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General Chat NEW! The Student Forums Chatroom => Chit-Chat => Morality => Topic started by: Shoshou..Mony on June 12, 2011, 12:02:36 pm
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Okay this is a long lesson but TRUST me, it is WORTH reading. =]
Enjoy Your Life
The art of interacting with people…as deducted from a study of the Prophet Salalahu Alayhi wa Salaam’s life.
-A product of more than twenty years of research
By Sheikh Dr. Muhammad ‘Abd Al-Rahaman Al-‘Arifi
© Maktaba Dar-us-Salam, 2008
The Tongue is King
I was thinking about factors that cause hatred and arguments between people and make them cumbersome for each other, such that one may not even like to see or be in someone’s company, or travel with him, or even attend his wedding. I discovered that it is the tongue that causes a man to stoop to such a level. How often brothers or couples quarrel all because of verbal abuse, backbiting or insults!
When we are able to deliver our thoughts to others with beautiful manners, why then resort to horrible ones?
There was once a king who saw in a dream that all his teeth had fallen out. He called a dream-interpreter, told him what he saw in the dream, and asked him to interpret it.
When the interpreter heard the dream his complexion changed and he began to repeat, “Allah’s refuge is sought! Allah’s refuge is sought!”
The king became worried and asked, “What is the interpretation of my dream?”
The interpreter said, “After many years pass, your wife and children will die and you will be all alone in your kingdom!”
The king screamed, became furious, and began to hurl abuses and insults. He then ordered the interpreter be imprisoned and called another interpreter; related to him what he saw in the dream and asked him for its interpretation.
The dream interpreter smiled and said, “Glad tidings, dear king!”
The king said, “What is the interpretation of the dream?”
The interpreter said, “It means that you will live for very long-so long that you will be the last of your family to die, and you will remain a king your entire life.”
The king became very pleased, showered him with gifts and remained content with him whilst angry with the first dream interpreter. If you contemplate, you will realize that both of the interpretations were the same, the difference was in the way in which the interpretation was conveyed. Hence, the tongue is the master.
The Prophet Salalahu Alayhi wa Salaam said: "When the son of Adam wakes up in the morning, all of his body parts humble themselves in front of the tongue and say, 'Fear Allah with regards to our rights! Our well-being depends on you. If you remain upright, so shall we. If you become crooked, so shall we." (Ahmed and at-Tirmidhi, Hasan)
Yes, by Allah, the tongue is master. It is master as it delivers the Friday sermon. It is master as it rectifies people’s relationships. It is master as it bargains in the marketplace. It is master as it debates in a court of law.
However; this does not mean that if a person loses his tongue his life ends. Rather; those with strong determination remain heroes, no matter how many faculties they loose.
My friend, Abu ‘Abdullah, is no different to the rest of my friends, but he is-and Allah bears witness to this-the most eager from them all to do good works. He is involved in a number of daw’ah projects, including the the’wah work he does during his work. He works as a translator in an institute for the deaf and mute.
One day he called me and said, “What do you think if I bring to your mosque two men from the institute of the deaf to deliver a lecture to the people?”
I became surprised and said, “The deaf delivering a lecture to those who hear?”
He said, “Yes! Let us come this Sunday.”
I impatiently waited until Sunday. When it finally came, I stood by the door of the mosque waiting for them, until Abu ‘Abdullah arrived in his car and parked it near the main doors of the mosque. He then got out of the car along with two men.
One of them was walking next to him, whilst the other was being held by Abu ‘Abdullah and being led by his hand.
I looked at the first of them to notice that he was deaf and mute. He could not hear or speak, but he could see. I looked at the second one to notice that he was deaf, mute and blind. He could neither hear, nor speak, nor see. I stretched forth my hand and shook Abu ‘Abdullah’s hand. The man to his right-later I found out his name was Ahmad-was looking at me with a smile, so I stretched forth my hand to shake hands with him.
Abu ‘Abdullah then said to me pointing to the blind man, “Great Fayiz too.”
I said, “As-Salaamu ‘Alaykum, Fayiz!”
Abu ‘Abdullah said, “Hold his hand, as he can neither hear nor see you.”
I placed my hand in his, and he grabbed my hand firmly and shook it.
They then entered the mosque. After the prayer, Abu ‘Abdullah sat on a chair with Ahmad sitting on his right and Fayiz sitting on his left. The people were watching in amazement. They were not accustomed to a deaf person sitting on a chair and delivering a lecture!
Abu ‘Abdullah then turned to Ahmad and said something in sign language. Ahmad responded to him in sign language. The people watched but did not understand anything, so I suggested to Abu 'Abdullah that he translate what he said, as no one is able to understand sign language except the deaf or someone well-versed in sign language. Abu 'Abdullah brought the microphone close and said, "Ahamd is relating to you the story of how he was guided." He said, "I was born deaf and raised in Jeddah. My family would neither cater for me nor pay any attention to me. I used to see people going to the mosque, but I wouldn't know why! I would often notice my father laying down a prayer mat, prostrating and bowing, but I wouldn't know what he was doing. Whenever I asked my family about it, they would belittle me and never answer my questions."
Then Abu 'Abdullah became quiet and said something to Ahmad in sign language. Ahmad then continued with his speech in sign language and suddenly his complexion changed, as if he had been emotionally affected. Abu 'Abdullah lowered his head as Ahmad began to cry profusely. Many among the audience were affected by this although they had no idea why he was crying. He continued to speak in sign language until he stopped.
Abu 'Abdullah then said, "Ahmad is now relating to you the period of his life when he changed: how he came to know about Allah and prayer due to a person on the street who taught him out of pity for him, and how, when he began to pray, he felt closer to Allah by imagining the great reward awaiting him due to his condition as well as how he got to taste the sweetness of faith."
Abu 'Abdullah continued to relate the rest of his story as the people listened in amazement.
However, I was busy thinking about something else! I would look at Ahmad and then at Fayiz and say to myself, "Ahmad can see and knows sign language, which is why Abu 'Abdullah is able to communicate with him. I wonder how he is going to communicate with Fayiz knowing he can neither see, hear nor speak?"
Ahmad finished delivering his lecture and began wiping away his tears. Meanwhile, Abu 'Abdullah turned to Fayiz.
I asked myself, "What is he going to do?
Abu 'Abdullah struck Fayiz's knee with his fingers, and there he was delivering a moving lecture. Any idea how he delivered that lecture? Did he speak? How could he, for he was mute! Did he use sign language? How could he, for he was blind and have never learnt sign language! He delivered his lecture by 'touch language'.
Abu 'Abdullah, who was the translator, placed his hand between Fayiz's hands. Fayiz wold then touch his hand in particular ways by which Abu 'Abdullah knew what Fayiz was trying to say. He would then relate to us what he understood from Fayiz. Sometimes it would take up to a quarter of an hour to understand what he was trying to say.
Fayiz would then sit still, not knowing whether the translator had finished translating or not, as he was of course neither able to hear nor see. When the translator would finish speaking, he would strike Fayiz's knee once again. Fayiz would then stretch out his hands and grab hold of the translator's hand and touch it in particular ways to convey his message.
The people remained seated, watching Fayiz and the translator communicating with amazement. Fayiz was encouraging the audience to repent to Allah for their sins. He would at times hold his ears, then his tongue, and then place his hands over his eyes. We would not understand what he meant until Abu 'Abdullah translated for us. He was advising the people to guard their ears and eyes lest they fall into the forbidden. As I looked at the people, I noticed some people sigh, "SubhanAllah", others whispered to the person sitting next to them, others were watching with great interest and still others were crying.
As for me, my mind had wandered off very far indeed. I began to contemplate on the faculties Fayiz had in comparison to what the audience were blessed with, and contrasted that with Fayiz's services for the religion in comparison to that of the audience.
Surely the concern that this blind, deaf and mute person had for Islam was greater than the concern in the hearts of all the audience combined!
Although the man had a very limited number of faculties, he was exhausting himself in service to this religion. He felt as if he was a solider of Islam, responsible for anyone who sinned or fell short. He was constantly moving his hand, as if he was admonishing. For how much longer will you abandon the prayer? For how much longer will you continue to look at the Haraam? For how much longer will you continue with your disgraceful acts? For how much longer will you continue to consume Haraam? For how much longer will you continue upon Shirk? For how much longer? Is it not enough that its enemies are waging a war against our religion? Why do you have to join the war against our religion?"
The poor man's complexion would often change as he shared what he had in his heart with the audience, who were in turn greatly affected. Although I did not turn around to look at the people, I could still hear people crying and sighing "SubhanAllah!"
Fayiz eventually finished his lecture and got up, as Abu 'Abdullah held his hand. The audience came to him to greet him. I saw him greeting them and it was obvious to me that he treated everyone equally. He greeted everyone and did not distinguish between rich and poor, leaders and followers. I thought to myself that if only all people were like Fayiz!
Abu 'Abdullah took Fayiz out of the mosque. I walked by their side as they made their way to the car. I saw Fayiz and the translator joking with each other and thought to myself how insignificant this world was! How many people have not been afflicted with a quarter of Fayiz's problems, and yet they are still unable to overcome their sadness and sorrow!
How about those who have chronic illnesses, such as kidney failure, paralysis, thrombus, diabetes or other impediments? Why don't they enjoy their lives and learn to live with the reality?
How wonderful it is when Allah afflicts His servant and then looks into his heart to find that he is still thankful, pleased and yearning for his reward from Him!
Many days have passed, and yet Fayiz's picture is still embedded in my memory. If Fayiz can be so successful in life and earn the love of people being blind, mute and deaf, then how about the one who has been blessed with a tongue, sight and hearing?
Use your tongue to gain people's love!
Reality...
A man's flesh is not fit for eating nor is his skin fit for clothing-there is nothing in him except the sweetness of his tongue
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JazakAllah khair for sharing something so pure, moving and true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Masha Allah. SubhanAllah. <3
Brought me to tears.
Masha Allah, may Allah reward them for their sabr.
May He guide us to the right path, insha Allah.
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JazakAllah khair for sharing something so pure, moving and true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Masha Allah. SubhanAllah. <3
Brought me to tears.
Masha Allah, may Allah reward them for their sabr.
May He guide us to the right path, insha Allah.
Brought me into to tears too and made me realize many things in this life.
JazkiAllah Khair for reading. I'll +rep once 1 hour passes inshAllah!
I have this book 'Enjoy Your Life' at home which if full of life lessons and tbh it inspired me a lot and made me become a better person, so inshAllah if such stories interests you people I'll make sure to posts few lessons which I found very beneficial!
Thanks for taking few mins of your time reading this. You will be rewarded for it inshAllah. =] :-*
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Brought me into to tears too and made me realize many things in this life.
JazkiAllah Khair for reading. I'll +rep once 1 hour passes inshAllah!
I have this book 'Enjoy Your Life' at home which if full of life lessons and tbh it inspired me a lot and made me become a better person, so inshAllah if such stories interests you people I'll make sure to posts few lessons which I found very beneficial!
Thanks for taking few mins of your time reading this. You will be rewarded for it inshAllah. =] :-*
I will try searching for that book! Tell me names of other books if you know which has beautiful stories like this.
Alhamdullah, I read it. I saw the thread and I was like. . . . I'll read it later (satan's whisper). Thank God you told me to read this. JazakAllah khair. May God bless you for your effort.
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I have the book downloaded also on my laptop. I'll make sure I send it to you and many other references for the things I read.
Yeah it is funny how we all waste our time chatting, watching tv, hanging out with friends, or even watching a youtube video or listening to a song but when it comes to reading something related to Islam we find it very difficult to do so. Yeah shitan's whisper.
I feel the same sometimes but then I remember how the shitan will make me busy with my life and I'll end up missing out the great knowledge.
Reading is truly the key to success and every religion requires reading. That's why we have the Quran, Bible etc and so we must train ourselves to read! :D
May God bless you for encouraging me more to post more. =] <3 :-*
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Insha Allah. I will send you whatever useful I have. ;)
God bless you and keep up with the amazing posts! ^_^ :-*
Will be hunting down some nice books during summer- lemme know what you recommend. ;)
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~Patience is considered the greatest virtue in Islam. Allah (S.W.T) tests us in many ways, but He also gives glad tidings to those who "strive their utmost and preserve patience". At times, when we despair about things like being treated unfairly, a relation breakup, or even getting low grades we should think of people who are afflicted with greater problems. We should thank the Almighty God and invoke His blessings no matter where we are or what we are doing.
Mony, I can't thank you enough for sharing this lesson with us. :)
Allah Bless you.
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Prophet Muhammed(pbuh) said, "Look at the people who are below you and do not look at the people who are above you, so that you do not be greedy or ungrateful of Allah Blessings."
@Amelia, Thank You for reading. +rep after 1 hour! :D
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Yuh are amazing, lady. Thank yuh fer sharing. Glad to have yuh back. =']
JazakAllah khair for sharing something so pure, moving and true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Masha Allah. SubhanAllah. <3
Brought me to tears.
Masha Allah, may Allah reward them for their sabr.
May He guide us to the right path, insha Allah.
^ Seconded. Ameen.
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Yuh are amazing, lady. Thank yuh fer sharing. Glad to have yuh back. =']
^ Seconded. Ameen.
You are the most amazing brother I ever had! :D
I can't imagine my life without such a kind-hearted person who is always there for me and always tries his very best to be a better person for Allah's sake. :D
+rep after I +rep Ameila. :P
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Amazing story,i heard it in jumaa prayer sometime this year,+rep(after 2 hours) ^^
Allah yejziki alf 5air 3ala hal ashya2 el mofeedeh eli sawetelha post,walla el forum nawar bwogodek ^^
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Amazing story,i heard it in jumaa prayer sometime this year,+rep(after 2 hours) ^^
Allah yejziki alf 5air 3ala hal ashya2 el mofeedeh eli sawetelha post,walla el forum nawar bwogodek ^^
Awwwwwww. Wallahi this made my day! :D
Ya Allah..thank you so much bro! Nawar bewgood such amazing people like all of you mashAllah. =]
+rep after Amelia and crooked. :P I'll be having a long list. ! :D
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This is a really touching story. :) Fayiz told us not to sin and to take care of our ears , eyes and tongue yet those are things he lacked ... I can't stop thinking about him.
I'm speechless and All I can say is "Subhan Allah* ... May Allah guide us ALL ..Ameen!
Mony , Thanks for sharing this it taught much more than what I thought it would. :-*
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This is a really touching story. :) Fayiz told us not to sin and to take care of our ears , eyes and tongue yet those are things he lacked ... I can't stop thinking about him.
I'm speechless and All I can say is "Subhan Allah* ... May Allah guide us ALL ..Ameen!
Mony , Thanks for sharing this it taught much more than what I thought it would. :-*
It taught me a lot too. =]
Thanks for reading my love! :D
+rep after 4 hours >> disadvantage of not being an admin anymore. ::) :P
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It taught me a lot too. =]
Thanks for reading my love! :D
+rep after 4 hours >> disadvantage of not being an admin anymore. ::) :P
Yo Welcome :)
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I am deeply touched by this wonderful narrative......people these days have much to thank Allah for.
Jazak Allah for sharing this story with us. :)
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Woaw :) simply Woaw!
+rep granny :)
i hope Allah guide us all to right path :)
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@Mujtabam, thank you for reading! :D
Hope it benefited you in any way like it did to me. =]
+rep but today, tom inshAllah. lol
@Saud, oh la la..I'm impressed! You read ALL of this? :P
+rep tom inshAllah for taking the time to read it. Next time, I'll make it shorter when I post something. =]
Ameen inshAllah. =]
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@Saud, oh la la..I'm impressed! You read ALL of this? :P
+rep tom inshAllah for taking the time to read it. Next time, I'll make it shorter when I post something. =]
Ameen inshAllah. =]
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LOL, yea i did :)
Actually i was gonna ask for a summary but then i realized i spent my whole day chatting and i can't read this thing :( so i read it all ^_^
no don't, the size = reading time worth it ;)
Ameen :)
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LOL, yea i did :)
Actually i was gonna ask for a summary but then i realized i spent my whole day chatting and i can't read this thing :( so i read it all ^_^
no don't, the size = reading time worth it ;)
Ameen :)
Yeah, you get a reward for every min passed by and you were reading this.
Try reading more, later on you'd get used to reading and find out how much fun it is! :D
Good boy Saud. I'm definitely going to +rep you TWICE tom inshAllah! :D
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A very inspiring story... a definite re-read during tough times, for it makes you realize that your difficulties are really very trivial...
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A very inspiring story... a definite re-read during tough times, for it makes you realize that your difficulties are really very trivial...
Glad you liked it. =]
Yeah, very inspiring indeed! :D
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Took me about 10 minutes to read, but its not a waste of time.
Great!!
+rep
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This is simply amazing :)
These words really got me thinking How many people have not been afflicted with a quarter of Fayiz's problems, and yet they are still unable to overcome their sadness and sorrow!
This is so true, Sometimes when we face very little hardships we get all sad and complain that why is it me?
Yet we forget all the rewards Allah has given us, our hands, the ability to talk , read, write, understand, free from any harmful disease, Our family, friends and countless things.
Instead of complaining we should think about people who are in worse situations than us, we have shelter some people dont, we have food to eat and so many other luxuries and some people dont even have enough food for one time.
And how many times did we thank Allah for all that He has given us, even me? Maybe once in two days :-[
"Allah Forgive me and Thank you for giving me whatever you have given me"
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful lesson.
And can you give me the details of that book? please
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The audience came to him to greet him. I saw him greeting them and it was obvious to me that he treated everyone equally. He greeted everyone and did not distinguish between rich and poor, leaders and followers. I thought to myself that if only all people were like Fayiz!
Funny how we treat people differently according to their positions, wealth, looks, skin color or nationality...if we were all like Fayiz...
If Fayiz can be so successful in life and earn the love of people being blind, mute and deaf, then how about the one who has been blessed with a tongue, sight and hearing?
Look at all of us now? Sitting there and speaking about Fayiz. Isn't he just a legend mashAllah although he misses a lot of stuff. Can't we all be like him? In fact we can even be better than him because Allah gave us more! All we have to do is JUST USE IT and not waste it.
@Abod, well yea it takes us 4-5 hours of chatting, 2 hours to watch a movie, 1-3 hours to listen to songs, another 4 hours hanging out with friends and 8 hours of sleep. How many hours left for Allah? Or shall I ask how many MINUTES do we spend daily reading something about Islam or reading the Quran?
Thank YOU for the +rep! :D
Thank you for reading. InshALLAH you'll be rewarded for it. =]
@Angel, not a night I sleep without thanking Allah for every single thing I have..just make a habit. Do you know the night and morning azkars? Because among them are certain dua's for thanking Allah said like :
Allahumma ma asbaha bee min nia'matin, Wa bi-ahadin min khalqik, Faminka wahdaka la shareeka lak, Falakal-hamdu walakash-shukr
O Allah, what blessing I or any of Your creation have risen upon, is from You alone, without partner, so for You is all praise and unto You all thank
And the reply that I'm going to give you for all what you said above is that we LACK one thing..that's : GRATITUDE. This is unfortunately what most of us don't have and because of that we never get satisfied with our lives yet never be happy.
Thank you for reading sister. I am very glad that this benefited you all as mush as it did to me and inshAllah seeing the responds..I'll be posting more useful and inspiring things.
I'll send you the book to download via pm. =]
Jazki Allah khair for reading once again. <3
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When I first read this.. It did touch my heart. But only because I realized how EASY it is to be a great person in this life, yet such a small number of people actually stick with trying to be better people, and are eventually great - most tend to get carried away by worldly desires.
There's a book which I'd recommend everyone to read - although I don't agree with the ideologies the book carries, it definitely has a clear message. The book is called Siddharta, and is very short.
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When I first read this.. It did touch my heart. But only because I realized how EASY it is to be a great person in this life, yet such a small number of people actually stick with trying to be better people, and are eventually great - most tend to get carried away by worldly desires.
There's a book which I'd recommend everyone to read - although I don't agree with the ideologies the book carries, it definitely has a clear message. The book is called Siddharta, and is very short.
Who is the writer?
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siddhartha_(novel)
http://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/2500
http://www.gutenberg.org/files/2500/2500-h/2500-h.htm
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Okay, this time I made it short since the first lesson was very long. =]
I was reading a book called 'Enjoy Your Life' written by the intelligent scholar Dr.Muhammed Al-Arifi and there I learned that we, humans, shouldn't kill ourseleves with grief, for that will not lighten our troubles. How often do you see yourself complaining and others also about problems we have in our lives? Does this make us happier? Does this solve our own problems? No, it doesn't.
Read the following story, Dr.Abdullah had his eldest son went to a wedding party with the entire family in a nearby city, whilest he remained behind in Madinah due to his commitments at the Universaity. On the way back they were involved in a terrible road accident in which they died - all ELEVEN of them!
The Doctor was a righteous man beyond fifty years of age, but nevertheless, a human being with feelings and emotions. He had a heart in his chest, and two weeping eyes and of course a soul that became happy and sad.
When he heard the terrible news, he prayed over them and burried them with his own hands, all eleven of them.
