du'a for her future hubby

O Allah ! Please grant me the one..
Who will be the garment for my soul..
Who will satisfy half of my deen..
And in doing so make me whole..

Make him righteous and on your path..
In all he'll do and say..
And sprinkle water on me at tahajjud..
Reminding me to pray..

May he earn from halal sources..
And spend within his means..
May he seek Your guidance always..
To fulfill all his dreams..

May he always refer to Qur'an..
and the Sunnah as his moral guide..
May he thank and appreciate You..
For the woman at his side..

May he be conscious of his anger..
And often fast and pray..
Be charitable and sensitive..
In every possible way..

May he honor and protect me..
And guide me in this life..
And please You!
Make me worthy..
to be his loving wife..

And finally, O Allah !
Make him abundant in love and laughter..
In taqwa and sincerity..
In striving for the hereafter !

<3
May Allah (swt) grant all the Muslim sisters with such husbands.. Aameen ya Rabb!! :)

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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #115 on: December 30, 2011, 04:15:53 pm »
A perfect woman's du'a for her future hubby

O Allah ! Please grant me the one..
Who will be the garment for my soul..
Who will satisfy half of my deen..
And in doing so make me whole..

Make him righteous and on your path..
In all he'll do and say..
And sprinkle water on me at tahajjud..
Reminding me to pray..

May he earn from halal sources..
And spend within his means..
May he seek Your guidance always..
To fulfill all his dreams..

May he always refer to Qur'an..
and the Sunnah as his moral guide..
May he thank and appreciate You..
For the woman at his side..

May he be conscious of his anger..
And often fast and pray..
Be charitable and sensitive..
In every possible way..

May he honor and protect me..
And guide me in this life..
And please You!
Make me worthy..
to be his loving wife..

And finally, O Allah !
Make him abundant in love and laughter..
In taqwa and sincerity..
In striving for the hereafter !

<3
May Allah (swt) grant all the Muslim sisters with such husbands.. Aameen ya Rabb!! :)

Awwwww! That was beautiful, MashaAllah <3

JazakAllah khair for sharing. =')
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Re: Marriage in Islam <3
« Reply #116 on: December 30, 2011, 05:10:18 pm »
same here.

Wa iyyaki. :)

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« Reply #117 on: December 30, 2011, 05:59:58 pm »
"Relationship between husband and wife is like the relationship between the hand and the eye. If the hand gets hurt, the eye cries, and if the eye cries the hand wipes its tears."



"A Woman once asked her mother, "Mother, how will I ever find the right Man?"
Her mother replied, "Forget finding the 'right' Man, focus on being the right Woman."



"A sweet reply from a Husband to his Wife:
WIFE: What will you do if I get angry with you?
HUSBAND: I will just take you in my arms and hug you tightly 'till the warmth of my hug melts your anger!!!"



"Wife asks husband:
“What is the happiest moment in your life?”
He looked at her face and said:
“It has not yet come..”
She fell silent for a moment, then she asked:
“And when will it be?”
He said:”The day when you open the door and you say to me ‘my dear husband, Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh’ - in our palace in Jannah.”

Found them on Fb and saved for yuh Romeesa XD
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« Reply #118 on: December 30, 2011, 06:38:10 pm »
^There are beautiful, mA. Thanks so much, GG <3 :-*
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« Reply #119 on: December 31, 2011, 11:51:46 am »
You're most welcome =D
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