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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #135 on: July 06, 2011, 01:07:50 pm »
Quote from: The Golden Girl on July 06, 2011, 01:00:31 pm
Ditto  :-X ..inshAllah will work on it to ..good luck ;)

We are travelling on the same boat then!  :-[

Good luck! ;) :D
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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #136 on: July 06, 2011, 01:08:49 pm »
Okay =]  ^
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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #137 on: July 06, 2011, 06:32:00 pm »
Quote from: Mimi Sterling on July 06, 2011, 12:16:14 pm
@shoshou..Mony :thanks alot for the amazing stories u've shared with us.+rep ;D ;D ;D


I'm very glad you liked them!

Thank YOU for reading and I do wish to know you better soon. :D

@Gigi n Romeesa, yeah..we all tend to say things that we never mean when getting angry.  :(
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #138 on: July 07, 2011, 02:28:49 pm »
Quote from: Shoshou..Mony-Chan on July 06, 2011, 06:32:00 pm
I'm very glad you liked them!

Thank YOU for reading and I do wish to know you better soon. :D

@Gigi n Romeesa, yeah..we all tend to say things that we never mean when getting angry.  :(
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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #139 on: July 09, 2011, 01:35:52 am »
MASHALLAH THIS STORIES ARE AMAZING!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH MONY...THERE ARE JUST SO MANY THINGs WE DONT KNOW DAT CUD ACTUALLY DRAG US TO HELL FIRE.. pls  continue wid da amazing work dat u do!
MASHALLAH!...thank u soo much for sharing!!!!
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So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains .And we never even know we have the key!
And most importantly, i shall also not be conquered :D !

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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #140 on: July 09, 2011, 01:55:41 am »
Quote from: nikita eshrat on July 09, 2011, 01:35:52 am
MASHALLAH THIS STORIES ARE AMAZING!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH MONY...THERE ARE JUST SO MANY THINGs WE DONT KNOW DAT CUD ACTUALLY DRAG US TO HELL FIRE.. pls  continue wid the amazing work dat u do!
MASHALLAH!...thank u soo much for sharing!!!!

Awwww 7abibity..<33333

Thank YOU for taking some of your time to read them. InshAllah I'll post soon more. =]

Nikita-chan >>> You ROCK! :D
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #141 on: July 09, 2011, 01:59:05 am »
Quote from: Shoshou..Mony-Chan on July 09, 2011, 01:55:41 am
Awwww 7abibity..<33333

Thank YOU for taking some of your time to read them. InshAllah I'll post soon more. =]

Nikita-chan >>> You ROCK! :D

no mony..u ROCK way more dan i do.. MASHALLAH..and i pray dat u always remain "da awesomeness" dat u are!!! :-* :-* :-*( all my  prayers hugs and kisses are for you!)
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So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains .And we never even know we have the key!
And most importantly, i shall also not be conquered :D !

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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #142 on: July 09, 2011, 02:06:09 am »
Quote from: nikita eshrat on July 09, 2011, 01:59:05 am
no mony..u ROCK way more dan i do.. MASHALLAH..and i pray dat u always remain "the awesomeness" dat u are!!! :-* :-* :-*( all my  prayers hugs and kisses are for you!)

Nooooo! Sis, you are have no idea how much your sweetness touched me deep inside that heart of mine,wallah. People like you are the reason who I am right now. People like you are what keeps me happy and alive in this world ,and people like you motivate me and encourage me all the time.

I really feel like crying now because you REALLY make me happy. Thank YOU because what matters to me the MOST is that this knowledge doesn't benefit me alone, rather it benefits also my brothers and sisters.  :'(

Don't ever call yourself melodrama because you haven't discovered how dramatic I get. :'( :'( :'(

I love you Nikita-Chan. You are added to my list of people whom I admire. I'm your fan. <333



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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #143 on: July 09, 2011, 02:13:32 am »



you had to make me cry... :'( :'( :'(..... didnt u? *talk about being dramatic*
jus got 3 words 4 u- i love you  a hell lot dan u can evr luv me and no matter wat u say nothing  CAN EVER CHANGE THAT!..Okay soo it was more dan 3 words byt yeah wateveru got da point rite!!!
i love you too monica chan!!!
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So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains .And we never even know we have the key!
And most importantly, i shall also not be conquered :D !

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Lesson 5: Temptations ~
« Reply #144 on: July 09, 2011, 02:34:29 am »


I read about a young Muslim in Britain who came across an advertisement by a company looking for escorts. He went to the interview to find a group of young men comprised of Muslims and non-Muslims. The interviewees were entering into the interview room one after the other, and every time a person would come out, those waiting outside would ask, “What did they ask you? What did you say?”

One of the important questions they asked the interviewees was, “How much alcohol do you drink a day?” When the young man’s turn came, h entered and began to answer their questions. During the session, they asked the same question.

The young man thought to himself that perhaps he should lie and say that he drinks alcohol like the rest of the young men, just so that they would not think that he was a strict Muslim. He also contemplated speaking the truth and saying, “I am a Muslim and Allah has forbidden me from drinking alcohol. Therefore, I do not drink.”
After some quick thinking, he decided to speak the truth. Thus, he said, “I do not drink.”
They said, “Why? Are you ill?”
He said, “No, but rather because I am a Muslim and alcohol
is forbidden for me.”
They said, “Meaning, you don’t drink? Even on the weekends?”
He said, “Yes. I do not drink at all.”