Guests would come to his house and bring coffee along with them, as he didn't have anyone to help him prepare anyhting for them. What is amazing is that if you were to see the man receiving condolences, you would think that he was the one giving condolences, and that the one enduring this tragedy was someone else!
Glory be to the One who gave him patience and made him strong!
He would repeatedly say, "To Allah we belong and to Him we return. It belongs to Allah, whatever He takes or gives. Evertyhing has an appointed time with Allah."
This is the peak of intelligence, for if he did not behave in this manner, he would have died of grief.
Allah swt said : who, when a misfortune confronts them, say: "Surely we belong to Allah and to Him invariably we do return." These are those upon whom are blessings from their Rabb and mercy, and these are themselves the guided.
Surah Al baqraha verse 156-157
Don't complain, don't be depressed, learn to live your life with what you have available because with gratitude you'd earn satisfaction and always be happy.
To all my beloved sisters and brothers, to all the depressed people who got their lives full of problems and sadness, say this dua because it acts like magic :
It was reported from ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No person suffers any anxiety or grief, and says:
‘Allaahumma innee ‘abduka wa ibn ‘abdika wa ibn amatika, naasiyati bi yadika, maadin fiyya hukmuka, ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka, as’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw ista’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘andak an taj’ala al-Qur’aana rabee’ qalbi wa noor sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhahaaba hammi
http://www.makedua.com/display_dua.php?sectionid=34
Let's start being happy from now! =]
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Nice story,+rep ^^
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Nice story,+rep ^^
Fast reader. =]
Thankkkk you! Jazka Allah khair for reading. :D
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Being sad, won't bring that perosn or whatever one has lost back, but it will bring more sadness.
Nice Story
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Great story!
And the man was lucky too! :P
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@AboD, exactly..what's gone is already gone and we MUST accept that.
Thanks for reading!
@MU, lol the man was lucky? Why is that? ::)
He is just lucky for having such characteristic.
Thank you for reading. =]
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Thanks to ALL the great people who read and +repped although not posting in the thread.
AWESOME members. :-*
Don't let my thread be on the second page though..I want more people to read to benefit from this!
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Good stuff. Lock it. ::)
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Good stuff. Lock it. ::)
Why ?
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‘Allaahumma innee ‘abduka wa ibn ‘abdika wa ibn amatika, naasiyati bi yadika, maadin fiyya hukmuka, ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka, as’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika aw ista’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘andak an taj’ala al-Qur’aana rabee’ qalbi wa noor sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhahaaba hammi
http://www.makedua.com/display_dua.php?sectionid=34
Let's start being happy from now! =][/color][/b]
What does this Dua Mean?
Awesome Work
At least i did learn something :)
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@AboD, exactly..what's gone is already gone and we MUST accept that.
Thanks for reading!
@MU, lol the man was lucky? Why is that? ::)
He is just lucky for having such characteristic.
Thank you for reading. =]
"He couldn't attend the wedding party due to the commitments at the university", otherwise he would have died also if he went with them... :P :P
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What does this Dua Mean?
Awesome Work
At least i did learn something :)
‘O Allaah, I am Your servant, son of Your servant, son of Your maidservant, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every name belonging to You which You name Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety.’
Read the translation ?
Oh la la. =] I made the AWESOME Nid learn something..I feel proud. I'm your fan. :D
@MU, looooooool yeah...we just never know what God plans for us and in fact we shouldn't complain about anything in this life cause whatever happens in this world..GOD made it happen for a REASON. =]
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Why ?
If yuh don't want it to reach the second page, lock it. :P
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If yuh don't want it to reach the second page, lock it. :P
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I said be ON the second page of chit-chat. ::)
Very funny. ha ha. ::) :P
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I said be ON the second page of chit-chat. ::)
Very funny. ha ha. ::) :P
Pft. And i thot blah blah. :P
Yuh confuse me. Yuh should get banned. :P
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Pft. And i thot blah blah. :P
Yuh confuse me. Yuh should get banned. :P
hahahaha! Go ahead and try it! :D :P
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‘O Allaah, I am Your servant, son of Your servant, son of Your maidservant, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every name belonging to You which You name Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety.’
Read the translation ?
Oh la la. =] I made the AWESOME Nid learn something..I feel proud. I'm your fan. :D
@MU, looooooool yeah...we just never know what God plans for us and in fact we shouldn't complain about anything in this life cause whatever happens in this world..GOD made it happen for a REASON. =]
I <3 the translation
it said eeverything
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JazakAllah khair for posting something so beautiful. <3333
Teaches us that life is merely a test. (:
May Allah reward us all with patience.
I know people who went through such horrific tragedies and yet their Imaan stays strong. God bless. :D
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Jaziki Allah khair for reading sis. =]
Indeed..it's just a dream which will end at anytime and we wake up to face reality.
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I woke up early today, excited about all I get to do before the clock strikes the midnight. I have responsibilities to fulfill today. My job is to choose what kind of day i'm going to have.
I can complain because the weather is rainy or I can be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free. Today, I can feel sad that I dont have more money, or be glad taht my finances encourage me to plan my purchases wisely guide me away from waste. Today I ca grumble about my health, or I can rejoice that I am alive. Today I can lament over all my parents didn't give me when I was a child, or I can be grateful that they allowed me to born.
Today I can cry because roses have thorns, or I can celebrate that thorns have roses. Today, I can whinde because I have a job, or I can shout for joy because I have a job to do! Today I can complain because I have to go to school, or I can eagerly open my mind and fill it with new tidbits of knowledge.
Today I can murmur dejectedly because I have to do housework, or I can feel honored because the Lord has provided shelter for my mind and soul. Today stretches ahead of me waiting to be shaped and here I'am the sculptor who gets to do the shaping. Whats today will be like is up to me. I get to choose what kind of day I will have. ~ Richard Carlson
So, why choose the path of complaint over the path of gratitude? Being grateful or being overextended~ Dont sweat the small stuff, please!!
"And this life of the world is only amusement and play! Verily, the home of the Hereafter, that is the life indeed (i.e. the eternal life that will never end), if they knew"
(Al-Ankabut:64)
Prophet Muhammed(pbuh) said, "Look at the people who are below you and do not look at the people who are above you, so that you do not be greedy or ungrateful of Allah Blessings."
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Nice
People who are complaining about everything, Its useless, you're just wasting your time. Enjoy what you already have, and don't
ask for more.
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MashAllah this is PURE AWESOMENESS !!
+ rep <3
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Nice story,you should be happy with what allah gave you :)
Keep up up shoushou, +rep ^^
Wow,only Arabs posted up until now,all of the Arabs i know here,men zaman 3anek GG,keef msawya?
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+rep, after I spread Love :P wait for 2 hours
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Nice story,you should be happy with what allah gave you :)
Keep up up shoushou, +rep ^^
Wow,only Arabs posted up until now,all of the Arabs i know here,men zaman 3anek GG,keef msawya?
I'm Proud of y'all ::) :P ..... Alhamdulilah I'm great ;D ,keefak inta ? ;)
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Yeah! God doesn't give everyone everything.
I might be smart but not very good looking. I might be rich but not very smart. I might be all 3 but I have family problems.
Perfection does NOT exist and you gotta accept that and move on. =]
Thanks for reading LOVELY people! :D
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Perfection is found inside yourself when you do your best and make people around you happy,thats what I believe ^^
@GG: Alhamdulilah ana zay el fol kaman,iA 3ala 6ool ;D
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LOOOOL GG and Hush..you are talking in the Egyptian accent. :P
Our imperfections is what makes us perfect. Being perfect is being abnormal. =]
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I love talking in the Egyption accent,esp on the internet :O
Maaaaaaan,you're too wise for someone in your age :o
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Maaaaaaan,you're too wise for someone in your age
I heard that for like the..umm..100th time? LOL!
People get a heart attack when they know I was just 17 and turned 18 2 weeks back. :-\
I'll take that as a compliment although I feel like a granny at times. :P
LOOOOL but you'd sound really funny if you talk in the egyptian accent in real life. Aslan the accent itself is so funny!:D
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Kol 3am ow enti be2alf 5air ^^
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Thank YOU! :D
I still believe age is just a number and nothing more. ::)
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Best lesson so far!!!!! ;D Keep on posting these awesome lessons more!
Thank yuh!!
+rep to you after an hour ;)
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Best lesson so far!!!!! ;D Keep on posting these awesome lessons more!
Thank yuh!!
+rep to you after an hour ;)
Really? :D I thought the tongue one was the best one though.
Thanks for reading and inshAllah I'll keep posting them hoping everyone benefits like I do! =]
Thank YOU. :D
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LOOOOL GG and Hush..you are talking in the Egyptian accent. :P
Our imperfections is what makes us perfect. Being perfect is being abnormal. =]
Ana my bff masreeya so she tells don''t speak egyptian inti bitikalimi zai 2issa3eeda T_T
LOL xD ..O lamma heeya titkalam kaleeji titkalam zai 2ilbadoo ::) ;D :D
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Ana my bff masreeya so she tells don''t speak egyptian inti bitikalimi zai 2issa3eeda T_T
LOL xD ..O lamma heeya titkalam kaleeji titkalam zai 2ilbadoo ::) ;D :D
LOOOOOOOOL! That made me laugh!
Sa3eedi people are hilarious. My mom's origins are from there but she never went there always stayed in Cairo. :P
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LOOOOOOOOL! That made me laugh!
Sa3eedi people are hilarious. My mom's origins are from there but she never went there always stayed in Cairo. :P
;D
Nice xD .... 3ala feekra Ana shooft katheer sa3aeeda O egyptians in general fi makka O ilmedina ..MashAllah :D
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Yea, now is their time to perform umrah and all. They are simple and kind people! They get angry easily though. Hot tempered, I must say. ::)
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Yea, now is their time to perform umrah and all. They are simple and kind people! They get angry easily though. Hot tempered, I must say. ::)
MashAllah :D ... LOL xD
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nice
thaxx for sharing mony
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nice
thaxx for sharing mony
Thanks for reading. =]
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Perfection does NOT exist and you gotta accept that and move on. =]
Precision exists yeah ?
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Precision exists yeah ?
Indeed, BUT does that apply to humans or objects ? =]
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Indeed, BUT does that apply to humans or objects ? =]
Because we are precise, so is everything else.
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Because we are precise, so is everything else.
We are precise, so does that make us perfect ?
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We are precise, so does that make us perfect ?
When did I tell we are perfect ? ;)
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When did I tell we are perfect ? ;)
And when did I tell that you said that we are perfect? :P
It was just a question I asked. =]
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And when did I tell that you said that we are perfect? :P
It was just a question I asked. =]
There was an answer in my question. :P
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Thanks for reading. =]
one thing i need to say is that nothing is worthy without reading
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There was an answer in my question. :P
I expect a direct answer for a direct question. :P
@EMO, ah. So I assume you like to read a lot. =]
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I expect a direct answer for a direct question. :P
@EMO, ah. So I assume you like to read a lot. =]
ya i do read
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ya i do read
Make sure you read all my long lessons then! :D
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I woke up early today, excited about all I get to do before the clock strikes the midnight. I have responsibilities to fulfill today. My job is to choose what kind of day i'm going to have.
I can complain because the weather is rainy or I can be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free. Today, I can feel sad that I dont have more money, or be glad taht my finances encourage me to plan my purchases wisely guide me away from waste. Today I ca grumble about my health, or I can rejoice that I am alive. Today I can lament over all my parents didn't give me when I was a child, or I can be grateful that they allowed me to born.
Today I can cry because roses have thorns, or I can celebrate that thorns have roses. Today, I can whinde because I have a job, or I can shout for joy because I have a job to do! Today I can complain because I have to go to school, or I can eagerly open my mind and fill it with new tidbits of knowledge.
Today I can murmur dejectedly because I have to do housework, or I can feel honored because the Lord has provided shelter for my mind and soul. Today stretches ahead of me waiting to be shaped and here I'am the sculptor who gets to do the shaping. Whats today will be like is up to me. I get to choose what kind of day I will have. ~ Richard Carlson
So, why choose the path of complaint over the path of gratitude? Being grateful or being overextended~ Dont sweat the small stuff, please!!
"And this life of the world is only amusement and play! Verily, the home of the Hereafter, that is the life indeed (i.e. the eternal life that will never end), if they knew"
(Al-Ankabut:64)
Prophet Muhammed(pbuh) said, "Look at the people who are below you and do not look at the people who are above you, so that you do not be greedy or ungrateful of Allah Blessings."
JazakAllah khair for sharing this, Mony love! <3333333333 Such beautiful words.
Brought me to tears. Before coming across to this, just few minutes ago, my Mom told me that this man (he looked very professional-wearing tux) lost his job and was asking for money and he had 4 children. I can't explain how badly my heart is broken. Please do pray for him cos that is all I can do. :( :'(
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Make sure you read all my long lessons then! :D
ya i do that too
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I expect a direct answer for a direct question. :P
@EMO, ah. So I assume you like to read a lot. =]
Everything may not be up to your expectations. :P
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JazakAllah khair for sharing this, Mony love! <3333333333 Such beautiful words.
Brought me to tears. Before coming across to this, just few minutes ago, my Mom told me that this man (he looked very professional-wearing tux) lost his job and was asking for money and he had 4 children. I can't explain how badly my heart is broken. Please do pray for him cos that is all I can do. :( :'(
Ya Allah...all my prayers with that man. Do you know him? Do you know where he lives ?
Thank YOU for reading sister. =]
@Ance, I didn't say everything..I just said you're question. =]
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Ya Allah...all my prayers with that man. Do you know him? Do you know where he lives ?
Thank YOU for reading sister. =]
@Ance, I didn't say everything..I just said you're question. =]
No, my Mom saw him on her way home. She was so depressed after it cos she didn't have money with her that time.
When she told me, I just cried. I felt so bad. :'(
We've gifted with so many things, instead of being thankful to God . . . we ask for more. :(
I will keep praying for him. That's all I can do right now.
Keep up posting such amazing stories! <3
JazakAllah khair for sharing. (:
By the way, when will you be leaving?
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I see. Yeah..it breaks my heart seeing those who suffer.
Alhamdolilah we are just so BLESSED and tbh..if I write down how much Allah gave me the list would NEVER ever end..my mind won't even be able to take it for how big it will be.
I'll post a new lesson now. =] I started reading already and just these 2 days I learned a lot of new things..I must say learning never has an end!
Leaving where ?
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I see. Yeah..it breaks my heart seeing those who suffer.
Alhamdolilah we are just so BLESSED and tbh..if I write down how much Allah gave me the list would NEVER ever end..my mind won't even be able to take it for how big it will be.
I'll post a new lesson now. =] I started reading already and just these 2 days I learned a lot of new things..I must say learning never has an end!
Leaving where ?
So true. Alhamdullah for everything. (:
I shall read it first. Life itself is learning experience. :D
Egypt! :P
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he3 he3 he3 ;D
I'm in Egypt now! This explains the reason for not being active for the past two days.
I'll travel to another city tom or after for the beach n all isA. 8)
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he3 he3 he3 ;D
I'm in Egypt now! This explains the reason for not being active for the past two days.
I'll travel to another city tom or after for the beach n all isA. 8)
Ohhhhhhh. . . . :o No wonder! :P
Insha Allah. . . I already planned a sleep-over with my cousins! :D :P
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Another good lesson I came across when I was in the airport waiting for the airplane and I must say the final quote under ART made me realize a lot... really a lot.
The other lessons I posted are here : https://studentforums.biz/chit-chat/lesson-1-the-tongue-is-king-(must-read)/
I will join all my lessons in one thread after posting it for few days. =]
"Most of the people with whom we mix, no matter how evil they may be, will always have some good in them, even if it be relatively little. In such cases, if we are able to access their good qualities, then that is for the best.
A criminal may be known for climbing over into people’s houses and stealing their property in order to give some of it to the destitute and the orphans, or even to build mosques therewith! Likewise a woman may see some orphans starving, so she fornicates to earn some money to stave their hunger, or a person carrying a knife to stab someone, then he sees a child or a woman, and his heart melts so he drops the knife! Therefore, you should deal with the people in accordance with what you know of good from them, before thinking badly of them. Our beloved Prophet, Muhammad PBUH was known for his character of making excuses for those who err, and thinking good of those who sin. When he would come across a sinful person, he would first look at the aspects of his faith, then look at the aspects of his whims and disobedience. He would not have bad thoughts about anyone. He would treat them all as his own sons and brothers.
When you deal with people, be just. Remember the good that they have, and make them feel that their evil has not made you forget their good. This will bring them closer to you."
Art…
Before you begin to uproot the ‘tree of evil’ in others, look for the ‘tree of good’ and water it…
Written by : Dr.Mohammed AlArifi
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Good stuff. But here's an advise. Why don't yuh simply create one thread where yuh post all the lessons ? ::)
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Good stuff. But here's an advise. Why don't yuh simply create one thread where yuh post all the lessons ? ::)
New threads looks more interesting. =]
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You can change the people around you not by your words but rather by your good manners.
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr: "The Prophet never used bad language neither a 'Fahish nor a Mutafahish. He used to say 'The best amongst you are those who have the best manners and character.' (Translation of Sahih Bukhari)
Non-Muslims who used to fight to Prophet pbuh when spreading Islam would convert to Islam ONLY because of the Prophet's sallah Allah aliho w salam manners.
Be an example to others, fix your manners and your religion rather than blaming other people and criticising them. If you want to change this world for the better, START from yourself and TRUST me, you'll make a difference inshAllah. =] ?
^ Something which I wrote on my FB page and I think it suits this topic.
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Another good lesson I came across when I was in the airport waiting for the airplane and I must say the final quote under ART made me realize a lot... really a lot.
The other lessons I posted are here : https://studentforums.biz/chit-chat/lesson-1-the-tongue-is-king-(must-read)/
I will join all my lessons in one thread after posting it for few days. =]
"Most of the people with whom we mix, no matter how evil they may be, will always have some good in them, even if it be relatively little. In such cases, if we are able to access their good qualities, then that is for the best.
A criminal may be known for climbing over into people’s houses and stealing their property in order to give some of it to the destitute and the orphans, or even to build mosques therewith! Likewise a woman may see some orphans starving, so she fornicates to earn some money to stave their hunger, or a person carrying a knife to stab someone, then he sees a child or a woman, and his heart melts so he drops the knife! Therefore, you should deal with the people in accordance with what you know of good from them, before thinking badly of them. Our beloved Prophet, Muhammad PBUH was known for his character of making excuses for those who err, and thinking good of those who sin. When he would come across a sinful person, he would first look at the aspects of his faith, then look at the aspects of his whims and disobedience. He would not have bad thoughts about anyone. He would treat them all as his own sons and brothers.
When you deal with people, be just. Remember the good that they have, and make them feel that their evil has not made you forget their good. This will bring them closer to you."
Art…
Before you begin to uproot the ‘tree of evil’ in others, look for the ‘tree of good’ and water it…
Written by : Dr.Mohammed AlArifi
Amazing! Keep it up, sis! <33333333333333333 :-*
Crooked- I wanted to post 1st! >:(
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"It is wrong for a person to accuse anyone else of something wrong except with full knowledge and tangible proof."
As Muslims, the default assumption we should have about other people in any matter is that they are free of blame. Islam demands fairness and impartiality when it comes to judging others.
Allah says: "And when you speak, then be just, though it be (against) a relative." [Sûrah al-An`âm: 152]
He also says: "O you who believe! stand out firmly for Allah, as witnesses to fair dealing, and let not the hatred of any people make you swerve to wrong and depart from justice. Be just: that is next to piety: and fear Allah. For Allah is well-acquainted with all that you do. " [Sûrah al-Mâ'idah: 8]
It is wrong for a person to accuse anyone else of something wrong except with full knowledge and tangible proof. It is forbidden to base a judgment against someone on hearsay, conjecture or suspicion.
Allah says: "O you who believe! If a wicked person comes to you with any news, ascertain the truth, lest you harm people unwittingly, and afterwards become full of repentance for what you have done." [Sûrah al-Hujurât: 5]
He also warns us: "O you who believe! Shun much suspicion; for lo! some suspicion is a sin." [Sûrah al-Hujurât: 12]
In those cases where one is compelled to mention another person's faults, it is best to mention that person's good points as well. It is wrong to exaggerate the importance of the person's error or stress the fault too much, especially if it is possible that the error was an honest mistake or in a matter where the truth is not 100% clear.
If a person's error is clearly manifest and established by solid evidence, then it is not wrong to warn people against the error and clarify the truth. However, that correction must be carried out appropriately, in a gentle manner that does not drive people away. The mistake itself should be corrected without delving into anything beyond that. For example, the person who made the mistake should not be accused of having bad intentions or an evil motive.
Al-Dhahabî, speaking about the mistakes of the scholars, said the following: [Siyar al-A`lâm al-Nubalâ' (14/374)]:
If we were to discredit every person who made mistake in judgment or declare those people as innovators – people who are essentially of good faith and sincerely seek the truth – then scarcely would any of our scholars be spared.
