By the way, I just read sweetest angels first posts in this topic. And THATS the attitude for success! Way to go, girl! 
tee-hee thank u
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Then, will you forever remain single just because you wanted freedom of choice?
That's an argument that will hold for anything, not only marriage.
TBH, even as a single woman, I would have to consider many factors before I make any decision. Every choice has a cost, it's normal.
Nobody compels anyone to put marriage before studies.
Like you, I have to build up my professional life and career too. But I would just not give myself the opportunity to regret things I could have done, but never did.
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Your list will definitely be shorter with no kids. Tell me something, name one thing, just ONE, that your parents do, in a normal day, which is not for you and your sister? Work to get you money, maybe help you with home work? Even when they pray, its for them as well as for you, so that GOD takes care of you when they are gone. So you are telling me that I can be successful with kids? I am sorry about bringing up the point that they would have been happier without you, may bad, they maybe will not. Even if life takes me to a martial life, i'll put my kids first and i'll love them indefinitely. BUT THAT IS THE POINT! I don't want my love to a husband and to kids to keep me in place!
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Comes to my point... Do you mean married couples can never achieve success? They can too, WITH support. And help.
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You forgot to mention, and twice the load, twice the responsibility, and countless points to consider before taking a simple decision like should i go to that presentation or not.
With kids: I'll have to go late until they sleep, and make him dinner. Then I'll have to wake early in the morning to make them breakfast (and maybe drop them to school). A first child? then you will never get out of home without a nanny that you trust. Of course AFTER your first maternity year.
without kids: Yes, I'll just call to check for the timings, I don't want to come back very late. period.
And By the way you guys talking about the characteristics you want in a husband reminds me of this joke
It goes like this : A new shop has opened for the perfect husband. Women go in from the entrance and can keep going to the next floor, but can not go back. they will have to leave from the top. So this lady goes in, first floor: Husband with intelligence. she is tempted but goes on to the second: Husband with intelligence AND a sense of humor. Hmm, goes to the third: Husband with intelligence AND a sense of humor AND is handsome. WOW that's a bargain, but wait she goes up: Husband with intelligence AND a sense of humor AND is handsome AND is good with kids. The lady wants to scream, she doesn't believe it, but goes up.: You have reached the last floor, exit is on your left. Women are never satisfied are they?
LOL a guy has to be like superman to be liked
and a girl has to flick her hair with a nice blink eh?
Sry for a lengthy post, it called for it
