No. I don't agree. Its only about the money. If the family has it, whether she'll work or not is her own opinion (be it from the husbands or the wife's side). Nothing to be forced. If the family is not rich it is a must for her to be a career woman with no compromises with husband or kids.
If the family is rich, it doesn't make much sense for a wife to leave husband and kids to fend for themselves and 'stand up on their own'.
I said NO MORE than 4 kids.