Speaking about Qatâdah – the illustrious Successor – he said [Siyar al-A`lâm al-Nubalâ' (2/271)]:
He was one who asserted human free will to the extent of denying Divine Decree over human actions. We ask Allah to protect us from such ideas. On the other hand, no one ever doubted his honesty in the least, or his integrity, or the strength of his memory. It is quite possible that Allah forgives the likes of him for falling into certain innovated ideas with no other intention but to glorify Allah and to hold Him far above (the bad deeds that people commit.) Allah is the judge who is just and merciful towards His servants. He is not to be asked about what He does.
We should keep in mind that people of knowledge, intelligence, integrity, and piety – who are meticulous in investigating matters and who are quite often correct in their conclusions – they are to be pardoned when they err in their judgment on occasion.
Their good qualities and good work should not be dismissed. Of course, we do not follow what is shown to be wrong, regardless of who the mistake came from. However, we do not use it to discredit the good that a person has done.
And Allah knows best.
http://fight4allah.blogspot.com/2008/08/judging-others.html
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Amazing! Keep it up, sis! <33333333333333333 :-*
Crooked- I wanted to post 1st! >:(
Thanks for reading. =]
This quote made me think a lot >> Before you begin to uproot the ‘tree of evil’ in others, look for the ‘tree of good’ and water it…
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Reminded me of three Hadiths which I'd like to share:
*Whoever builds a house for Allah, Allah will build a house for him in Paradise
Mahmud ibn Labid (rha) reported that Uthman ibn ‘Affan (ra) decided to rebuild the Mosque (of Allah’s Messenger in Medina) but the people did not like this idea and they wished that it should be preserved in the original form. So Uthman said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (sa) say: “He who builds a mosque for Allah, Allah would build for him (a house) in Paradise like it.”
[Sahih Muslim, Book 042, Number 7110]
*True richness is the richness of the soul
Narrated Abu Huraira (ra): The Prophet (sa) said, “Richness is not having many possessions. Rather, true richness is the richness of the soul.”
[Sahih Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 76, Number 453]
*There is nothing heavier on the scale than good character
Narrated Abu Darda: The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: “There is nothing heavier upon the scale of a believer (on the Day of Judgment) than good character.”
[Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 41, Number 4781]
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Thanks for reading. =]
This quote made me think a lot >> Before you begin to uproot the ‘tree of evil’ in others, look for the ‘tree of good’ and water it…
Wow. :o
Amazing. :o
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*True richness is the richness of the soul
Narrated Abu Huraira (ra): The Prophet (sa) said, “Richness is not having many possessions. Rather, true richness is the richness of the soul.”
[Sahih Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 76, Number 453]
*There is nothing heavier on the scale than good character
Narrated Abu Darda: The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: “There is nothing heavier upon the scale of a believer (on the Day of Judgment) than good character.”
[Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 41, Number 4781]
Awesome ones. MashAllah!
+rep for sharing. Jazaki Allah khair. :D
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Glad to share! ^^
This is mainly for Crooky! :P
Others will benefit from it too! :D
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Glad to share! ^^
This is mainly for Crooky! :P
Others will benefit from it too! :D
Awwwww. This is so beautiful, MA. Thank yuh fer sharing. :')
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Awwwww. This is so beautiful, MA. Thank yuh fer sharing. :')
I am glad you finally read it! :P :D
No problem-o! :D
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Good stuff ^*
+rep mony ;)
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@Romeesa, niiiice! Imam Al shafui is a great man. <3
@Hush, thanks for giving some of your time to read this. God bless you. =]
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Nice lesson
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Nice lesson
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Thank you thank you thank you! You are awesome AbOd.
I always make you read my lessons ghaz men 3anak. :P AND you read them because you are so nice. :D
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Secrret: I've already read it, yes before sending it to me in a pm :P
but was too lazy to leave a comment :P
Thanks :P
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Secrret: I've already read it, yes before sending it to me in a pm :P
but was too lazy to leave a comment :P
Thanks :P
>:( YA KASLAN!
God..dude. ::) Comments are very important to me..I need to know if people like what I post or not. I need to know if I should go on or stop.
Mr.Kaslan. ::)
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Nah, everything is okay, I like them all :P
just keep posting, even if you didn't see my comment :P but I will make sure, to leave a comment :P , so no worries :P
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Zombie. ::)
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meh?
:P
Bwaataaatttajhhh <----- Zombie :P
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hahaha..you also know how they sound ? You are really one of them. :-X
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Just guessing, because they don't talk :P
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Just guessing, because they don't talk :P
So you even know what goes around in their minds. You ARE one of them. :-X
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^Weirdo :P
Whatever you say.
I'm one of them, Either run or join me :P
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Weirdness is coolness. 8)
LOOOOL..I'd rather run. :P Be careful not to face the sun or else you'll explode and die. :P
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Now you know everything, Zombie :P
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Yeah I know everything about zombies like you. :D :P
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Thats what i wanted to know from you :P
Zombie :P
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When I was reading this I was like this is from the book " kai tastamti3 bi7ayatak" written by Sheik Mohammed Al3areefi o.O , isn't that true ? ...I read about Quarter of the book and it was AWESOME , I recommend it , I'm sure you'll ADORE it ;)
I was talking to my sister the other day about a friend who has done wrong to me ..You know what she told me ,you shouldn't be sad because that person did this , if you think of this person as an "Evil" person for doing this to you then you'll hate that person , so don't do that just think that this quality "say it's taking advantage of other people" is just one of his Faults as in think of the Person as a "Sinner" ,that way you'll feel sorry for her and eventually pray for her <3
+ Rep ..You never fail to impress me <3
KEEP GOING girl !!!
Last but not Least ... JAZAKI ALLAHU KULLA KAIR ya u5tah :P :-*
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Gigi! :o 3andik ketab esmo estmta3 ba7itak ? LOL this is a lesson from it and most of my previous lessons were from there. I wrote it down there that it's written by Dr.Muhammed Al-Arifi, bas mine is the English version. I am reading it. =] 'Enjoy your Life' howa esmo.
Ah so true. Not forgiving a person or remembering what bad he/she had done to you is like carrying a heavy stone in your heart. Imagine yourself carrying a heavy stone? A very big heavy one? You'd get exhausted yes? Well, that's how your heart feels when you don't forgive. Every time you remember how bad they treated you..how awful they were with you..your heart burns with pain, that's why it is just best to throw away that heavy stone and that will happen by learning how to forgive, because it doesn't get you anywhere when you don't forgive and hate. It doesn't get you back what you lost and it doesn't make you happy or satisfied either.
You never fail to make me fall in love with you more and more everyday. =] God bless you Gigi. You have a very kind heart and a beautiful soul mashAllah. <3
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Gigi! :o 3andik ketab esmo estmta3 ba7itak ? LOL this is a lesson from it and most of my previous lessons were from there. I wrote it down there that it's written by Dr.Muhammed Al-Arifi, bas mine is the English version. I am reading it. =] 'Enjoy your Life' howa esmo.
Ah so true. Not forgiving a person or remembering what bad he/she had done to you is like carrying a heavy stone in your heart. Imagine yourself carrying a heavy stone? A very big heavy one? You'd get exhausted yes? Well, that's how your heart feels when you don't forgive. Every time you remember how bad they treated you..how awful they were with you..your heart burns with pain, that's why it is just best to throw away that heavy stone and that will happen by learning how to forgive, because it doesn't get you anywhere when you don't forgive and hate. It doesn't get you back what you lost and it doesn't make you happy or satisfied either.
You never fail to make me fall in love with you more and more everyday. =] God bless you Gigi. You have a very kind heart and a beautiful soul mashAllah. <3
Bizabt ;D ..Billa .... Ana niseet showai min 2ilcontent of the book :-[ ..MashAllah Our translator <3
Nice <3
I'm flattered :-[ ... Fideetch Wallah <3
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Bizabt ;D ..Billa .... Ana niseet showai min 2ilcontent of the book :-[ ..MashAllah Our translator <3
Nice <3
I'm flattered :-[ ... Fideetch Wallah <3
Read it again then! And try to apply the lessons he got their on your OWN life. I try to change my bad habits as much as I can. For example..I used to judge people a lot before but now I'm trying my best not to.
LOOOL la2..shoofi >> http://islamfuture.wordpress.com/2010/05/23/enjoy-your-life-by-dr-muhammad-abd-al-rahman-al-arifi/
Ya3ni eh fideetch By the way? :P
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Read it again then! And try to apply the lessons he got their on your OWN life. I try to change my bad habits as much as I can. For example..I used to judge people a lot before but now I'm trying my best not to.
LOOOL la2..shoofi >> http://islamfuture.wordpress.com/2010/05/23/enjoy-your-life-by-dr-muhammad-abd-al-rahman-al-arifi/
Ya3ni eh fideetch By the way? :P
LOL InsAhllah :D
Oops ::) xD ..Thanks for sharing :D ..Didn't know it existed in English :D
Fideetch bileimarati means like 7abeebti inti Or something " i.e. fidaki biroo7i" type of thing :)
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It does. I have the English version at home! :D
Ahhhh ana 2olt kedao bardo fidaki ya3ni bas 2olt at2akad. :P It's Kuwaiti though yes?
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It does. I have the English version at home! :D
Ahhhh ana 2olt kedao bardo fidaki ya3ni bas 2olt at2akad. :P It's Kuwaiti though yes?
:D ;D
LOL xD ...la2 it's emarati ::) xD
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:D ;D
LOL xD ...la2 it's emarati ::) xD
I don't think it differs. Kolo khaliji fel akhar. :P
Bas el Kuwaitis are the ones who add 'ch' at the end of their words. =/
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I don't think it differs. Kolo khaliji fel akhar. :P
Bas el Kuwaitis are the ones who add 'ch' at the end of their words. =/
LOL even Emirati people do the "ch" part too :)
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Amazing thanks for Sharing ::)
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Amazing thanks for Sharing ::)
Can't believe..you read it.
Thank YOU Saud.Cute.Bacha.Hai. =]
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A story which reminded me of the Power of the Tongue lesson. :D
A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead.
The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.
The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, “Did you not hear us?” The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.
There is power in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day. On the contrary, a destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill them. Be careful of what you say - especially to yourself.
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A story which reminded me of the Power of the Tongue lesson. :D
A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead.
The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.
The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, “Did you not hear us?” The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.
There is power in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day. On the contrary, a destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill them. Be careful of what you say - especially to yourself.
This a beautiful story. <3
Thanks for sharing. =]
It's very true that our words matter a lot and we should always be careful with what we are saying.
I'll be posting a new lesson soon, but first Romeesa..I'm reading the things you sent to my pm! :D
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This a beautiful story. <3
Thanks for sharing. =]
It's very true that our words matter a lot and we should always be careful with what we are saying.
I'll be posting a new lesson soon, but first Romeesa..I'm reading the things you sent to my pm! :D
Welcome!!! :D Glad to share!!! :D
So true. This is one of my main problems. . . When I get angry, I say mean things which I don't mean to. :(
I will work more on it, IA. :D
Enjoy reading them!!! :D
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@shoshou..Mony :thanks alot for the amazing stories u've shared with us.+rep ;D ;D ;D
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Welcome!!! :D Glad to share!!! :D
So true. This is one of my main problems. . . When I get angry, I say mean things which I don't mean to. :(
I will work more on it, IA. :D
Enjoy reading them!!! :D
Ditto :-X ..inshAllah will work on it to ..good luck ;)
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Ditto :-X ..inshAllah will work on it to ..good luck ;)
We are travelling on the same boat then! :-[
Good luck! ;) :D
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Okay =] ^
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@shoshou..Mony :thanks alot for the amazing stories u've shared with us.+rep ;D ;D ;D
I'm very glad you liked them!
Thank YOU for reading and I do wish to know you better soon. :D
@Gigi n Romeesa, yeah..we all tend to say things that we never mean when getting angry. :(
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I'm very glad you liked them!
Thank YOU for reading and I do wish to know you better soon. :D
@Gigi n Romeesa, yeah..we all tend to say things that we never mean when getting angry. :(
ofcorse
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MASHALLAH THIS STORIES ARE AMAZING!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH MONY...THERE ARE JUST SO MANY THINGs WE DONT KNOW DAT CUD ACTUALLY DRAG US TO HELL FIRE.. pls continue wid da amazing work dat u do!
MASHALLAH!...thank u soo much for sharing!!!!
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MASHALLAH THIS STORIES ARE AMAZING!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH MONY...THERE ARE JUST SO MANY THINGs WE DONT KNOW DAT CUD ACTUALLY DRAG US TO HELL FIRE.. pls continue wid the amazing work dat u do!
MASHALLAH!...thank u soo much for sharing!!!!
Awwww 7abibity..<33333
Thank YOU for taking some of your time to read them. InshAllah I'll post soon more. =]
Nikita-chan >>> You ROCK! :D
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Awwww 7abibity..<33333
Thank YOU for taking some of your time to read them. InshAllah I'll post soon more. =]
Nikita-chan >>> You ROCK! :D
no mony..u ROCK way more dan i do.. MASHALLAH..and i pray dat u always remain "da awesomeness" dat u are!!! :-* :-* :-*( all my prayers hugs and kisses are for you!)
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no mony..u ROCK way more dan i do.. MASHALLAH..and i pray dat u always remain "the awesomeness" dat u are!!! :-* :-* :-*( all my prayers hugs and kisses are for you!)
Nooooo! Sis, you are have no idea how much your sweetness touched me deep inside that heart of mine,wallah. People like you are the reason who I am right now. People like you are what keeps me happy and alive in this world ,and people like you motivate me and encourage me all the time.
I really feel like crying now because you REALLY make me happy. Thank YOU because what matters to me the MOST is that this knowledge doesn't benefit me alone, rather it benefits also my brothers and sisters. :'(
Don't ever call yourself melodrama because you haven't discovered how dramatic I get. :'( :'( :'(
I love you Nikita-Chan. You are added to my list of people whom I admire. I'm your fan. <333
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you had to make me cry... :'( :'( :'(..... didnt u? *talk about being dramatic*
jus got 3 words 4 u- i love you a hell lot dan u can evr luv me and no matter wat u say nothing CAN EVER CHANGE THAT!..Okay soo it was more dan 3 words byt yeah wateveru got da point rite!!!
i love you too monica chan!!!
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I read about a young Muslim in Britain who came across an advertisement by a company looking for escorts. He went to the interview to find a group of young men comprised of Muslims and non-Muslims. The interviewees were entering into the interview room one after the other, and every time a person would come out, those waiting outside would ask, “What did they ask you? What did you say?”
One of the important questions they asked the interviewees was, “How much alcohol do you drink a day?” When the young man’s turn came, h entered and began to answer their questions. During the session, they asked the same question.
The young man thought to himself that perhaps he should lie and say that he drinks alcohol like the rest of the young men, just so that they would not think that he was a strict Muslim. He also contemplated speaking the truth and saying, “I am a Muslim and Allah has forbidden me from drinking alcohol. Therefore, I do not drink.”
After some quick thinking, he decided to speak the truth. Thus, he said, “I do not drink.”
They said, “Why? Are you ill?”
He said, “No, but rather because I am a Muslim and alcohol
is forbidden for me.”
They said, “Meaning, you don’t drink? Even on the weekends?”
He said, “Yes. I do not drink at all.”
They looked at each other in surprise. When the results were published, his name was top of the list! He began to work with them and several months passed. One day, he spoke to one of the interviewers and asked him, “Why did you ask questions about alcohol consumption?”
He said, “Because the job is to do with escorting, and every time we have employed a young man, we would be surprised to discover that he drank and got drunk. When we realised that you do not drink, we knew that we got the person we were looking for, and hence we employed you!”
How wonderful it is to stick to your principles, despite temptations! The problem is that we live in a society where it is difficult to find those who stick to their principles – people who live and die for them, those who rigidly adhere to them in the face of temptations.
If you follow the right method and adhere to the straight path, then those who believe in different principles will never leave you alone. Whenever you refuse a bribe, the friends who are attempting to bribe you are angered. Whenever you refuse to indulge in illicit sexual relations, those who do indulge in them will become upset with you.
It is related that ‘Umar bin al-Khattab – may Allah be pleased with him – was once on a night patrol. He passed by a house in the darkest part of the night and heard the people therein laughing and fooling around as if they were drunk. He did not wish to knock at their door at night and feared he might have wrongly assumed that they were drunk. He therefore wished to ascertain the matter. He therefore took a piece of coal, made a mark on the door, and left. The owner of the house heard something at the door, so he went out and noticed the mark. He looked up to see the back of ‘Umar and understood what had happened. What he should have done was to wipe out the mark and that would have been the end of the matter. But he didn’t do that. Instead, he took the piece of coal and went to his neighbours’ houses, leaving marks on their doors! It was as if he wanted the people to be as base as him by being drunk like him, instead of wanting to raise himself to their level!
There is an idiom which says, “A fornicating woman wishes that all women fornicated like her.” Sometimes you may find that a wife habitually lies to her husband. She has been cultured to be a habitual liar from a very young age. When she comes across someone who criticises her for that and advises her to speak the truth, she will try to drag her to her side of the fence. She would insist, “This is all you can do with men! You cannot live with them except by lying to them.” Some women listening to this may begin to give up their principles and change while others may remain firm on their principles.
A grocer, for example, may not sell cigarettes, but then his friend comes to him and advises him to sell cigarettes to increase his profits and puts doubts in his mind to convince him of his opinion. Be brave and stick to your principles. Say in a loud voice, “Never! No matter what the temptations!”
In the past, some disbelievers tried to make the Messenger of Allah pbuh give up some of his principles, and hence, Allah said, “They wish that you compromise, so they too can compromise.”
Meaning, that the disbelievers who worship idols have no principles to adhere to, and hence, they see no difficulty in giving anything up. So be wary of them ever tempting you to lose grip of your principles.
Methodology
Allah says, “Do not obey those who reject the truth. They
wish that you compromise, so they too can compromise.”
Written By : Dr.Muhammed Al-Arifi
You have your OWN principles, you have your OWN beliefs and you have your STRONG personality, so you do NOT get affected by the people around you. You are the one who have an influence on them because they are weak but you are NOT weak. You are strong enough to say NO to those who offer you a cigirattes or ask you to join them in the forbidden.
Thank you for reading. You can read the other lessons following this link >> https://studentforums.biz/chit-chat/lesson-1-the-tongue-is-king-(must-read)/
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you had to make me cry... :'( :'( :'(..... didnt u? *talk about being dramatic*
jus got 3 words 4 u- i love you a hell lot dan u can evr luv me and no matter wat u say nothing CAN EVER CHANGE THAT!..Okay soo it was more dan 3 words byt yeah wateveru got the point rite!!!
i love you too monica chan!!!
hahahahaha...you never fail to crack me!
Thank you 7abibity...<333
And I posted a new lesson for you since you wanted me to post more. =] It's in a new thread.
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Thanks mony! Great lesson!
May Allah guide us in the right path and keep us away from all the sins.
Thanks mony! Keep us updated with new lessons!
+Rep!
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JAzakallah Khair for Sharing with us :)
+rep :) and should be on top of the chit-chat :P
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Mony that was a really good Article mashAllah and You have seriously made me believe that book is Indeed worth me reading it all over again but with actually Applying what he says in it. *you know Ana kasalt to eno I read it marra taneeya tbh ,Bas I know now that it's very important for me to read it :) *
Mony , Ana 3indi story bas I'll send it to you via PMs since it's a bit personal ;)
JAZAKI ALLAHU KULLA KAIR <3 Allah guide us ALL :)
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@MU, Amen. =]
I'm writing a lesson myself and will be sharing it soon inshAllah. =] Thank YOU for giving some of your time to read this. God bless you. :D
@Saud, lol..well if you guys post here it'll always be in the top page. :P
This lesson teaches a lot and it taught me A LOT.
The more you stick to your principles and beliefs, the more people respect you for who you are.
Thanks for the rep. =]
@Gigi, yes..I really loved his book. It taught me A LOT. <333
Thank you for the lovely pm. God bless you gigi. I love you very much. :-*
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You're Welcome <3 <3 :* ... Ditto , May Allah bless you hun <3
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As always, AMAZINGGGG <333
JazakAllah khair fer sharing<333
May Allah (swt) bless you, my dear! :D
:-*
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As always, AMAZINGGGG <333
JazakAllah khair fer sharing<333
May Allah (swt) bless you, my dear! :D
:-*
Was waiting for your comment. =]
Thank you for reading love....<333
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Was waiting for your comment. =]
Thank you for reading love....<333
Awww!!! I saw the thread but wanted to read it at the right time! :D
Always will! Keep it up, sis! <333
God bless you always! :D
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Thank yuh so much, lady. Great stuff, MashAllah.
Keep em coming. =]
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A little boy came up to his mother in the kitchen one evening while she was fixing supper, and he handed her a piece of paper that he had been writing on. After his mom dried her hands on an apron, she read it, and this is what it said:
For cutting the grass: $5.00
For cleaning up my room this week: $1.00
For going to the store for you: $.50
Baby-sitting my kid brother while you went shopping: $.25
Taking out the garbage: $1.00
For getting a good report card: $5.00
For cleaning up and raking the yard: $2.00
Total owed: $14.75
Well, his mother looked at him standing there, and the boy could see the memories flashing through her mind. She picked up the pen, turned over the paper he had written on, and this is what she wrote:
For the nine months I carried you while you were growing inside me: No Charge.