They looked at each other in surprise. When the results were published, his name was top of the list! He began to work with them and several months passed. One day, he spoke to one of the interviewers and asked him, “Why did you ask questions about alcohol consumption?”

He said, “Because the job is to do with escorting, and every time we have employed a young man, we would be surprised to discover that he drank and got drunk. When we realised that you do not drink, we knew that we got the person we were looking for, and hence we employed you!”

How wonderful it is to stick to your principles, despite temptations! The problem is that we live in a society where it is difficult to find those who stick to their principles – people who live and die for them, those who rigidly adhere to them in the face of temptations.

If you follow the right method and adhere to the straight path, then those who believe in different principles will never leave you alone. Whenever you refuse a bribe, the friends who are attempting to bribe you are angered. Whenever you refuse to indulge in illicit sexual relations, those who do indulge in them will become upset with you.

It is related that ‘Umar bin al-Khattab – may Allah be pleased with him – was once on a night patrol. He passed by a house in the darkest part of the night and heard the people therein laughing and fooling around as if they were drunk. He did not wish to knock at their door at night and feared he might have wrongly assumed that they were drunk. He therefore wished to ascertain the matter. He therefore took a piece of coal, made a mark on the door, and left. The owner of the house heard something at the door, so he went out and noticed the mark. He looked up to see the back of ‘Umar and understood what had happened. What he should have done was to wipe out the mark and that would have been the end of the matter. But he didn’t do that. Instead, he took the piece of coal and went to his neighbours’ houses, leaving marks on their doors! It was as if he wanted the people to be as base as him by being drunk like him, instead of wanting to raise himself to their level!

There is an idiom which says, “A fornicating woman wishes that all women fornicated like her.” Sometimes you may find that a wife habitually lies to her husband. She has been cultured to be a habitual liar from a very young age. When she comes across someone who criticises her for that and advises her to speak the truth, she will try to drag her to her side of the fence. She would insist, “This is all you can do with men! You cannot live with them except by lying to them.” Some women listening to this may begin to give up their principles and change while others may remain firm on their principles.

A grocer, for example, may not sell cigarettes, but then his friend comes to him and advises him to sell cigarettes to increase his profits and puts doubts in his mind to convince him of his opinion. Be brave and stick to your principles. Say in a loud voice, “Never! No matter what the temptations!”
In the past, some disbelievers tried to make the Messenger of Allah pbuh give up some of his principles, and hence, Allah said, “They wish that you compromise, so they too can compromise.”

Meaning, that the disbelievers who worship idols have no principles to adhere to, and hence, they see no difficulty in giving anything up. So be wary of them ever tempting you to lose grip of your principles.

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Allah says, “Do not obey those who reject the truth. They
wish that you compromise, so they too can compromise.”

Written By : Dr.Muhammed Al-Arifi

You have your OWN principles, you have your OWN beliefs and you have your STRONG personality, so you do NOT get affected by the people around you. You are the one who have an influence on them because they are weak but you are NOT weak. You are strong enough to say NO to those who offer you a cigirattes or ask you to join them in the forbidden.

Thank you for reading. You can read the other lessons following this link >> https://studentforums.biz/chit-chat/lesson-1-the-tongue-is-king-(must-read)/


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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 1, 2 & 3 ~ HERE!
« Reply #145 on: July 09, 2011, 02:41:59 am »
Quote from: nikita eshrat on July 09, 2011, 02:13:32 am


you had to make me cry... :'( :'( :'(..... didnt u? *talk about being dramatic*
jus got 3 words 4 u- i love you  a hell lot dan u can evr luv me and no matter wat u say nothing  CAN EVER CHANGE THAT!..Okay soo it was more dan 3 words byt yeah wateveru got the point rite!!!
i love you too monica chan!!!

hahahahaha...you never fail to crack me!

Thank you 7abibity...<333

And I posted a new lesson for you since you wanted me to post more. =] It's in a new thread.
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 5: Temptations ~
« Reply #146 on: July 09, 2011, 07:41:22 am »
Thanks mony! Great lesson!

May Allah guide us in the right path and keep us away from all the sins.

Thanks mony! Keep us updated with new lessons!

+Rep!
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Re: Lesson 5: Temptations ~
« Reply #147 on: July 09, 2011, 08:58:26 am »
JAzakallah Khair for Sharing with us :)

+rep :) and should be on top of the chit-chat :P
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Re: Lesson 5: Temptations ~
« Reply #148 on: July 09, 2011, 09:22:08 am »
Mony that was a really good Article mashAllah and You have seriously made me believe that book is Indeed worth me reading it all over again  but with actually Applying  what he says in it. *you know Ana kasalt to eno I read it marra taneeya tbh ,Bas I know now that it's very important for me to read it  :) *


Mony , Ana 3indi story bas I'll send it to you via PMs since it's a bit personal ;)

JAZAKI ALLAHU KULLA KAIR <3 Allah guide us ALL :)
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Re: Lesson 5: Temptations ~
« Reply #149 on: July 09, 2011, 11:43:04 am »
@MU, Amen. =]

I'm writing a lesson myself and will be sharing it soon inshAllah. =] Thank YOU for giving some of your time to read this. God bless you. :D

@Saud, lol..well if you guys post here it'll always be in the top page. :P

This lesson teaches a lot and it taught me A LOT.

The more you stick to your principles and beliefs, the more people respect you for who you are.

Thanks for the rep. =]

@Gigi, yes..I really loved his book. It taught me A LOT. <333
Thank you for the lovely pm. God bless you gigi. I love you very much.  :-*
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3
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