For all the nights that I’ve sat up with you, doctored and prayed for you: No Charge.
For all the trying times, and all the tears that you’ve caused through the years: No Charge.
For all the nights filled with dread, and for the worries I knew were ahead: No Charge.
For the toys, food, clothes, and even wiping your nose: No Charge.
When you add it up, the cost of my love is: No Charge.
When the boy finished reading what his mother had written, there were big tears in his eyes, and he looked straight up at his mother and said, “Mom, I sure do love you.”
And then he took the pen and in great big letters he wrote:
“PAID IN FULL.”
This really made me cry a lot. My parents did A LOT to me. I am who I am now because of them. Their health, their energy, their life is all given and spent on us. Just the thought of how much my parents went through to make me who I am now, to educate me, to spend hours shopping just to get me the right clothes, to spend days and nights awake with me to help me study for my exams and to work all day just to earn the money which would make me alive..brings me to tears.
Our parents owe us NOTHING. In fact, we are the ones who owe them for bringing us to this life.
Let us, ALL OF US, do something special to our parents everyday. I'm making it a habit to hug and kiss both my parents daily and thank them for everything they did to me. Just how when we were little babies they would carry us all day, kiss, hug, cuddle, feed and take care of us daily, we should ALL do the same to them now. Yes, we should prepare them a cup of tea to drink, we should help them around the house, kiss and hug them, spent some time with them joking and speaking to them not to feel lonely.
Treat your parents the way you want your OWN children in the future to treat you, because believe it or not...what goes around, comes around.
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Nice +rep
Edit: cant rep,"Please spread love" I'll spread love, and rep you later :P
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Nice +rep
Edit: cant rep,"Please spread love" I'll spread love, and rep you later :P
Mods have unlimited reps! :P
Thank YOU Abod for reading. =] <3
Yalla go wake your parents and kiss them to be kicked out of the house. :D :P jk. When they wake up. ::)
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Mods have unlimited reps! :P
Oh great :P You got your +rep :P
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Great story mony-chan.
sorry i cant +rep u now because they're asking me to spread the love
will +rep u later,InshaAllah
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Niceeeeeeeeee one. Didn't bring me to tears because i've read something similar already. :P Yet, again, good stuff. =]
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@Cassandra, thank you love. <3
@Crooked, maybe it's me. I am extra sensitive and the love for my parents is ENORMOUS, so yea. =]
Thanks for reading.
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@Crooked, maybe it's me. I am extra sensitive and the love for my parents is ENORMOUS, so yea. =]
Thanks for reading.
I am much more sensitive than yuh are and my love fer my parents is enormous too but i realise the fact what they sacrifice and try my best to put up with their expectations than crying over it. ::)
No problemo. (:
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I am much more sensitive than yuh are and my love fer my parents is enormous too but i realise the fact what they sacrifice and try my best to put up with their expectations than crying over it. ::)
No problemo. (:
Uff...What are you really ? :P
anyways..
Nice lesson mony, we really do owe a lot to our parents
Thanks =) Keep sharing
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I am much more sensitive than yuh are and my love fer my parents is enormous too but i realise the fact what they sacrifice and try my best to put up with their expectations than crying over it. ::)
No problemo. (:
That was rude. ::)I try my best to put up with their expectations also but there is nothing wrong with having tears flowing over your cheeks. =] I'm not asking you to cry though..lol..just saying why I did.
Why did I make this thread then? Did I just sit there and cry? No, I have a goal and wanted to share it with everyone.
@Angel, thank youuu for giving some of your time to read this. Jazki Allah khair sis! :D
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That was rude. ::)I try my best to put up with their expectations also but there is nothing wrong with having tears flowing over your cheeks. =] I'm not asking you to cry though..lol..just saying why I did.
Why did I make this thread then? Did I just sit there and cry? No, I have a goal and wanted to share it with everyone.
Why was that rude ? It wasn't directed towards anyone. ::) I knowwwwwwww there's nothing wrong with crying but i was simply explaining my prev post. Apologies if yuh felt bad. :(
Again, i wasn't directing the post towards anyone but simply explaining my point. :P
Keep up the great work.
Uff...What are you really ? :P
Crooked. 8)
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Why was that rude ? It wasn't directed towards anyone. ::) I knowwwwwwww there's nothing wrong with crying but i was simply explaining my prev post. Apologies if yuh felt bad. :(
Again, i wasn't directing the post towards anyone but simply explaining my point. :P
Keep up the great work.
Paka. ::) Nah, crooked doesn't make me feel bad. =]
+Rep for always reading my stuff crooked, even on FB. Means a lot to me. =]
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Paka. ::) Nah, crooked doesn't make me feel bad. =]
+Rep for always reading my stuff crooked, even on FB. Means a lot to me. =]
Really ? :o I wanted yuh to cry. >:D :P
No problemo. Don't stop, yo. I love all the stuff. :D
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Really ? :o I wanted yuh to cry. >:D :P
No problemo. Don't stop, yo. I love all the stuff. :D
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL. Still the same evil person eh? :P
Too bad, crooked can't make me cry. :P
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Like always great thread ;)
+rep for your activeness +rep for the thread ;D
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Like always great thread ;)
+rep for your activeness +rep for the thread ;D
Awwwww...thank YOU!
+rep for reading. =] I +Repped all the above users also.
Thanks everyone. =]
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Paid in full and wayyy beyond... so "paid in full" doesn't even start to cover it...
@Crook: -_- you are...errmm... 'queer'..... :P
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Paid in full and wayyy beyond... so "paid in full" doesn't even start to cover it...
@Crook: -_- you are...errmm... 'queer'..... :P
Agree.
And dudddde why do you ALWAYS disappear like that? >_< Now you are off, next time I talk to you will be after a month. :P
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Agree.
And dudddde why do you ALWAYS disappear like that? >_< Now you are off, next time I talk to you will be after a month. :P
I am back!
You overestimated by 29 days!! >.<
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marra 7elwa/deep ilmessage <3 Jazaki Alahu kull kair habeebti :D
wallah fi 2isas 3ala 2bna2 yi3amilu 2ahlahom bi6aree8a jedan shanee3a so 2a3ooth billa min inu nikoon minhom O Allah yir7mana O yihdeena ya rab :)
Keep up the good work ;)
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@woteverr, LOL! I'm surprised! How are you doing ?
@Gigi, yea I know and I feel sorry for them. =/ Paradise doesn't take anyone who doesn't treat his/her parents well.
Thank you for reading love.<3
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sa7 2ilsaneek :D ... la shukr 3ala wajib :)
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MashaAllah really beautiful. :)
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MashaAllah really beautiful. :)
Thank YOU for reading! I shared your LILI story in my page two days ago. :D
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@woteverr, LOL! I'm surprised! How are you doing ?
I am doing fine, just fine...
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Thank YOU for reading! I shared your LILI story in my page two days ago. :D
:) Great.
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I am doing fine, just fine...
I'm doing fine too. Thanks for asking. :P
How is the situation in Pakistan ?
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I'm doing fine too. Thanks for asking. :P
How is the situation in Pakistan ?
Ana fil Makkah atm, Al7amdolillah...
Pakistan is Pakistan, its good and its bad, its happy and sad, its old politics and new fads, sad stories and teen rads, horrible cuckolds and cads, beautiful trees n green grass, its a land of stark contrast......
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Ohhhhhh, you are back to Makkah? Will you live there?! :O And man..Makkah is awesome. I can't stop feeling peaceful whenever I go there and stay the night. <3
Is that a poem you created? I must say..that was good. =]
Will there be a war? Why is USA attacking?
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Ohhhhhh, you are back to Makkah? Will you live there?! :O And man..Makkah is awesome. I can't stop feeling peaceful whenever I go there and stay the night. <3
Is that a poem you created? I must say..that was good. =]
Will there be a war? Why is USA attacking?
first things first; no... Just here to visit my dad, he works here... and we miss him all the rest of the year...
Yeah just a spur of the moment rap to convey what I feel about my land.....thanks for the compliment! =D
I dunno, but that sees the most likely thing... although the war has been going on for decades, only difference was that the weapons of choice were the media and the idiot-box... now all our countrymen are so numb that when America attacks our lands, kills innocents and bombs homes, all our people do is sit around, actually, I am wrong, the people feel it, but the government sits back on its arse doing nothing and filling up their fat bank accounts(know about Raymond Davis?)... But the public have been made to do that; the average person has only thoughts of the next meal, his overdue debts, how to feed his family, or how to keep living on his mind...
Anyway, that's enough of politics for now; they always give me a headache....
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Why don't you live with your dad in Mekkah? I was just talking to my Pakistani friend and this is what she said :
I'm living in the place where the major firings are going on. Cars are being burned, people are being killed and stuff. Not a single shop or center is open. Nothing. MQM, a political party is responsible for the happenings. Useless rebels. The city is in trouble. =/
Made me feel bad, you know. I no longer know what's happening to the Muslim world, not a country is without a trouble, war or protests.
No, I don't know anything about pak's politics except that it's REAL bad and the government is awful.
So tell me again..who is the attacker? India? USA? Taliban?
And wow dude, you like rap? You are GOOD MASHALLAH! :D You wrote other stuff before? You can share them on the forum if you want. =]
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first things first; no... Just here to visit my dad, he works here... and we miss him all the rest of the year...
Yeah just a spur of the moment rap to convey what I feel about my land.....thanks for the compliment! =D
I dunno, but that sees the most likely thing... although the war has been going on for decades, only difference was that the weapons of choice were the media and the idiot-box... now all our countrymen are so numb that when America attacks our lands, kills innocents and bombs homes, all our people do is sit around, actually, I am wrong, the people feel it, but the government sits back on its arse doing nothing and filling up their fat bank accounts(know about Raymond Davis?)... But the public have been made to do that; the average person has only thoughts of the next meal, his overdue debts, how to feed his family, or how to keep living on his mind...
Anyway, that's enough of politics for now; they always give me a headache....
I know I feel so bad :(
USA, i dont wanna say anything ::) Taking revenge for the 3000 people that were killed in 9/11 and they have killed thousands of pakis and yet they still want to kill more >:(
and our leaders, what to do with them...@@@ they are not humans, they should be hanged like seriously O_O
I should stop or i dont know what I will say..
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I know I feel so bad :(
USA, i dont wanna say anything ::) Taking revenge for the 3000 people that were killed in 9/11 and they have killed thousands of pakis and yet they still want to kill more >:(
and our leaders, what to do with them...@@@ they are not humans, they should be hanged like seriously O_O
I should stop or i dont know what I will say..
That's sad.
And now, everyone not a country is satisfied with their leaders. I am starting to believe that power corrupts.
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That's sad.
And now, everyone not a country is satisfied with their leaders. I am starting to believe that power corrupts.
Yeah, Specifically all Muslim countries :(
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Yeah, Specifically all Muslim countries :(
Th signs appeared and are still appearing. No more time to lose...I can feel the end is near and Allah knows best.
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Th signs appeared and are still appearing. No more time to lose...I can feel the end is near and Allah knows best.
Ditto
I am watching a program based on the signs and the end, It scares me really
The signs are appearing but most of us dont realize it
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Ditto
I am watching a program based on the signs and the end, It scares me really
The signs are appearing but most of us dont realize it
You know the whole 2012 theory ? I thought it was stupid but when I read about I found out that the things they expect to happen is all what mentioned in Islam. Like for example they expect the sun to rise from the west?!
Almost all the minor signs are shown already.
If you look at the 2012 theory, most of what the scientists found out was written in Islam 1400 among the signs of day of judgement.
So basically their theory of the world ending soon isn't completely wrong, in fact the stuff they found out might be happening in the near future were all written in our religion.
BUT they can't decide on the date accurately ofc because this Allah knows alone.
I researched this whole 2012 and checked the Islamic view about it. Believe me, no more time to waste.
Just look at how 2011 started and how many stuff happened in it until today. The signs will be coming after each other like a beads falling from a string like what the Prophet pbuh said.
I don't believe in 2012 but I believe in the signs Allah told us will happen which we saw and still seeing these days. =]
Just hope we don't all end up wasting our time doing lifeless stuff in our life instead we should build more in this world, try to improve ourseleves and help spread the words of Allah around. ?
And it is written in the Quran that ONLY the wise people will be seeing the signs, while others will be so busy with the worldly matters and not realizing that the end it near.
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^ *Gasps* Wow :o
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Yeah you are right about the minor signs and the major signs will appear one after the other, there wont be a big gap between them, the only time we have is this
2012, yes, I dont believe that the whole world will end and No one except Allah knows the date.
In that program the signs before 'dajjal' appears were told and one of the sign is that the time will slow down "He will be on earth for 40 days from which 1 day will be a year long, 1 day will be a month long, 1 day will a week long and the rest 37 days will be normal".
The host also said that it is mentioned, something will happen to the earth's magnetic field or something and time will slow down but return to normal again. (this is how 1 day could be a year long)
If you research about 2012 it is said that something will happen to the earth's magnetic field O_O
Only Allah knows for sure
P.S. I am not trying to prove something here or saying that I know it for sure, it is just what I feel
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^ *Gasps* Wow :o
LOL, yeah. Did you ever hear about the flood that happened in Jeddah this Jan? One of the signs is that the Arabian Gulf will turn into rivers and the desert will become green.
When traveling to Mekkah/Madinah you'd be SURPRISED how most of the desert turned green and the mountains are ALSO BEING GREEN. Like imagine out of the rocks grass coming out? As for that flood that happened in Jeddah..you'd always see ponds in some places, the the protests and the war happening in the entire of Muslim world? I mean...it is said that Muslims will be weak by the end of time, like the foam of the sea and we will lose the battle but ofc not the war.
And then comes the lovely Tsunami and earthquake which moved the earth axis by 10mm? Something like that. And when the axis of the earth changes fully the sun will be rising from the west.
Another sign is that death and murdering will happen and in Arab/Muslim world we see that happening on DAILY BASIS like crazy. The fitnah which will enter every house, the women that will be dressed but at the same time undressed, lifting on Knowledge? Did you know that school in KSA used to be canceled every few days because of the rain? Also in Egypt with all the protests going on the schools stopped. It's like really..we are losing the knowledge.
Children will be foul (at-Tabarani, al-Hakim) >> Like can't we see that nowadays? A 7 years old is having a mobile, FB account, taking pictures of him or her self and posting it in FB, wearing tights and following the fashion. Wallah I always see them.
Women will conspire (at-Tabarani, al-Hakim)
Rain will be acidic or burning (at-Tabarani, al-Hakim) >> Every-time it would rain in Jeddah, a fire happens. It never used to rain in Jeddah except once or twice a year but this year it even rained in MAY! Like 10-14 times?!
Children of fornication will become widespread or prevalent (at-Tabarani, al-Hakim)
When a trust becomes a means of making a profit (at-Tirmidhi, Al-Haythami)
Gains will be shared out only among the rich, with no benefit to the poor (at-Tirmidhi) >> Yeah yeah, rich being richer and poor becoming poorer.
Great distances will be traversed in short spans of time >> Airplanes
The people of Iraq will recieve no food and no money due to oppression by the Romans (Europeans) (Muslim) >> I just watched that in AL-JAZEERA WALLAH Iraqi people are SELLING THEIR ORGANS TO EAT!
People will hop between the clouds and the earth >> Sky scarpers.
A tribulation will enter everyone?s home (Ahmad)
The leader of a people will be the worst of them (at-Tirmidhi) >> Why are the protests going on then?
Leaders of people will be oppressors (Al-Haythami)
People will treat a man with respect out of fear for some evil he might do (at-Tirmidhi) >> Like those who fear Gadafi? His followers.
Men will begin to wear silk (at-Tirmidhi) >> Happened.
Female singers and musical instruments will become popular (at-Tirmidhi) >> Hifa, Elissa, Nancy, Rihanna and many more?
When singers become common (Al-Haythami) >> They are everywhere.
People will dance late into the night >> Ofc.
There are MUCH MORE check here :http://etori.tripod.com/dajjalsystem/judgement.html
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^ Yuh know we're living in the end of times. Some people keep waiting fer Mahdi. But Mahdi alone will not be able to do anything. A good muslim Ummah is needed to bring the change. Anyway. Are we going off topic ?
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Yeah you are right about the minor signs and the major signs will appear one after the other, there wont be a big gap between them, the only time we have is this
2012, yes, I dont believe that the whole world will end and No one except Allah knows the date.
In that program the signs before 'dajjal' appears were told and one of the sign is that the time will slow down "He will be on earth for 40 days from which 1 day will be a year long, 1 day will be a month long, 1 day will a week long and the rest 37 days will be normal".
The host also said that it is mentioned, something will happen to the earth's magnetic field or something and time will slow down but return to normal again. (this is how 1 day could be a year long)
If you research about 2012 it is said that something will happen to the earth's magnetic field O_O
Only Allah knows for sure
P.S. I am not trying to prove something here or saying that I know it for sure, it is just what I feel
Yeah, 2012 Polo shift.
In 2012 the next polar reversal will take place on earth. This means that the North Pole will be changed into the South Pole. Scientifically this can only be explained by the fact that the earth will start rotating in the opposite direction, together with a huge disaster of unknown proportions.
^This means sun will rise from the west instead of the east.
Another good signs :
A man will leave his home and his thigh or hip will tell him what is happening back at his home (Ahmad) >> Invention of MOBILES.
Wealth will increase so much so that if a man were given 10,000, he would not be content with it (Ahmad & Bukhari) >> LOL my dad and my relatives take that salary and they still think they can have more.
Time will pass rapidly (Bukhari, Muslim, & Ahmad) >> It is sensed WORLDWIDE that time is REALLY going fast!
People will claim to follow the Qur'an but will reject hadith & sunnah (Abu Dawood) >> Like REALLY happening. Women now saying hijab is not a farid or smoking is not 7aram. Others who call Abu Baker liar and other sahabahs.
And Angel about the dajjal I heard it in another way which I can remember. I think one day will be like a week, one week will be like a month and one month will be like a year?
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^ Yuh know we're living in the end of times. Some people keep waiting fer Mahdi. But Mahdi alone will not be able to do anything. A good muslim Ummah is needed to bring the change. Anyway. Are we going off topic ?
When the Mahdi comes it'll be too late.
And forget the signs, everyone of us has his/her OWN DAY OF JUDGEMENT and that is when we die. I might die tom, this means I will no longer have a chance to fix anything...so yea let's not just assume we will live forever. A change must start from now as long as we are breathing.
LOL, we are always going off topic talha. :P But at least it is something related to the topic somehow? Islam maybe?
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^ Umm, If you research more, He will bring peace to muslims and the world. During his time Islam will rise again and they will win the wars.
There will be so much wealth that people wont be able to find a poor person to give their wealth to.
Even if we are off topic, no harm discussing :P
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Mony :
Ana 2i9ara7a 2il2sheea2 di tihiz badanee lamma 2asma3a so 2tmana inik ma ta5deeha personal bas lazim 2at2akad min kalamik gabil la 2a9adi8eek lanu Wallah hatha 2ilkalam mu sahal so ra7 2gra inshAllah O 2shoof 2itha kalamich min sidj sa7ee7 .... Bas hoowa 29ara7a yoom 2ilgiyama 8arab lanu 2il3alamat 2i9u3'ra almost kulla ti7agagat so ya.
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Ana 2iara7a 2il2sheea2 di tihiz badanee lamma 2asma3a so 2tmana inik ma tadeeha personal bas lazim 2at2akad min kalamik gabil la 2a9adi8eek lanu Wallah hatha 2ilkalam mu sahal so ra7 2gra inshAllah O 2shoof 2itha kalamich min sidj .... Bas hoowa 29ara7a yoom 2ilgiyama 8arab lanu 2il3alamat 2i9u3'ra almost kulla ti7agagat so ya.
English please ::)
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English please ::)
Seconded. ::)
And yuh mony mony, when did i mention we're gonna live forever ? ::)
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@Angel, yeah I know. As I said, Muslims will lose the battle but not the war and by this it means that Al-Mahdi will be the one helping us win. inshAllah.
@Gigi, forget about the 2012 just concentrate on the signs. 2012 doesn't matter, but I'm just stating it to PROVE that Islam made up science. And for all those people who believe in science..well guess what? Islam mentioned it 1400 years ago before science and NOT only yhe signs of day of judgment but rather almost everything written in science.
@Crooky, I didn't direct that to you! Just a general statement to all those who think we still have time. ::) Chill, paka. :P
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Seconded. ::)
And yuh mony mony, when did i mention we're gonna live forever ? ::)
I thought you know arabic :P
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English please ::)
Sorry about that :-X
Honestly speaking when such things are discussed infront of me it scares the Hell out of me so don't take thi personally Mony but I have to make sure what you're saying is completely true before believing every word you say ... so I'll try my best to read and researc to know more and to make sure All that you said is true ... But to be honest most of the small Signs have almost all come true so ya.
Mony : I understand what your saying but since such topics are things neither my mind nor heart can tolerate I need to make sure that everything is right not just Rumors ...Forgive me but I really can't believe such heavy and strong words even if they are true I have to find out about it on my own .... Thanks though =]
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I thought you know arabic :P
No, i don't. Ana kallim shoya shoya. :P I speak thora thora. :P
And it's also said that Mahdi will not be claiming that he's Mahdi. The muslim Ummah will go to Makkah and then give him this title. :D He's gonna be a great leader, IA. Again, he'll not be super-natural. He won't have any powers. He'll just be someone amongst us.
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@Gigi, yes! It's good to have a research. =] Don't waste your time on 2012 though because it got some dramatic stuff but rather check the hadeeth and what was written in Islam about the science.
http://www.inter-islam.org/faith/Majorsigns.html
http://etori.tripod.com/dajjalsystem/judgement.html
Those two websites are good with reference from the Quran and Sunnah. =]
@Crooked, is that so? I didn't know that, but ofc I do know that he won't have any supernatural powers LOL.
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Mony ; Mashkoora i.e Thanks :)
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Yeah, and there's this one more thing. He'll be hiding in Makkah. Armies will be coming to Makkah to harm/capture/kill him, so on the way, they'll be drowned in earth - Most prolly earthquake. I'd just wish that we don't fall fer Dajjal's tricks. =/ And and and, yuh know about the war before Dajjal comes ? We're going to win it IA. However, it's gonna be difficult. 1/3rd of our muslim army will betray us and they are NEVER going to be forgiven fer doing that. =/
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Yeah, and there's this one more thing. He'll be hiding in Makkah. Armies will be coming to Makkah to harm/capture/kill him, so on the way, they'll be drowned in earth - Most prolly earthquake. I'd just wish that we don't fall fer Dajjal's tricks. =/ And and and, yuh know about the war before Dajjal comes ? We're going to win it IA. However, it's gonna be difficult. 1/3rd of our muslim army will betray us and they are NEVER going to be forgiven fer doing that. =/
True...All what you was mentioned in the program I watched
I'd just wish that we don't fall fer Dajjal's tricks.
IA.
Memorise and recite first 10 ayat of Surah Kafh, some say its the last 10 ayat but its better to recite all of it. It will help protect us from his fitna.
Its also said, during that time its better to move towards Makkah and Madina cause Dajjal wont be able to enter those cities.
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True...All what you was mentioned in the program I watched
IA.
Memorise and recite first 10 ayat of Surah Kafh, some say its the last 10 ayat but its better to recite all of it. It will help protect us from his fitna.
Its also said, during that time its better to move towards Makkah and Madina cause Dajjal wont be able to enter those cities.
Oh yeah. 8)
And yeah, reciting it, particularly on Friday would save us from this disaster.
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Its also said, during that time its better to move towards Makkah and Madina cause Dajjal wont be able to enter those cities.
Not really Angel. I read about that. Many people will think they can hide in Makkah and Madinah but I heard there will be I can't remember it exactly but earthquakes or something like that which will make all the hypocrites get out of Madinah and Mecca.
Memorise and recite first 10 ayat of Surah Kafh, some say its the last 10 ayat but its better to recite all of it. It will help protect us from his fitna.
Its also said, during that time its better to move towards Makkah and Madina cause Dajjal wont be able to enter those cities.
And yea inshAllah. +rep. =]
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The other day I read this hadith about the people who wouldn't see nor smell Jannah.
Among these were the women who were clothed, but yet not clothed. Obviously this means a woman who wears tightly fitted or transparent clothes.
So I was thinking every girl (including me) LOVES wearing skinny jeans. Don't these like, stick to your legs? And I surely DON'T want to be a part of the group of people who don't even smell Jannah! And it is said that you could smell Jannah 70,000 years away. (Correct me if I'm wrong)
The second in the group were women who have humps on their heads. Does this mean tying your hair high? Elaborate please. :)
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Its also said, during that time its better to move towards Makkah and Madina cause Dajjal wont be able to enter those cities.
Yuh know during those days, Makkah and Madinah will be empty. Why ? Because all of the Muslims will be fighting against the non-muslims. We'll be taking over the world and etc. IA. However, Makkah and Madinah will be highly fortified, in other words, Angels will guarding the holy cities and therefore Dajjal won't be able to enter the holy places. I've also heard about something beneath Ka'bah. People in the end will also want to dig the place and find some treasure. =/ The black stone disappearing prolly means that Makkah maybe under-attacked ? Just as it has been done in the past..Nauzubillah.
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The answer is Here (http://en.islamtoday.net/artshow-382-3299.htm)
And and and, i'll be merging the thread with mony's 6th lesson. All the stuff should stick to just one thread, i suppose.
And and and, to yer ans to the skinny jeans part. Yuh can wear whatever yuh want, but if yuh reveal it to anyone - even by mistake - Yuh'll be responsible fer it and yuh'll have to suffer. =/ Most of the western clothing are bad fer us. They someway or the other reveal something. I see a lot of girls wearing skin tight shirts and jeans. All they are able to attract are satan's men. And when they get raped, they cry over it and pretend they never did anything wrong. May Allah SWT guide us. Ameen.
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:o Thanks Crooked.
I got a clear meaning about the head thingy, how about the clothing? I've read about it from so many sites I yet haven't received a satisfying answer. :S
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:o Thanks Crooked.
I got a clear meaning about the head thingy, how about the clothing? I've read about it from so many sites I yet haven't received a satisfying answer. :S
I hope yuh wear abaya when yuh go out. And a plain abaya. Nowadays girls wear abayas just fer the sake of it. Their bums and breasts are pretty noticeable through today's fashion or it (Abaya) gets too fancy which also attracts satan's men.
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I hope yuh wear abaya when yuh go out. And a plain abaya. Nowadays girls wear abayas just fer the sake of it. Their bums and breasts are pretty noticeable through today's fashion or it (Abaya) gets too fancy which also attracts satan's men.
I do, though its sad seeing the 'newest' fashions for the abayas too.
And and and, to yer ans to the skinny jeans part. Yuh can wear whatever yuh want, but if yuh reveal it to anyone - even by mistake - Yuh'll be responsible fer it and yuh'll have to suffer. =/ Most of the western clothing are bad fer us. They someway or the other reveal something. I see a lot of girls wearing skin tight shirts and jeans. All they are able to attract are satan's men. And when they get raped, they cry over it and pretend they never did anything wrong. May Allah SWT guide us. Ameen.
So its fine if I wear it at home? I mean, I thought the hadith, applied like, wherever you wear it.
Thanks Crooked. :)
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Yeah. The new fashions is leading to disasters.
Praise be to Allah.
Shaykh ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Abd al-Rahmaan al-Jibreen (may Allaah preserve him) was asked about the ruling on women wearing jeans. He replied:
“As for women wearing pants or trousers, this is not permitted, even if she is on her own or in front of other women or her husband, except if she is in a closed room with her husband only. Apart from that, it is not permitted because it shows the details of her body and makes her get used to these clothes. So she is not permitted to wear these clothes at all.” (al-Nukhbah min al-Fataawaa al-Nisaa’iyyah, p. 30).
Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih ibn ‘Uthaymeen was also asked about the ruling on women wearing any kind of pants or trousers. He (may Allaah preserve him) answered: “I think that women should not wear trousers at all, even if there is no one with her apart from her husband, because this is imitating men. The ones who wear trousers are men, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) cursed women who imitate men.”
Now, see, jeans were not there at the time of the Prophet SAW and therefore he couldn't say anything about them but the quotes above clearly state that it's not permissible. Like lets take an eg, yuh are in yer home, wearing shorts and tank. Now, nobody is watching yuh at home. However, if yuh go by a window and a guy standing nearby looks at yuh, khalaas, yuh earned yerself a sin. It's better if yuh stop wearing skin tight clothes. =/
Anyway, Allah SWT knows best..
Hope this helped. (:
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It helped more than anything.
May Allah bless you Crooked.
Jazakallah Khair!!
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It helped more than anything.
May Allah bless you Crooked.
Jazakallah Khair!!
Thank yuh. (:
May Allah SWT bless us all.
Afwannnnnnn. :D
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Its also said, during that time its better to move towards Makkah and Madina cause Dajjal wont be able to enter those cities.
Not really Angel. I read about that. Many people will think they can hide in Makkah and Madinah but I heard there will be I can't remember it exactly but earthquakes or something like that which will make all the hypocrites get out of Madinah and Mecca.
And yea inshAllah. +rep. =]
Yes you are right, about the earth quake and hypocrites thrown out (the one will join dajjal's army) but what I mentioned was that Makkah and Madina will be protected from his fitna as he wont be able to enter it and so people there are safer than those in other cities.
There is also something that mostly women will follow dajjal O_O to a point that the male member of the house would have to tie them up in order to save them from his fitna and going to him O_O
@crook: Thanks for all that :D
I dont wear abaya, I wear hijab though but IA I'll also wear abaya now
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There is also something that mostly women will follow dajjal O_O to a point that the male member of the house would have to tie them up in order to save them from his fitna and going to him O_O
Well, yuh see, the population of women are increasing. The newest issue in KSA - Women must be allowed to drive in KSA - is itself VERY wrong. This will lead to more dates, chichorapan :P, and stalking. Women won't be wearing Hijab since its imp to show yer face while driving. etc. ::)
Some women don't understand and literally convince other women to do such things. Stupidity, i tell yuh.
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LOL, yeah. Did you ever hear about the flood that happened in Jeddah this Jan? One of the signs is that the Arabian Gulf will turn into rivers and the desert will become green.
Hold on! It's the Persian gulf >:( >:( Im very serious about this thing!
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Well, yuh see, the population of women are increasing. The newest issue in KSA - Women must be allowed to drive in KSA - is itself VERY wrong. This will lead to more dates, chichorapan :P, and stalking. Women won't be wearing Hijab since its imp to show yer face while driving. etc. ::)
Some women don't understand and literally convince other women to do such things. Stupidity, i tell yuh.
You can wear hijab while the face is shown, I suppose you meant "niqab' ? :-\
Yah woman population will increase to a point that one male is responsible for 50 women :o
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Hold on! It's the Persian gulf >:( >:( Im very serious about this thing!
Why are you so angry?? :-\
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You can wear hijab while the face is shown, I suppose you meant "niqab' ? :-\
Yah woman population will increase to a point that one male is responsible for 50 women :o
Oh yeah. Sorry about that. :P Imagine arab women putting their make-up on and driving on the roads. ::) Some saudi men are such disgrace to the society, they would stalk them till their home.
50 women. :o Whereas, only 4 marriages are allowed. ::)
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Why are you so angry?? :-\
He likes Geography. :P
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^That happens almost everywhere now ::)
LOLLL geography, I thought so :P
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Its been historically know as "The Persian Gulf". This body of water has been called PERSIAN GULF for thousands of years. Even notable ,arabic scholars have called this gulf the PERSIAN GULF.
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What's in the name ? ::)
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AMAZINNNNNNNGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!! (as always) :D
God bless our parents fer everything they've done fer us! (=
I wanna share this with ya all.
THIS brought me to tears! :'(
[yt=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8ZuKF3dxCY[/yt]
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^ Paste the link. The youtube feature is worthless. :P
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^ Paste the link. The youtube feature is worthless. :P
LOL I thought I am the only one unable to view it ::)
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LOL I thought I am the only one unable to view it ::)
Hahaha, that's because yuh are ullu. =,=
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@MU, =/ Is there a difference? I read it in the Quran. I'll the ayat and show it to you.
@Iluvme, I don't wear abya when I got out. I wear normal clothes, but no matter how loose the clothes are and no matter how decent they get..still, I find many men staring, so I believe wearing the abya would be the best thing. I haven't reached the stage of going out with an abya in Egypt, but..someday I do hope so. I even remember wearing a blue and white dress but everyone looked. Also colors is another reason.
@Crooked, I'm impressed.=] You lead now eh? :D MashAllah, always stay that way. Jazka Allah khair for the info. I would also like that you convince your girl to wear hijab.
@Angel, ahaa. It just means that anyone of us who is bad will not be saved from the dajjal no matter where he/she is because God will find them a reason to get out.
@Romeesa, thank youuuu 7abibity! And yea can't view the vid.=/
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The video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H8ZuKF3dxCY
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@MU, =/ Is there a difference? I read it in the Quran. I'll the ayat and show it to you.
what do you mean by its in the Quran?
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My girl wears hijab. :P
And Thank yuh, Romeesa. This guy is great, MA. =]
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What hijab talk is going on? :o
Ikr? MA. God bless him! :D
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What hijab talk is going on? :o
Ikr? MA. God bless him! :D
My wifey. She wears Hijab. 8) MA. :D
MA. :D
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@MU, =/ Is there a difference? I read it in the Quran. I'll the ayat and show it to you.
Lool! What do you mean by is there a difference? If it's like that than I can call gulf of Oman,the gulf of Iran. Now doesn't that make a difference! It was owned by Persia and these little Arabs change it to Arabian gulf!
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My wifey. She wears Hijab. 8) MA. :D
MA. :D
Haha! Nice! ::) :P
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what do you mean by its in the Quran?
Sorry, I meant hadeeth not Quran. Here :
Allah's Messenger??? ???? ???? ???? said: "The Harj (will increase)." They asked, "What is the Harj?" He replied, "(It is) killing (murdering), (it is) murdering (killing)."(Bukhari)
Abu Huraira reported Mohammad ??? ???? ???? ???? said: " The Hour will not come..... until the land of the Arabs (Arabian Peninsula) returns to being pastures and rivers." (Sahih Muslim).
@Crooked, you told me she doesn't because she got a sensitive skin. ::) Remember?
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Th signs appeared and are still appearing. No more time to lose...I can feel the end is near and Allah knows best.
I feel the same! :o
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I feel the same! :o
LOL read the entire conv. We spoke about the signs that showed already.
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LOL read the entire conv. We spoke about the signs that showed already.
Reading. :P
You know one of the signs (idk if it's already mentioned) is Destruction of an Arab land- Syria. :o
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Sorry, I meant hadeeth not Quran. Here :
Allah's Messenger??? ???? ???? ???? said: "The Harj (will increase)." They asked, "What is the Harj?" He replied, "(It is) killing (murdering), (it is) murdering (killing)."(Bukhari)
Abu Huraira reported Mohammad ??? ???? ???? ???? said: " The Hour will not come..... until the land of the Arabs (Arabian Peninsula) returns to being pastures and rivers." (Sahih Muslim).
@Crooked, you told me she doesn't because she got a sensitive skin. ::) Remember?
I don't get what's written ;D
And crooked you got a wife??? :o :o
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@MU, Abu Huraira reported Mohammad pbuh said: " The Hour will not come..... until the land of the Arabs (Arabian Peninsula) returns to being pastures and rivers." (Sahih Muslim). ::) Easy.
And crooked is committed. =]
@Romeesa, no. We didn't mention this and I never knew it. :o :o That's whats happening now in Syria. :-X It's from the minor signs?
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@Crooked, you told me she doesn't because she got a sensitive skin. ::) Remember?
She doesnt wear full sleeves and high neck because of her skin. She wears abaya and hijab around strangers and relatives tho. ::)
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@Romeesa, no. We didn't mention this and I never knew it. :o :o That's whats happening now in Syria. :-X It's from the minor signs?
It is one of the signs of appearance of Imam Mahdi (AS).
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@MU, Abu Huraira reported Mohammad pbuh said: " The Hour will not come..... until the land of the Arabs (Arabian Peninsula) returns to being pastures and rivers." (Sahih Muslim). ::) Easy.
and still dont get it, "abu huraira reported Mohammed pbuh said". Whos saying?
By the way whats this got with what Im trying to say?
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Man, I am getting all goose-bumps reading the entire convo. (Y)
I am so proud of you all, MA. :D
May Allah SWT guide us all! IA. :D ;D
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^ Shukran, ya ukhtiii. <333 May Allah SWT bless us all. =]
and still dont get it, "abu huraira reported Mohammed pbuh said". Whos saying?
By the way whats this got with what Im trying to say?
In those days, these scholars used to listen to Prophet Muhammad SAW and write down whatever he preached. So Abu Huraira heard Prophet Muhammad SAW say it. =]
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^ Shukran, ya ukhtiii. <333 May Allah SWT bless us all. =]
In those days, these scholars used to listen to Prophet Muhammad SAW and write down whatever he preached. So Abu Huraira heard Prophet Muhammad SAW say it. =]
oh i thought abu hurairi was saying ;D
And I dont think thats right.Theirs a reason and I cant say it here ,but if you guys allow I will unless you dont mind what I say ;)
Anyways Im saying something else..
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oh i thought abu hurairi was saying ;D
And I dont think thats right.Theirs a reason and I cant say it here ,but if you guys allow I will unless you dont mind what I say ;)
Anyways Im saying something else..
If yuh are talking about what i said, i can be more specific. :P
Yuh confused me. =,=
Yuh can say whatever yuh want to as long as its not offensive. ::)
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oh i thought abu hurairi was saying ;D
And I dont think thats right.Theirs a reason and I cant say it here ,but if you guys allow I will unless you dont mind what I say ;)
Anyways Im saying something else..
I am guessing a reason. ::)
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@MU, I really do not want to get involved in a shia-sunnah discussion. I have my beliefs and I won't change them inshAllah. I follow Prophet Muhammed pbuh, there are evidence and reference and it can't be incorrect.
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Just be proud we all are Muslims. :D
Nothing greater than that. ::)
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Just be proud we all are Muslims. :D
Nothing greater than that. ::)
Exactly. We believe in one God and we have the same religion. =]
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Exactly. We believe in one God and we have the same religion. =]
Ikr?
Instead of uniting as one. We are splitting as two. :-X
Not saying anything more. :-X
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Ikr?
Instead of uniting as one. We are splitting as two. :-X
Not saying anything more. :-X
Yes, it's one of the signs also. lol.
There will be war between two groups of the same religion. ::)
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Ikr?
Instead of uniting as one. We are splitting as two. :-X
Not saying anything more. :-X
There are more than just two :-X
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I am guessing a reason. ::)
If your guessing the same thing then your wise. ;)
Lets just leave these. Its off the topic.
Everyone has got different beliefs...
I was trying to say something else but this religion thing came in between
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We've already split into many groups. ::) In the end, there will only be ONE right group. =/
And about the war. KSA and Yemen is one example. ::) They keep fighting on the borders. Idiots.
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There are more than just two :-X
LOL, yeah many are created now.
People will claim to follow the Qur'an but will reject hadith & sunnah (Abu Dawood)
Happening. ::)
@MU, you can pm me though. :P
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There are more than just two :-X
I know. ::)
I was referring to the main two.
Yes, it's one of the signs also. lol.
There will be war between two groups of the same religion. ::)
Sigh. It's all sad.
If your guessing the same thing then your wise. ;)
Lets just leave these. Its off the topic.
Everyone has got different beliefs...
I was trying to say something else but this religion thing came in between
Of course, I do know. ::) You are Iranian after all. :-X :P
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They Shia'as believe that there were 40 Juz. 10 of them were eaten by some goat. ::) That's what my ex-bff told me. =/
And no pm business. Taaaaaaaaaaalk here. Knowledge must be shared. 8)
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LOL, yeah many are created now.
People will claim to follow the Qur'an but will reject hadith & sunnah (Abu Dawood)
Happening. ::)
@MU, you can pm me though. :P
Lets just leave it ;) I dont like to but Im sure thats the great proof.
My brother wrote something around 2000-3000 words essay on judgement day for his IB TOK... I wish I can find it,it was awesome essay.
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They Shia'as believe that there were 40 Juz. 10 of them were eaten by some goat. ::) That's what my ex-bff told me. =/
And no pm business. Taaaaaaaaaaalk here. Knowledge must be shared. 8)
Agreed :P
How come you have knowledge about all this :P I didnt knew that ::)
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They Shia'as believe that there were 40 Juz. 10 of them were eaten by some goat. ::) That's what my ex-bff told me. =/
And no pm business. Taaaaaaaaaaalk here. Knowledge must be shared. 8)
what do you mean by 40 juz? In Quran?
Lool me being a shia never heard about this! He is just bluffing!
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Of course, I do know. ::) You are Iranian after all. :-X :P
Whats this supposed to mean ???
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Crooked, eaten by a goat?!!!!!! I am trying not to laugh not to offend anyone BUT I CAN'T HELP IT BUT EXPLODE. :-X
And NO crooked! Religion discussion is not allowed. It'll be more a debate rather than a peaceful talk. Let's not split Islam into groups.
@Romeesa, so you have the same belief as him(MU)? ::)
@MU, again LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL hahahahaha so crooked was jk? Because I was going to fall off my chair from the goat part hahahaha. :P
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They Shia'as believe that there were 40 Juz. 10 of them were eaten by some goat. ::) That's what my ex-bff told me. =/
And no pm business. Taaaaaaaaaaalk here. Knowledge must be shared. 8)
Never heard of it. ::)
Yer ex-bff is pagal. :P
We all believe in One God, Muhammad (PBUH) as our last Messenger and the SAME Holy Quran.
The rest, I don't wanna discuss.
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Never heard of it. ::)
Yer ex-bff is pagal. :P
We all believe in One God, Muhammad (PBUH) as our last Messenger and the SAME Holy Quran.
The rest, I don't wanna discuss.
Big time pagal. :P That goat must be murdered is it ate the quran. :P LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL.....
And I agree with Romeesa. Better not have discussions. =]
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^ Oyeeeeeee. Don't make fun of the animal. Imma slaughter and cook yuh. >:D
what do you mean by 40 juz? In Quran?
Lool me being a shia never heard about this! He is just bluffing!
Yeah. ::)
Maybe. Different Shiaa groups got different theories. =/ But nevermind.
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@Romeesa, so you have the same belief as him(MU)? ::)
Hmmmm. . . . Yes, maybe. ::) :P
Big time pagal. :P That goat must be murdered is it ate the quran. :P LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL.....
And I agree with Romeesa. Better not have discussions. =]
Ikr? :P LOOOL XD
Better be safe then sorry! :P
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@MU, again LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL hahahahaha so crooked was jk? Because I was going to fall off my chair from the goat part hahahaha. :P
hahahahahahahahhaha crooked is in his own dreams!!! His bff is idiot :P :P It made me laugh soo hard!
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^ Oyeeeeeee. Don't make fun of the animal. Imma slaughter and cook yuh. >:D
Yeah. ::)
Maybe. Different Shiaa groups got different theories. =/ But nevermind.
Which group?! :o
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hahahahahaha I'm still laughing...crooked..omg HAHAHAHAHA
I'd give your friend a noble price for his great goat storyyy. :P
Astghfur Allah, let's stop making fun of the guy. :P
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Well, i just checked and SOME shiaas do believe there were 40 juz. So don't think i am some fool. ::) And the bff was a girl. (:
I've only heard about 2 major shia'a groups in KSA. They both contradict with eachother.
And shoshou, it is not some funny story, some of our muslims brothers and sisters are seriously misguided.
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Well, i just checked and SOME shiaas do believe there were 40 juz. So don't think i am some fool. ::) And the bff was a girl. (:
I've only heard about 2 major shia'a groups in KSA. They both contradict with eachother.
And shoshou, it is not some funny story, some of our muslims brothers and sisters are seriously misguided.
I still can't believe you are serious. :o :-X
I really never heard off them before.
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Maybe the minor groups. Definitely not the twelvers. :P
Ahem?! Misguided?
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And shoshou, it is not some funny story, some of our muslims brothers and sisters are seriously misguided.
^Agreed!
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^ Yeah, maybe a minor group but it's certainly big in Jeddah.
Yeah, those who believe in such stuff.
I still can't believe you are serious. :o :-X
I really never heard off them before.
Maybe yuh never had a shiaa bff. ::)
Yes, whatever i've come across, shiaas can be VERY secretive. She'd never temme about her religion in great detail.
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^ Yeah, maybe a minor group but it's certainly big in Jeddah.
Yeah, those who believe in such stuff.
Maybe yuh never had a shiaa bff. ::)
Yes, whatever i've come across, shiaas can be VERY secretive. She'd never temme about her religion in great detail.
I see.
May Allah (SWT) guide them, IA.
Hahaha! I know. They can't be blamed. :P
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Well, one of us is misguided. It can't be both the shia and the sunnah is right but how to convince them that ?
You need to look for the proofs.
And in Jeddah at school I had many shia teachers working with me but I never really got into the shia-sunnah discussion because everytime it happens both sides get into a battle and tbh...sometimes you need to just respect other people's religion or beliefs and move on. If you can't prove to them the truth or convince them and if you do not have the enough knowledge, then just discussing it will create a conflict.
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Well, there's nothing wrong with discussions but people nowadays get really violent. I once tried talking to her about Shiaa beliefs and she just told me off. =/
Everything happens fer a reason tho. May Allah SWT guide us all. Ameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen. :D
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Well, one of us is misguided. It can't be both the shia and the sunnah is right but how to convince them that ?
You need to look for the proofs.
And in Jeddah at school I had many shia teachers working with me but I never really got into the shia-sunnah discussion because everytime it happens both sides get into a battle and tbh...sometimes you need to just respect other people's religion or beliefs and move on. If you can't prove to them the truth or convince them and if you do not have the enough knowledge, then just discussing it will create a conflict.
I know.
I don't get into these discussions because I have set up my own beliefs and will follow them only (IA). I have done my research and it was painful one. ::)
Well, there's nothing wrong with discussions but people nowadays get really violent. I once tried talking to her about Shiaa beliefs and she just told me off. =/
Everything happens fer a reason tho. May Allah SWT guide us all. Ameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen. :D
Pagal bff. :P
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OMG I missed it :(..
Can I laugh now?? ::)
LOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL, OMG crooky, you rock :P
HAHA :D
Edit: No offense to anyone ::)
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^Angelllllll. ::) It's not funny yaaaaaaaaaar. There are actually some who believe that. =/
I know.
I don't get into these discussions because I have set up my own beliefs and will follow them only (IA). I have done my research and it was painful one. ::)
Pagal bff. :P
PM me someday. I'd love to understand.
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PM me also Romeesa. ::)
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Is there anything funny here? ::)
Crooky and Mony, I'd love to! :P
[ask me and I will answer] :P
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Is there anything funny here? ::)
Crooky and Mony, I'd love to! :P
[ask me and I will answer] :P
We commanded you just now. :P
Explain to me first, forget about crooked. :P
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Is there anything funny here? ::)
Crooky and Mony, I'd love to! :P
[ask me and I will answer] :P
DUDEEEEE ! The asking and answering business gets really aggressive. :o
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Explain what, Mony? ::)
Crooky, I am acha ladki. :P
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Explain what, Mony? ::)
Crooky, I am acha ladki. :P
And yuh get mad jaldi too. =/
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Explain what, Mony? ::)
Crooky, I am acha ladki. :P
Explain what you believe in exactly, because I am REALLY confused. You seem like a sensible person and will explain to me without getting into war. :P
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IA SOON. :P
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Explain what you believe in exactly, because I am REALLY confused. You seem like a sensible person and will explain to me without getting into war. :P
She'll prolly beat yuh if yuh mess with her. She's the CHAN KING. 8) <3
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She'll prolly beat yuh if yuh mess with her. She's the CHAN KING. 8) <3
Beat me? No one can and no one will. I don't believe in war. =]
We should always respect other people's point of view.
And right now, I just researched shia's. I read a lot. I understand it all now. =] I'll still see what Romeesa will say! :D
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Beat me? No one can and no one will. I don't believe in war. =]
We should always respect other people's point of view.
And right now, I just researched shia's. I read a lot. I understand it all now. =] I'll still see what Romeesa will say! :D
Oh pleaseeeeeee. :P Don't be so over-confident. ::) Someone might be better. :P But again, i was jk. :D
Oh yeah. 8)
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I'd never hurt my sis! >:(
Peace! \/
PM me any questions! ;D
I will be glad to answer whatever I know! :D (IA)
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I know.
I don't get into these discussions because I have set up my own beliefs and will follow them only (IA). I have done my research and it was painful one. ::)
Pagal bff. :P
You gotta tell me for sure!!!
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You gotta tell me for sure!!!
Tell what?! :o
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In fact Romeesa, I no longer have any questions. :P
I researched it all and tbh I can't see how this matter is an issue. ::)
Only Shia's should not insult other sahabas of the prophet pbuh as in they shouldn't go against Aishia, Abu Baker, Omer, and Usman radiah Allah 3anhom. They follow Ali so that's not a problem but going against someone isn't even allowed in Islam and we almost share the SAME of everything except that we follow different immams and that's all!
So again I can't see how this is a big deal?
You might prefer listening to Dr.Naik Zakir and I might prefer listening to Dr.Mohammed Al-Arifi, both are Muslim scholars but surely they won't agree on everything. Got my point? AT the end the MAIN principals are followed and I can't see how any of both parties are wrong.
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In fact Romeesa, I no longer have any questions. :P
I researched it all and tbh I can't see how this matter is an issue. ::)
Only Shia's should not insult other sahabas of the prophet pbuh as in they shouldn't go against Aishia, Abu Baker, Omer, and Usman radiah Allah 3anhom. They follow Ali so that's not a problem but going against someone isn't even allowed in Islam and we almost share the SAME of everything except that we follow different immams and that's all!
So again I can't see how this is a big deal?
You might prefer listening to Dr.Naik Zakir and I might prefer listening to Dr.Mohammed Al-Arifi, both are Muslim scholars but surely they won't agree on everything. Got my point? AT the end the MAIN principals are followed and I can't see how any of both parties are wrong.
Haha! I see.
That is one of my personal belief.
No one has the right to insult ANY of the Prophet (PBUH)'s companions. We must respect them all. This is what my parents have taught us since child hood. Islam has reached us all now with so many resources because of these companions, May Allah bless them all. :-X
Rest Allah knows best. :)
I listen to Dr.Naik sometimes. Heard only few of his lectures. IA, hoping to listen to more and plus to Dr. Arifis too. :D
Got yer point! ;)
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Tell what?! :o
Your own beliefs ::)
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Haha! I see.
That is one of my personal belief.
No one has the right to insult ANY of the Prophet (PBUH)'s companions. We must respect them all. This is what my parents have taught us since child hood. Islam has reached us all now with so many resources because of these companions, May Allah bless them all. :-X
Rest Allah knows best. :)
I listen to Dr.Naik sometimes. Heard only few of his lectures. IA, hoping to listen to more and plus to Dr. Arifis too. :D
Got yer point! ;)
OMG I REALLY can't understand why they used to fight! It's so SILLY tbh. I thought it'd be a big deal but it is NOT AT ALL. ::)
We are all Muslims! :D Alhamdolilah. =]
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Your own beliefs ::)
Find it out! :P
OMG I REALLY can't understand why they used to fight! It's so SILLY tbh. I thought it'd be a big deal but it is NOT AT ALL. ::)
We are all Muslims! :D Alhamdolilah. =]
I know. :-X
Muslims FTW! ;D :P
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WoW!! 11 pages now and when I left there were 3... you guys are fast!
Why don't you live with your dad in Mekkah? I was just talking to my Pakistani friend and this is what she said :
I'm living in the place where the major firings are going on. Cars are being burned, people are being killed and stuff. Not a single shop or center is open. Nothing. MQM, a political party is responsible for the happenings. Useless rebels. The city is in trouble. =/
Made me feel bad, you know. I no longer know what's happening to the Muslim world, not a country is without a trouble, war or protests.
No, I don't know anything about pak's politics except that it's REAL bad and the government is awful.
So tell me again..who is the attacker? India? USA? Taliban?
And wow dude, you like rap? You are GOOD MASHALLAH! :D You wrote other stuff before? You can share them on the forum if you want. =]
Cuz the rest of the family stays in Isb the rest of the year...
Yup I've lived in Karachi too and MQM has seriously messed it up... Its actually just a big band of goons turned into a so-called political party to lend them some legitimacy, or maybe to infiltrate the political arena...
Attackers, I can't say.. some say India, some say America, even Israel. I believe it may be a combo of all three along with internal elements incited to provoke unrest by those aforementioned powers..
Ah well....
No I don't; that was a first attempt..Shukran for the appreciation! :)
I know I feel so bad :(
USA, i dont wanna say anything ::) Taking revenge for the 3000 people that were killed in 9/11 and they have killed thousands of pakis and yet they still want to kill more >:(
and our leaders, what to do with them...@@@ they are not humans, they should be hanged like seriously O_O
I should stop or i dont know what I will say..
9/11 was an excuse to start wars on Iraq, Iran as well as Pakistan... They say they've killed Usama but its clear to anyone with eyes they haven't... and even so, who said Usama's to blame except them? what proof do they have? and how the frikkin hell can an insurgent or whatever in Afghanistan get two effin planes??!!
Our leaders... okay, I guess I won't even start there, I've said enough already.......
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They might've killed him long ago. They just used him to invade our Muslim Countries. The ones who planned the destruction of our Ummah will not be forgiven, IA. =/
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Leave it to Allah ^ =]
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Leave it to Allah ^ =]
Oh yeah. But we will revenge, IA.
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Oh yeah. But we will revenge, IA.
InshAllah =D
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Ameen.
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InshAllah =D
Ameen.
Spammers :P
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^ Look who is talking ::)
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I was watching that program just now and another sign was mentioned:
Three sinkings of the earth
• one in the east
• One in the west
• and One in Arabia
Most ullma said that by east its probably in japan, in west probably America and in arabia its Makkah
I realized, Japan has already happened ---> the earthquake, we all known about it, how the earth moved from its axis O_O
I researched about it and turns out many people think that it was the sign
By the way this program was done few years back so its not like the host just made it up and said japan
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I was watching that program just now and another sign was mentioned:
Three sinkings of the earth
• one in the east
• One in the west
• and One in Arabia
Most ullma said that by east its probably in japan, in west probably America and in arabia its Makkah
I realized, Japan has already happened ---> the earthquake, we all known about it, how the earth moved from its axis O_O
I researched about it and turns out many people think that it was the sign
By the way this program was done few years back so its not like the host just made it up and said japan
Which program is it that yer watching, chere?
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@Angel, yes. I also read an article about those 3 signs and it also said about Japan.
But those are from the major signs not the minor.
And yea which program was that?
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^ Its in urdu, I can pm you the link if you want?
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^ Its in urdu, I can pm you the link if you want?
Send it, yo. I can understand. :P
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^ Check your inbox :P
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LOL, too bad I won't understand it. :P
I know it anyways so it's alright! :D
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LOL, too bad I won't understand it. :P
I know it anyways so it's alright! :D
I will try translating after I watch it. :P
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I will try translating after I watch it. :P
LOOOL nah sweety. Don't your tire yourself. I already read all about it!
Thanks love. <3
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LOOOL nah sweety. Don't your tire yourself. I already read all about it!
Thanks love. <3
I will tell ya the imp. ones, IA. :D
Welcome my chere <333
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Mony, there is a new version of that program (done in 2011) its still going on and that is eng subbed.
I cant find any online link for it yet, I'll let you know if i do :D
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Awww thank you girls! I really don't want to trouble you!
Hey did you girls heard about the 3 series BBC just made for Prophet Muhammed pbuh ?
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^ No O_O
Is it good?
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Awww thank you girls! I really don't want to trouble you!
Hey did you girls heard about the 3 series BBC just made for Prophet Muhammed pbuh ?
What's the name?!
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http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b012mkg5
Here is the link but I don't think its downloaded on the internet yet. I tried to watch it on bbc website but it's not working. =/
I am REALLY eager to watch it! They said the most misunderstood man in this world.
If the non-Muslims come to know who is Muhammed pbuh is...if they just get to study about him...they will never dare to not believe in him.
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http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b012mkg5
Here is the link but I don't think its downloaded on the internet yet. I tried to watch it on bbc website but it's not working. =/
I am REALLY eager to watch it! They said the most misunderstood man in this world.
If the non-Muslims come to know who is Muhammed pbuh is...if they just get to study about him...they will never dare to not believe in him.
JazakAllah khair <333 :D
Ikr?!
MA, greatest man ! :D
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JazakAllah khair <333 :D
Ikr?!
MA, greatest man ! :D
I really can't wait tilll I watch it. =[
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What creates ill feelings in the hearts of people for each other the most is the misuse of the tongue and the evil consequences that follow. This includes the hastiness on behalf of some to comment on someone’s words as he speaks, or interrupting him without thinking twice, which only results in hostile argumentation and people harbouring ill feelings towards each other.
You will never be able to rectify all the people, teach them Islamic etiquettes, and train them in the skills of dealing with people. Let us go beyond the idealism which many become obsessed with when they say, “People are supposed to do this”, or “People are supposed to get used to that...”
Stop thinking about this and just pray over the deceased who is in front of you, as they say. What I mean is that when we deal with people’s mistakes, we should not busy ourselves thinking about what others should do, but rather, we should focus on what we should do. Whenever you wish to say something strange, some people may hastily comment on your words. It is important that you do not give them an opportunity to do so, by
answering their questions before they even ask.
Some people can very effectively prevent a person from commenting without them realising it. I remember once an old man was sitting in a gathering talking about a particular incident he witnessed where two people were fighting at a petrol station, and how it became so serious that both taken to a police station. One of those present in the gathering, who was known to be very talkative, jumped up and began to relate his version of
the story, saying, “Yes, that’s right, but this is not what happened. What actually happened between the two was this, and so-andso was at fault.” He began to mention other details that did not even occur!
The old man turned to him, and I could see that he was about to explode. However, he controlled himself and quietly and calmly said, “Were you there at the incident?” He said, “No.”
The old man said, “Did anyone who witnessed it tell you about it?” “No”, he replied.
The old man said, “Did you read the incident report?” He said, “No.”
Thereupon, the old man screamed, “OK! So how can you say I am wrong when you don’t know anything?”
What surprised me were his leading questions before he objected, for if he were to object before throwing those questions at him and thereby closing all the escape routes, the man would have found many avenues through which to flee, even if he had to lie.
Therefore, when we wish to establish certain facts, we need to precede them with preliminaries in order to convince our opponents before they get a chance to oppose them.
When the Quraysh marched forth to fight the Prophet pbuh and his companions at Badr, some of the intelligent ones among them did not wish to fight. However, they had been compelled to march. The Prophet pbuh found out about this and was sure that if they attended the battle, they would not fight the Muslims. When he approached the battlefield, he wanted to inform his Companions about his decision regarding them and forbid them from killing them. He knew that some may have question in their minds about his decision such as, “Why shouldn’t we kill them when they have come out to fight us? Why did he exempt these people in particular?”
The Prophet pbuh mentioned some preliminaries in order not to give them an opportunity to even think about the objections. How did he do so?
He stood among his Companions and said, “I have come to know that some men from Banu Hashim and others have been forced to come out. They do not want to fight us.”
This was the first preliminary fact. He then said, “Therefore, whoever of you meets anyone from Banu Hashim in the battle, then let him not kill him. Whoever sees Abu al-Bakhtari bin Hashim bin al-Harith bin Asad, then let him not kill him. Whoever sees al-‘Abbas bin ‘Abd al-Muttalib, the uncle of the Messenger of Allah, then let him not kill him, for they have been compelled to march.”
The Companions agreed to comply and began to discuss this amongst their circles. Abu Hudhayfa bin ‘Utbah bin Rabi’ah said, “Shall we kill our fathers, our sons and our brothers and spare al-‘Abbas? By Allah, if I see him on the battlefield, I will strike him with my sword!”
His words reached the Messenger of Allah pbuh. He turned to “Umar and said, ‘O Abu Hafs!” ‘Umar said about this later, “By Allah, this was the first time ever the Messenger of Allah pbuh gave me my nickname, Abu Hafs.”
The Prophet pbuh said, “O Abu Hafs! Will the face of the uncle of Allah’s Messenger be struck with a sword?”
‘Umar felt disgusted and angry, for how could Abu Hudhayfah have rejected the order of the Messenger of Allah pbuh? Was
he not a Muslim?
‘Umar said at the top his voice, “O Messenger of Allah! Allow me to strike his neck with my sword! By Allah, he has become a hypocrite!”
Abu Hudhayfah – may Allah be pleased with him – thereafter regretted his words on that day and said, “I do not feel secure from the words I uttered that day. I will continue to be terrified of them unless martyrdom expiates for them.” He was martyred on the day of Yamamah.
Advice...
Have them for lunch before they eat you for dinner!
Written By: Dr.Mohammed Al-Arifi
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WOW mashAllah ...That has loads of meaning to it , Thank you a tonne for sharing it :D
Jazaki Allah kair sista <3 +rep :-*
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Yay!
I also found it useful, bas ana I still think eno fi dros tania agmad. :P Why are you awake till now?!
And 7bibity, thanks for reading and +repping. Jazki Allah khair gigi. <3 =]
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I slept and woke up an hour ago ::) :P
You're welcome :) ..Wa jazaki habeebti <3
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I slept and woke up an hour ago ::) :P
You're welcome :) ..Wa jazaki habeebti <3
LOOOL you woke for fajir? How many hours did you sleep? :O
I still didn't sleep yet. I was reading. ::)
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LOOOL you woke for fajir? How many hours did you sleep? :O
I still didn't sleep yet. I was reading. ::)
Very little bas 7a3aweed ba3deen :P
LOL xD
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Very little bas 7a3aweed ba3deen :P
LOL xD
LOL tyb yala ana rayi7a anam. Tasba7 3ala khair. :-*
Salam...<3
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LOL tyb yala ana rayi7a anam. Tasba7 3ala khair. :-*
Salam...<3
it's morning already ::)
O inti bi5eer :)
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tasb7i 3ala lail :P
And no one read this? :O
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This is great, MashAllah. ;D Thanks shoshou..mony for sharing. ;D
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This is great, MashAllah. ;D Thanks shoshou..mony for sharing. ;D
Thanks for reading!!!!!
We must be best friends soon. :P I know a lot about you! :D
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tasb7i 3ala lail :P
And no one read this? :O
I have NO idea 33sh lazim nugool ::) xD
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An organ that can be used properly and misused harshly- The Tongue.
Awesome article as usual :) +Rep
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An organ that can be used properly and misused harshly- The Tongue.
Awesome article as usual :) +Rep
Yeah and most the people who will be in hell fire will be there because of their tongues.
Thank you for reading, I REALLY appreciate it. Jazkom Allah khair everyone. :-*
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Yeah and most the people who will be in hell fire will be there because of their tongues.
Thank you for reading, I REALLY appreciate it. Jazkom Allah khair everyone. :-*
ra3abtneeni :-X
Can't wait for the NEXT one ;D
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ra3abtneeni :-X
Can't wait for the NEXT one ;D
Indeed if you control your tongue and speak good then paradise can be yours. The Prophet (saw) said "Whoever can guarantee me two things I can guarantee them Paradise." The companions asked "What O Messenger of Allah?" He replied "What is between his jaws (his tongue) and his legs (private parts)." (Bukhari)
I'll post the next one tonight inshAllah. =]
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Indeed if you control your tongue and speak good then paradise can be yours. The Prophet (saw) said "Whoever can guarantee me two things I can guarantee them Paradise." The companions asked "What O Messenger of Allah?" He replied "What is between his jaws (his tongue) and his legs (private parts)." (Bukhari)
I'll post the next one tonight inshAllah. =]
I heard that Hadith before :)
inshAllah :D
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As always, Amazing lesson
You know there is a saying,
Five things never come back:
the spoken words, the wasted time, the past, the neglected opportunity, and friends' trust so think twice and act wise
We should always think before saying :)
In the book "Enjoy your life" I read a sentence i.e. "Only pass comment on what is good"
I think applying this can also protect our tongue from saying wrong
Thank you <33 +rep
Edit: Isnt this supposed to be Lesson 7?
Did I miss out something O_O
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'Five things never come back: the spoken words, the wasted time, the past, the neglected opportunity, and friends' trust so think twice and act wise'
^ I'll make this my new FB status. :D
Only pass a comment on what is good, also there is a hadeeth that says its either you say good or you to stay quiet.
Thanks for reading it love and no this is lesson 8.
Lesson 7 is ummm in the Ramadan thread so this should be lesson 8!
I DID a mistake SORRY! Thanks for pointing it out. <3
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Marvellous, MA. Don't stop. (:
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Amazing mony-chan.
i will try my best to guard my tongue and think before saying anything
May Allah bless you for sharing this with us, Amen
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Something related to this lesson:
In our childhood we bother our mother a lot, she stays awake the whole night just so that her child can sleep peacefully.
She remains hungry but cannot bear the fact if her kid remains hungry for even one moment.
Even when we ask her the same thing 100 times, she replies politely.
When we are a year old, she feeds us and keeps us neat and clean and we return her favor by keeping her awake and weeping all night.
When we turn to two, she grabs our finger and teaches us how to walk and in return we snap her hand and run away.
When we turn to three, she cooks our favourite food and in return we throw the plate on the floor.
When we turn to four, She brings us set of color pencils for drawing and we mark the walls of the houses from these colors.
When we turn to five, she wears us nice clothes and sends us outside to play and we make our clothes dirty with soil.
When we turn to six, she takes us to school and in return we yell and complain to her that we don’t want to go to school
When we turn seven, she brings us football to play with and we throw that to the neighbour’s house and bring her disrespect.
When we turn to eight, she brings us ice-cream; we throw that away and demand to buy another one.
When we turn to nine, she gives us basic book to learn from and we do not read it.
When we turn to ten, she takes us along to ceremonies and we embarrass her due to our actions.
When we turn to eleven, she takes us and our friends to outing and there among the friends we forget her presence.
When we turn to twelve, she orders us not to watch immortal programs and we wait for her to be away so when she is not around we watch our desired programs.
When we turn to thirteen, she asks us to cut our hair short and we reply her with it’s a fashion
When we turn to fourteen, she gives us all her savings so that we can fulfil our desire to go on trips or spend time with friends and when we are on a trip we do not even bother to give her a call.
When we turn to fifteen, she wants to spend time with us but we shut the door and lock ourselves in the room.
When we turn to sixteen, she buys us motorbike, on our demand, but when we ride it we tend to forget all her advices.
When we turn to seventeen, she wants us to spend some time with her and relatives but we prefer to spend time with our friends only.
When we turn to eighteen, she asks us to prepare for our exams but we sleep the whole night
When we turn to nineteen, she arranges the best tutor for us but we do not give time to our studies
When we turn to twenty, she advice us to keep good company and in return we tell her to mind her own business
When we turn to twenty-one, she gives us suggestions for our future and we reply her that I do not want to be what you want me to be.
When we turn to twenty-two, she hugs us on completing our graduation and we demand an expensive gift from her
When we turn to twenty-three, she decorates our room with new furniture, and we tell her that my friends say it’s a cheap choice.
When we turn to twenty-four, she set out our engagement but we get stubborn on our choice.
When we turn to twenty-five, she makes arrangement for our wedding and says don’t forget me after you are married but soon after marriage we get involved in our new life
When we turn to thirty, she shows her desire for grand kids and we reply to her that time has changed it’s the age of family planning.
When we turn to forty, she shows her desire to go to relatives' ceremony with us and we tell her that I don’t have time
When we turn to fifty, she gets ill and needs us and we say that she has become a burden
And one day this estimable creature, our mother, passes away and then we realize that we lost a precious personality but then it’s too late.
Isn’t it painful that the person who bore us and nurture us inspite of difficulties, we don’t have time for that mother.
In today’s hustle bustle we have forgotten the most sincere and valued creature of the universe.
In a hadees Prophet (pbuh) has mentioned:
“The heaven lies under the feet of mother”
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brought me to tears :'(
thank you angel for sharing<3
to by precious MOTHER
"i <3 u mommy and whatever pain i've caused you when i was little, i'll try my best and become a very good daughter to you and make you proud someday"
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Yuh know we're not even allowed to 'Uff' our mothers. Yet, yuh see nowadays people thrashing them and being so cruel to them. =/ We get mad at them if they don't buy us the toys we like or the clothes we wanted. We've become so mean..
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Yuh know we're not even allowed to 'Uff' our mothers. Yet, yuh see nowadays people thrashing them and being so cruel to them. =/ We get mad at them if they don't buy us the toys we like or the clothes we wanted. We've become so mean..
true...very true
it's because satan tempts us and make us say and do all kinds of bad things to our parents
i'm truly sorry for what i did to make my mommy and daddy sad
im try my best to make them very happy! ;D
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Yuh know we're not even allowed to 'Uff' our mothers. Yet, yuh see nowadays people thrashing them and being so cruel to them. =/ We get mad at them if they don't buy us the toys we like or the clothes we wanted. We've become so mean..
True
When we turn to seventeen, she wants us to spend some time with her and relatives but we prefer to spend time with our friends only
We should spend more time with her >_<
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Great things angel,+rep ^^
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Amazing as well, MA. <333
Keep it up, sis <333
IA, you'll grow stronger with each second passing. :D
I wanted to share this:
(http://www.ezsoftech.com/stories/images/water-bearer.gif)
~Turning a flaw into a feature: The Cracked Pot, an Uplifting Story
Once upon a time there was a water-bearer in India who had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master's house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.
For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pot full of water in his master's house.
Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do.
After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water-bearer one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you." "Why?" asked the bearer.
"What are you ashamed of ?"
"I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master's house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work and you don't get full value from your efforts, " the pot said. The water-bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, "As we return to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path."
Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some.
But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again it apologized to the bearer for its failure.
The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot's side?
That's because have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master's table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house."
The moral of this story: Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and warding. You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them."
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Great things angel,+rep ^^
Agreed.
Good stuff, Ang3l. :D
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^ This is beautiful :D
You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them."
True..
Thanks a lot for sharing <33
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Thank you, chere <333 :D ^_^
Isn't this suppose to be lesson 8? ::)
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Thank you, chere <333 :D ^_^
Isn't this suppose to be lesson 8? ::)
Yes it is Lesson 8 :)
Mony wrote 9 by mistake ;D
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Yes it is Lesson 8 :)
Mony wrote 9 by mistake ;D
I thought so. ::) :P
Poor ladki. Bohot stress karti hai. :P
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@Romeesa, BEAUTIFUL story.
I said this before..our imperfections is what makes us perfect. :D
Alhamdolilah.
+rep because I TRULY loved your story. :D Jazka Allah khair for sharing.=]
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Awesome Angel! Jazaka Allah khair for sharing! +rep. =]
I hope that with these lessons, we never upset both our parents inshAllah and we always give them all the love they need. <3333
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Awesome Angel! Jazaka Allah khair for sharing! +rep. =]
I hope that with these lessons, we never upset both our parents inshAllah and we always give them all the love they need. <3333
IA, Ameen.
I hugged my Mom yesterday. . . Alhamdulillah. It felt so good.
I am REALLY VERY bad in showing my feelings. :-[ :-X
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@Romeesa, BEAUTIFUL story.
I said this before..our imperfections is what makes us perfect. :D
Alhamdolilah.
+rep because I TRULY loved your story. :D Jazka Allah khair for sharing.=]
Ikr? MA :D
I agree. :D
JazakAllah khairon. Glad to share <333
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IA, Ameen.
I hugged my Mom yesterday. . . Alhamdulillah. It felt so good.
I am REALLY VERY bad in showing my feelings. :-[ :-X
I used to be embarrassed when I became 10-16 of hugs. I always loved hugs but I would feel shy to hug my dad and mom. Now...I just do it. At first they would ask me the reason surprisingly and I would just answer 'No reason, I just love you'. They would smile...until now it became a habit and they always wait for my hugs and kisses daily. :D
It feels really good..it feel awesome in fact. Giving our love to the parents who raised us up and made us stand on our own feet.
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I used to be embarrassed when I became 10-16 of hugs. I always loved hugs but I would feel shy to hug my dad and mom. Now...I just do it. At first they would ask me the reason surprisingly and I would just answer 'No reason, I just love you'. They would smile...until now it became a habit and they always wait for my hugs and kisses daily. :D
It feels really good..it feel awesome in fact. Giving our love to the parents who raised us up and made us stand on our own feet.
I want to but I cannot. It feels awkward. :-[
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I want to but I cannot. It feels awkward. :-[
LOL, yes. Just at the beginning Rom.
They are OUR parents! We came from our mommy's tummy!
There is NOTHING wrong with it and nothing weird. Trust me...all what every human being in this world need is love.
You'll feel inner peace and make them happy.
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I want to but I cannot. It feels awkward. :-[
I know what you mean ::)
Edit: Yeah mony you are right, By hugging parents you get the most peaceful feeling <33
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I know what you mean ::)
Oh come on girls. ::)
When you get married...you always feel like telling your husband/bf how much you love them.
Now what about your OWN parents? ::)
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Oh come on girls. ::)
When you get married...you always feel like telling your husband/bf how much you love them.
Now what about your OWN parents? ::)
LOOLL, I know :-X
I'll do it more now IA ::)
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LOOLL, I know :-X
I'll do it more now IA ::)
They deserve bits of the love they gave us when we are babies still learning to walk and talk... <3
Trust me..with time it'll turn into a wonderful habit. =]
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LOL, yes. Just at the beginning Rom.
They are OUR parents! We came from our mommy's tummy!
There is NOTHING wrong with it and nothing weird. Trust me...all what every human being in this world need is love.
You'll feel inner peace and make them happy.
IA, Imma try tomorrow. :P
But. . . My Dad is N0T the huggy type. He is very conserved and strict type. He will freak out if I hug him! :P
I think I got it from him. :P
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I know it may be weird me posting here..i am really shy..my mom understands me really well..i don't have to tell her things..she just understands..:')
I believe i should stay this way..i don't talk much and i am always there to listen. I think if i get too frank with my parents, i wouldn't respect them as i should. :o Just like it's said that teachers shouldn't be our friends. :o A distance is to be maintained, innit ?
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I know it may be weird me posting here..i am really shy..my mom understands me really well..i don't have to tell her things..she just understands..:')
I believe i should stay this way..i don't talk much and i am always there to listen. I think if i get too frank with my parents, i wouldn't respect them as i should. :o Just like it's said that teachers shouldn't be our friends. :o A distance is to be maintained, innit ?
Yeah but hugging isnt wrong, its just expressing your love for them and more like a small thank you :D
Although I dont do that much either but as I said I'll do it more now ::)
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Yeah but hugging isnt wrong, its just expressing your love for them and more like a small thank you :D
Although I dont do that much either but as I said I'll do it more now ::)
Yuh don't understand it's hard fer me. :P Saying things online fer me is very easy..i don't thank my parents either..but they just know it. Idk how. Maybe they know i am Crooked. ::)
Best of luck. =]
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Yuh don't understand it's hard fer me. :P Saying things online fer me is very easy..i don't thank my parents either..but they just know it. Idk how. Maybe they know i am Crooked. ::)
Best of luck. =]
I understand :o 'cause I am like that too ::)
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I know it may be weird me posting here..i am really shy..my mom understands me really well..i don't have to tell her things..she just understands..:')
I believe i should stay this way..i don't talk much and i am always there to listen. I think if i get too frank with my parents, i wouldn't respect them as i should. :o Just like it's said that teachers shouldn't be our friends. :o A distance is to be maintained, innit ?
I understand! :D
There were times when my parents thought that I didnt love them much I actually love them more than anything. ::)
Me and my Dad have a silent bond thing. He knows me better than I know myself.
I will try the hug thing with my Mama though I must say that my heart is gonna explode just thinking of it. I am TERRIBLE at showing my emotions/feeling except for crying. :P
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I understand! :D
There were times when my parents thought that I didnt love them much I actually love them more than anything. ::)
Me and my Dad have a silent bond thing. He knows me better than I know myself.
I will try the hug thing with my Mama though I must say that my heart is gonna explode just thinking of it. I am TERRIBLE at showing my emotions/feeling except for crying. :P
:D
Obviously. Yuh did such things. =,= :P
Awwwwww. How adorable is that. :D
Hahahaha, ikr. Yuh either get mad or yuh cry. :P :D
Ang3l, i told yuh we're similar. :o
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:D
Obviously. Yuh did such things. =,= :P
Awwwwww. How adorable is that. :D
Hahahaha, ikr. Yuh either get mad or yuh cry. :P :D
Ang3l, i told yuh we're similar. :o
Hey! >:( I did NOT.
I know. ::) I am weird like that. :(
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(http://maryjaneryan.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/album-gratitude.jpg)
Kid : I wish I could grow up.
Young Man : Wish I could be a kid again and the toy is my only concern in life.
Old Man : If only the old days come back when I was a young man...
Single : When will I ever get married and find my partner?
Married : Where are the days when I was single and free?
Rich : If I could stop worrying about all of this money
Poor : If I could be rich and only worry about money
The living : If only I could die and rest from this world
The dead : Please God, get me back to life..I'll do good deeds.
Tall : If I could just be a bit shorter?
Short : If I could just be a little taller?
Obese : If I could just lose some weight...
Skinny : If I could just be a bit fatter...
Fair : If I could be a bit tanned
Black : If I could just be white...
Student : I wish I never go to school or have any homework
Illiterate : If I could just go to school like normal kids...
Excuse me HUMAN beings when will you ever be satisfied?
Allah also said in the Quran:
“‘If you are grateful, I will surely give you more and more” (14th Surah, verse)
"Be content with what Allah has given you, and you will be the richest of people."
"When we complain, we remain. When we whine, we stay behind. When we praise, we raise. =]"
Prophet Muhammed(pbuh) said, "Look at the people who are below you and do not look at the people who are above you, so that you do not be greedy or ungrateful of Allah Blessings."
Gratitude >> Satisfaction >> Happiness
Alhamdolilah. =]
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Masha Allah Masha Allah
AMAZING <333
SUBHANALLAH, if only we realise how blessed we all are by Allah.
JazakAllah khair, ukhtee <3
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Masha Allah Masha Allah
AMAZING <333
SUBHANALLAH, if only we realise how blessed we all are by Allah.
JazakAllah khair, ukhtee <3
If we only realize how blessed we are...
Thank you for reading 7abibity. :-*
I was going to watch anime but ended up writing this. :P
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Very nice Mony :)
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Thats very nice. Thanks for sharing mony!
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If we only realize how blessed we are...
Thank you for reading 7abibity. :-*
I was going to watch anime but ended up writing this. :P
True. . . .
Pleasure is all mine! :-*
Thanks fer sharing! Keep it coming! :D
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Very true!! Thanks Mony! :)
be happy with what you got....
I personally think people should go to hospitals and such just to see the plight of hundreds of those who aren't even blessed with physical well-being enough to walk on their own, or see, or eat anything........
Everywhere we look, we can find those less fortunate than us, so never forget to be grateful to Allah...
If you attempt to count Allah's blessings, you cannot, even if you live to be a thousand...
Share Romy's sentiment; keep it comin!! :)
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Very true!! Thanks Mony! :)
be happy with what you got....
I personally think people should go to hospitals and such just to see the plight of hundreds of those who aren't even blessed with physical well-being enough to walk on their own, or see, or eat anything........
Everywhere we look, we can find those less fortunate than us, so never forget to be grateful to Allah...
If you attempt to count Allah's blessings, you cannot, even if you live to be a thousand...
Share Romy's sentiment; keep it comin!! :)
That was a great suggestion. I completely agree. (:
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@Alpha, oh la la! :D I get a comment from one of the greatest people in this forum. I feel honored. =] Thanks for reading.
@MU, thanks buddy. :D
@Woteverr, hmmm right. The fact that we can see, hear, walk, smell, talk and feel is a blessing. Heath is a blessing. Alhamdolilah.
Thanks for reading. =]
@Rom, inshAllah soon. =] :-*
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MashAllah that's a VERY STRONG message sis <3
Jazaki Allahu kair for sharing it with us =D
Keep going , because you're threads truly are "Eye Openers" ;) mA :D
Ca't for the next one =]
GG =D
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MashAllah that's a VERY STRONG message sis <3
Jazaki Allahu kair for sharing it with us =D
Keep going , because you're threads truly are "Eye Openers" ;) mA :D
Ca't for the next one =]
GG =D
Really?! :D I thought it wasn't so good but well..now I think it's fine since you said so! ;D
Still practicing my writing skills. =]
Jazka Allah khair 7abibity, this means a lot to me. I'll write a next one soon.
But hmmm..I wanted to ask..what is one thing that we face as a problem all the time and would love to change it?
A personality trait as in, is it anger? Laziness? Hate? Jealousy?
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Amazing lesson as usual,+rep :)
As they say in Arabic(al 8ana3a kanzon la yafna),which means something like (satisfaction is an eternal treasure) :)
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Really?! :D I thought it wasn't so good but well..now I think it's fine since you said so! ;D
Still practicing my writing skills. =]
Jazka Allah khair 7abibity, this means a lot to me. I'll write a next one soon.
But hmmm..I wanted to ask..what is one thing that we face as a problem all the time and would love to change it?
A personality trait as in, is it anger? Laziness? Hate? Jealousy?
Yup it is =] ....... InshAllah =D ....
I believe it would be Anger the first in line for me =[ ...Anyways I would really like it if you write an Article about "Time" because the Youth "US" these days waste our time as if it never mattered and don't realize that ALLAH will ask us about how we spent our lives ,especially the time of OUR "Youth" i.e. now.
HUSH : sa7 2ilsanak =D ..Mashkoor for sharing that with us =]
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@Hush, satisfaction is the eternal treasure indeed. =]
Thank you bro for reading. Make me very happy. :D
@Gigi, eh yea. I know eno 3an time bas ana kont ba3mal saving lel time article 3ashan our video :P bas inshAllah I'll write one very soon.
W akeed, el anger is another important thing I'll make sure to speak about.
Thank you 7abibity..<3
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Alright then , Can't wait for the Next Article =]
You're welcome <3
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Great work, MashAllah. Keep up the great work, sis. =]
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Great work, MashAllah. Keep up the great work, sis. =]
Thank you for reading lovvveeee...<3
I want to see you posting around more By the way. =] Who knows? We could bump into each other one day in Aziz Mall. :P :D
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@Alpha, oh la la! :D I get a comment from one of the greatest people in this forum. I feel honored. =] Thanks for reading.
@MU, thanks buddy. :D
@Woteverr, hmmm right. The fact that we can see, hear, walk, smell, talk and feel is a blessing. Heath is a blessing. Alhamdolilah.
Thanks for reading. =]
@Rom, inshAllah soon. =] :-*
Lah. Either am not great or everybody is great. ;)
And I've read all your lessons, browse your rep page. ::) Just avoiding posting in the forum. :D
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Lah. Either am not great or everybody is great. ;)
And I've read all your lessons, browse your rep page. ::) Just avoiding posting in the forum. :D
Everybody in one hand and you are in the other hand to me. =]
Awwwww you read them all?! :D Thank YOU! I hope they were good and were of a little benefit! Jazkai Allah khair. +rep for reading. =]
Soon inshAllah you'll post. Debate section is dead without Alpha. :(
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Everybody in one hand and you are in the other hand to me. =]
Awwwww you read them all?! :D Thank YOU! I hope they were good and were of a little benefit! Jazkai Allah khair. +rep for reading. =]
Soon inshAllah you'll post. Debate section is dead without Alpha. :(
Aw, that's sweet. <3 But still, I've not done anything great yet. ;)
I'm planning to do the things I want to do before I leave Mother Earth, and Father Time takes me away. :D :)
Thank you. <3 +repped you too. They were very good lessons. I think you should make a sticky thread and paste them all in one, like a booklet on SF. They'll help many, am sure. :)
I miss debates too. :( I know if I post, it'll get stretched and will end up spending much time there... Once am back, I'll revive it to the fullest I can. Though, others can still post. Maybe I can direct a lil bit instead of literally debating. :-\
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Aw, that's sweet. <3 But still, I've not done anything great yet. ;)
I'm planning to do the things I want to do before I leave Mother Earth, and Father Time takes me away. :D :)
Thank you. <3 +repped you too. They were very good lessons. I think you should make a sticky thread and paste them all in one, like a booklet on SF. They'll help many, am sure. :)
I miss debates too. :( I know if I post, it'll get stretched and will end up spending much time there... Once am back, I'll revive it to the fullest I can. Though, others can still post. Maybe I can direct a lil bit instead of literally debating. :-\
Being who YOU ARE is enough to this Earth. =] MashAllah. InshAllah you'll be able to do a lot, you can do wonders Alpha..just make it your goal in this life.
I'm not planning to die like anyone else. I'll die..leaving behind a future. If Allah gives me the health and the breath which keeps me alive inshAllah, I WILL try my best.
Ah, I got till lesson 4/5 in one thread, I'll merge the rest with them soon inshAllah. Those lessons helped me, even that I wrote some of them..still I wrote what I learned from the great leaders of this world and mostly what I learned from the Creator and from my Prophet. Prophet Muhammed pbuh. =]
Ah, don't get too close to debates then. Ever thought about taking part of a debating contest or something? I heard there are many worldwide and my friend used to come on the TV. :D
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Being who YOU ARE is enough to this Earth. =] MashAllah. InshAllah you'll be able to do a lot, you can do wonders Alpha..just make it your goal in this life.
I'm not planning to die like anyone else. I'll die..leaving behind a future. If Allah gives me the health and the breath which keeps me alive inshAllah, I WILL try my best.
Ah, I got till lesson 4/5 in one thread, I'll merge the rest with them soon inshAllah. Those lessons helped me, even that I wrote some of them..still I wrote what I learned from the great leaders of this world and mostly what I learned from the Creator and from my Prophet. Prophet Muhammed pbuh. =]
Ah, don't get too close to debates then. Ever thought about taking part of a debating contest or something? I heard there are many worldwide and my friend used to come on the TV. :D
Thanks. Knowing there's someone who believes in it feels nice. :)
Same here. I will make sure too I leave the world with something useful before I go. Will pray for us, both. :)
Make them sticky. ;)
You know what? Since we have so many lessons, maybe we could have a Morality Child Board? :D
Yes... the parliament. Esp. in Mauritius. ::)
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Thanks. Knowing there's someone who believes in it feels nice. :)
Same here. I will make sure too I leave the world with something useful before I go. Will pray for us, both. :)
Make them sticky. ;)
You know what? Since we have so many lessons, maybe we could have a Morality Child Board? :D
Yes... the parliament. Esp. in Mauritius. ::)
OHHHHH MYYYYY GODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD :o :o :o :o :o :o A MORALITY CHILD-BOARD! Yesssss!!!!!!!! That's the BEST IDEA EVER IN SF ;D ;D ;D ;D and in there we could like include those lesson, ALL the useful stories, your Blue Ribbon threads, all the useful quotes etc
It'll be SO USEFUL! Like, even guests would benefit and people would go there for tips! Come on Alpha, start a topic about it in the lounge. I'm sure no one will disagree inshAllah. It'LL be AWESOME isA. Even if we leave this place, we leave behind some useful stuff for all the next generations who will join this forum inshAllah!
I'll pray to both of us and everyone else inshAllah. =]
So did you ever take a part of it? Ever thought of debating and all? You'd do a good job there mA. ;)
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OHHHHH MYYYYY GODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD :o :o :o :o :o :o A MORALITY CHILD-BOARD! Yesssss!!!!!!!! That's the BEST IDEA EVER IN SF ;D ;D ;D ;D and in there we could like include those lesson, ALL the useful stories, your Blue Ribbon threads, all the useful quotes etc
It'll be SO USEFUL! Like, even guests would benefit and people would go there for tips! Come on Alpha, start a topic about it in the lounge. I'm sure no one will disagree inshAllah. It'LL be AWESOME isA. Even if we leave this place, we leave behind some useful stuff for all the next generations who will join this forum inshAllah!
I'll pray to both of us and everyone else inshAllah. =]
So did you ever take a part of it? Ever thought of debating and all? You'd do a good job there mA. ;)
"Even if we leave this place, we leave behind some useful stuff for all the next generations who will join this forum inshAllah!"
Exactly. :)
Thank you... Okay, I'll create one just before I go now. :)
And no. :D The parliament is where all the government bodies and the Opposition party and the Ministers debate on issues and policies. I'm way too young, way too inexperienced, have no political career (not even a career). :D
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And no. :D The parliament is where all the government bodies and the Opposition party and the Ministers debate on issues and policies. I'm way too young, way too inexperienced, have no political career (not even a career). :D
hahahahahaha..I'm lolling. LOOOOOOL.
Not the parliament other contests, other debating contests where you get certificates and all. :D
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hahahahahaha..I'm lolling. LOOOOOOL.
Not the parliament other contests, other debating contests where you get certificates and all. :D
I participated, in the debates at school, but more for elocution contests. My prizes remained at school, the school takes them if you participate using its name.
But anyway, the real debates will be the ones that will really make a difference to the lives of people. But before that, I gotta set some order in my own life. :)
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True, We actually do complain a lot ::)
We usually ignore the good side and focus on the bad one that's why instead of being thankful to Allah for what he has given us we keep asking and complaining for more.
Thank you for sharing :)
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True, We actually do complain a lot ::)
We usually ignore the good side and focus on the bad one that's why instead of being thankful to Allah for what he has given us we keep asking and complaining for more.
Thank you for sharing :)
And if complaining and whining was to get us anywhere then I would've excused those who do it, but unfortunately it doesn't get us what we want.
Thanks for reading love. <3
@Alpha, mashAllah. Soon enough. =]
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~ The Blessings of Gratitude and Shukr ~
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Gratitude (shukr) is about expressing thanks and appreciation to those who do any favor to us. Obviously, none can come close to our creator, Allah, who gave us everything. As the Quran states: “Who created you, fashioned you perfectly, and gave you due proportion” [Infitar 82:7]. As humans, Allah has bestowed on us the nature to be grateful and we should thus express that gratitude not just to Allah but to the people whom we deal with as well. In many places in the Quran, Allah divides people as being grateful and as ungrateful to motivate us to join the camp of those who are grateful. In one of such verses, Prophet Sulaiman said, as stated in the Quran, “. . . then when (Sulaiman (Solomon)) saw it placed before him, he said: "This is by the Grace of my Lord to test me whether I am grateful or ungrateful! And whoever is grateful, truly, his gratitude is for (the good of) his own self, and whoever is ungrateful, (he is ungrateful only for the loss of his own self). Certainly! My Lord is Rich (Free of all wants), Bountiful" [An-Naml: 40]
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Having a sense of gratitude is thus a great blessing and those of us who instill that sense within themselves not only seek Allah’s pleasure but embody a sense of happiness, relieving us of the many pressures and anxieties. Although the blessings and benefits of gratitude are many, this post highlights certain important ones that you should recognize and use as a means to motivate that sense within yourselves.
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*Gratitude is knowing that whatever we have is from Allah. Gratitude helps us focus our minds on Allah, something that has unfortunately become so difficult today on account of life’s distractions and attractions. Gratitude, therefore, corrects our perceptions by reminding us that everything that happens to us doesn’t happen because of its own volition and thus we shouldn’t take matters for “granted”. Allah says in the Quran: “And whatever of blessings and good things you have, it is from Allah” [al-Nahl 16:53]. He also says, “And He found you poor and made you rich (self?sufficient with self?contentment)” [al-Duha 93:8]. Let’s therefore constantly remind ourselves of Allah’s bounties by expressing our gratitude to Him in prayers and at other times.
*Gratitude helps in warding off punishment from Allah. Not recognizing Allah’s blessings can prevent us from gaining His pleasure. We know that if Allah were to punish us for our negligence, He would be justified for it. He says in the Quran: “If Allah took mankind to task by that which they deserve, He would not leave a living creature on the surface of the earth; but He grants them reprieve unto an appointed term, and when their term comes – then verily Allah is Ever All-Seer of His slaves” [Fatir (35):45]. At the same time though, Allah provides us a way to escape that punishment by being thankful to Him. He says, “Why should Allah punish you if you have thanked (Him) and have believed in Him. And Allah is Ever All-Appreciative (of good), All-Knowing” [(An-Nisa, Verse #147)]. Gratitude, therefore, is not an option and we should clean our hearts to thank Allah for everything that He has provided us.
*Gratitude helps us to slow down and to enjoy what we have rather than always waiting for the next wish to come true. Gratitude can help us recognize that we already have enough of what many people have for long been yearning for. We must therefore tame our Nafs to understand that if we can’t find happiness in the blessings that we have today, then we won’t be happy with what we get tomorrow. You see, gratitude is a sense of fulfillment that comes not from wanting more but rather from a sense of knowing that Allah has already blessed us with what we need. In one of the hadiths the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “…if the son of Adam has one valley, he will wish that he had a second, and if he had two valleys, he would wish that he had a third. The stomach of the son of Adam will be filled only with dust (i.e., he is never satisfied)…” (Reported by Ahmad, 5/219; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 1781). So, let’s use gratitude to learn to enjoy what we have rather than fretting over what we don’t.
*Gratitude sought by exercising patience against unlawful desires prevents us from harmful consequences later. This was very aptly addressed by Ibn Qayyim, who stated that “Patience in resisting desires is easier than patience in dealing with the consequences that result from going along with desires, because it either leads to pain and punishment or it prevents a more complete pleasure, . . . or it deprives one of a blessing, having which is more pleasurable and better than fulfilling desires, . . . or it cuts off an oncoming blessing, or it has a negative impact on one’s character that will remain, because deeds have a great impact on one’s character and behavior.” [Al-Fawaa’id (p. 139)]
*Gratitude trains our minds to focus on the right things in life. It’s akin to walking in a room filled with various colored items and focusing only on items of a specific color. If you do so, your mind will be able to easily mask the other colors as you focus on items of that specific color. Our life is no different. When we let our minds look for problems, we see plenty of them. Instead, if we rather look away from problems and focus on possibilities and go for solutions, we will get those too. Let’s, therefore, use gratitude to motivate ourselves to find possibilities and solutions and not the negatives associated with problems.
*Gratitude helps us recognize other people’s favors to us. The Prophet through his sayings made it quite clear that expressing our gratitude to Allah by thanking Him also involves that we thank people who do favors for us. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said as narrated by Abu Hurairah: “He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah” (Ahmad, Tirmidhi). He also said: “Whoever does you a favor, then reciprocate, and if you cannot find anything with which to reciprocate, then pray for him until you think that you have reciprocated him” Abu Dawood (1672). In another hadith, he said: “Whoever has a favor done for him and says to the one who did it, ‘Jazak Allahu khayran,’ has done enough to thank him” [Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi]. Let’s therefore ensure that we do our part to sincerely thank our families and those who have done good to us.
*Gratitude isn’t about ignoring our problems. On the contrary, gratitude helps us to be patient, accepting of life’s trials, and accordingly trains us to seek personal fulfillment with less. Gratitude thus makes us “low maintenance” in our demands and expectations. This trait reduces our burden on those around us, making our company more pleasing to others instead of leaving us always unhappy, more demanding, and impossible to please because of unending requirements.
*Gratitude is going beyond words and instead thanking through our actions. We see this in the example of the prophet whose sins were forgiven by Allah although he continued to strive for His pleasure. It was narrated that Aa’ishah said: “When the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) prayed, he would stand for so long that his feet would become swollen. ‘Aa’ishah said: O Messenger of Allah, are you doing this when Allah has forgiven your past and future sins? He said: “O ‘Aa’ishah, should I not be a thankful slave?” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (4557) and Muslim (2820). Let’s, therefore, pray the extra nawafil as one way to thank Allah for His blessings.
*Gratitude helps increase one’s blessings. Allah says: “And (remember) when your Lord proclaimed: ‘If you give thanks (by accepting Faith and worshipping none but Allah), I will give you more (of My Blessings); but if you are thankless, verily, My punishment is indeed severe’” [Ibraaheem 14:7] Let’s, therefore, make thanking Allah part of morning and evening remembrances (adhkars) to get more of Allah’s blessings in our lives.
*Gratitude helps us to get the pleasure of Allah in the hereafter when in Paradise we express our gratitude to Allah for His blessings to enter us into paradise. Abul-Abbaas al-Qurtubi said: “. . . gratitude for blessings – even if they are few – is a means of attaining the pleasure of Allah, may He be exalted, which is the noblest situation of the people of Paradise. When the people of Paradise say, “You (Allah) have given to us what You have not given to anyone among Your creation,” Allah will say to them: “Shall I not give you something better than that?” They will say, “What is it? Have You not brightened our faces, and admitted us to Paradise and saved us from Hell?” Allah will say, “I bestow My pleasure upon you, and I will never be angry with you after that.” [Al-Mufhim lima ashkala min Talkhees Kitaab Muslim (7/60, 61)]. What better reward can we expect? So, why not be grateful to Him for what He has provided us day and night?
~Conclusion
Gratitude’s importance was emphasized by the Prophet when he took the hand of Mu’aadh ibn Jabal and said: “O Mu’aadh, by Allah I love you, by Allah I love you.” Then he said, “I advise you, O Mu’aadh, do not fail to say this after every prayer: O Allah help me to remember You, to thank You and to worship You properly.” The Arabic version of this Hadith is the following. Let’s ensure that we memorize it and recite it after every prayer.
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Allahumma A’inni Ala dhikrika wa shukrika wa husni ibadatika
Finally, remember that being grateful is not an option and being one brings us closer to those whom we thank and appreciate.
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I found this story about 'A Clever King', gives us good insight on how to live our lives.
There was a country long time ago where the people would change a king every year. The person who would become the king had to agree to a contract that he will be sent to an island after his one year of being a king. So, one king finished his term and it was time for him to go to the island and live there. The people dressed him up in expensive clothes and put him on an elephant and took him around the cities to say goodbye to all the people. This was the moment of sadness for all the kings who ruled for one year. After saying goodbye, the people took the king with a boat to the remote island and left him there. On their way back, they discovered a ship that had sunk just recently. They saw a young man who survived by holding on to a floating piece of wood. As they needed a new king, they picked up the young man and took him to their country. They requested him to be a king for a year. First he refused but later he agreed to be a king. People told him about all the rules and regulations and that how he will be sent to an island after one year.
After three days of being a king, he asked the ministers if they could show him the island where all the other kings were sent. They agreed and took him to the island. The island was covered with thick jungles and sound of vicious animals were heard coming out of them. The king went little bit inside to see how it was and discovered the dead bodies of all the past kings. He understood that as soon as they were left in the island, the animals came and killed them.
The king then went back to the country and requested the people to provide him with 100 strong workers. He was provided with 100 workers and he took them to the island and told them to remove all the deadly animals and to cut down all the trees. He would visit the island every month to see how the work is progressing.
In the first month, all the animals were removed and many trees were cut down. In the second month, the whole island was cleaned out. The king then told the workers to plant gardens in various parts of the island. He also took with himself useful animals like chickens, ducks, birds, goats, cows etc. In the third month, he ordered the workers to build big houses and docking stations for ships. Over the months, the island turned into a beautiful place. The young king would wear simple clothes and spend very little from his earnings. He sent all the earnings to the island for storage. Nine months have passed like this. The king called the people and told them that "I know that I have to go the island after one year, but I would like to go there right now." But the people didn't agree to this and said that he have to wait for another 3 months to complete the year.
3 months passed and now it was a full year. The people dressed up the young king and put him on an elephant to take him around the country to say goodbye to others. However, this king is unusually happy to leave the kingdom. People asked him, "All the other kings would cry at this moment and why are you laughing?" He replied, "Don't you know what the wise people say? They say that when you came to this world as a baby, you were crying and everyone was smiling. Live such a life that when you are dieing, you will be smiling and everyone around you will be crying. I have lived that life. While all the other kings were lost into the luxuries of the kingdom, I always thought about the future and planned for it. I turned the deadly island into a beautiful abode for me where I can stay peacefullly."
We should take a lesson from this story about how we should also live our life. The life of this world is to prepare for the life hereafter. In this life, we shouldn't get lost into the beautiful things of this world and forget about what is to come in the afterlife. Rather, even if we are kings, we should live a simple life like our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and save all our enjoyments for the hereafter. May Allah make it easy for us all. ;D
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I found this story about 'A Clever King', gives us good insight on how to live our lives.
There was a country long time ago where the people would change a king every year. The person who would become the king had to agree to a contract that he will be sent to an island after his one year of being a king. So, one king finished his term and it was time for him to go to the island and live there. The people dressed him up in expensive clothes and put him on an elephant and took him around the cities to say goodbye to all the people. This was the moment of sadness for all the kings who ruled for one year. After saying goodbye, the people took the king with a boat to the remote island and left him there. On their way back, they discovered a ship that had sunk just recently. They saw a young man who survived by holding on to a floating piece of wood. As they needed a new king, they picked up the young man and took him to their country. They requested him to be a king for a year. First he refused but later he agreed to be a king. People told him about all the rules and regulations and that how he will be sent to an island after one year.
After three days of being a king, he asked the ministers if they could show him the island where all the other kings were sent. They agreed and took him to the island. The island was covered with thick jungles and sound of vicious animals were heard coming out of them. The king went little bit inside to see how it was and discovered the dead bodies of all the past kings. He understood that as soon as they were left in the island, the animals came and killed them.
The king then went back to the country and requested the people to provide him with 100 strong workers. He was provided with 100 workers and he took them to the island and told them to remove all the deadly animals and to cut down all the trees. He would visit the island every month to see how the work is progressing.
In the first month, all the animals were removed and many trees were cut down. In the second month, the whole island was cleaned out. The king then told the workers to plant gardens in various parts of the island. He also took with himself useful animals like chickens, ducks, birds, goats, cows etc. In the third month, he ordered the workers to build big houses and docking stations for ships. Over the months, the island turned into a beautiful place. The young king would wear simple clothes and spend very little from his earnings. He sent all the earnings to the island for storage. Nine months have passed like this. The king called the people and told them that "I know that I have to go the island after one year, but I would like to go there right now." But the people didn't agree to this and said that he have to wait for another 3 months to complete the year.
3 months passed and now it was a full year. The people dressed up the young king and put him on an elephant to take him around the country to say goodbye to others. However, this king is unusually happy to leave the kingdom. People asked him, "All the other kings would cry at this moment and why are you laughing?" He replied, "Don't you know what the wise people say? They say that when you came to this world as a baby, you were crying and everyone was smiling. Live such a life that when you are dieing, you will be smiling and everyone around you will be crying. I have lived that life. While all the other kings were lost into the luxuries of the kingdom, I always thought about the future and planned for it. I turned the deadly island into a beautiful abode for me where I can stay peacefullly."
We should take a lesson from this story about how we should also live our life. The life of this world is to prepare for the life hereafter. In this life, we shouldn't get lost into the beautiful things of this world and forget about what is to come in the afterlife. Rather, even if we are kings, we should live a simple life like our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and save all our enjoyments for the hereafter. May Allah make it easy for us all. ;D
^awesome story amelia
thanks for sharing <3
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^ Thanks for sharing both of you :)
Romy, the last picture is AWESOME!!!
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@Romeesa, AWESOMENESS! That gratitude lesson is really great, also the last picture is wonderful. Jazaka Allah khair sis. =]
I'll take some parts of it to share it in my page! :D Thank you love.
@Amelia, that's a REALLY marvelous story mashAllah.
Very true..we should live our lives preparing for the day we will part this world and for the after-life.
Such a beautiful story, makes us realize a lot and that this life is too short.
I loved it a lot and I'll share it on my FB page so that you take the reward for it. =]
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@Romeesa, AWESOMENESS! That gratitude lesson is really great, also the last picture is wonderful. Jazaka Allah khair sis. =]
I'll take some parts of it to share it in my page! :D Thank you love.
@Amelia, that's a REALLY marvelous story mashAllah.
Very true..we should live our lives preparing for the day we will part this world and for the after-life.
Such a beautiful story, makes us realize a lot and that this life is too short.
I loved it a lot and I'll share it on my FB page so that you take the reward for it. =]
Please share them! =] Makes me happier! :D
Agreed. The story is great, Amelia! =]