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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #120 on: July 23, 2010, 06:50:48 pm »
i read the entire thrad nd im so happy to c tht so many ppl r against relationships it ruly is a fad
i had one, nd both of us were damn serius nd at the end wen we were plannin to take it to the next level we broke up
so it srsly is a waste of time money nd everything else love doesnt exist in this world anymore u have a very rare possiblity to find it only after marriage hopefully im right


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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #121 on: July 24, 2010, 12:43:24 am »
Love exists, just not everywhere  ;)

Love = rubbish

Love = Heart being broken

Love = Regret

Love = Humiliation

Those are the disadvantages. =P

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #122 on: July 24, 2010, 01:52:53 am »
I honestly dislike it when people start talking about how love is bad.

Love is the purest thing a person can have with his Lord.

Love is the purest thing a person can have with his parents.

Love is the purest thing a person can have with his children.

And Love is the purest and most noble thing a man can have with a woman.

Generalizing love is bad just because you had a failed/bad affair is not the solution.

A touch of a hand with your lover can solve everything, just a smile can make your world look beautiful.

The thing is, as mentioned before, everything has its time. You can't jump before you walk.

Life is a series of steps, more of a bomb. If you this-arm any of it's wires in its non -logical sequence, your life will literally explode.

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #123 on: July 24, 2010, 02:28:54 am »
I honestly dislike it when people start talking about how love is bad.

Love is the purest thing a person can have with his Lord.

Love is the purest thing a person can have with his parents.

Love is the purest thing a person can have with his children.

And Love is the purest and most noble thing a man can have with a woman.

Generalizing love is bad just because you had a failed/bad affair is not the solution.

A touch of a hand with your lover can solve everything, just a smile can make your world look beautiful.

The thing is, as mentioned before, everything has its time. You can't jump before you walk.

Life is a series of steps, more of a bomb. If you this-arm any of it's wires in its non -logical sequence, your life will literally explode.

First of all, I was talking about the love in relationships not the general love.

Secondly, I said clearly those were the disadvantages. I know everything have advantages, like love.

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #124 on: July 24, 2010, 06:50:54 am »
Pertaining to this topic which deals with the mortal love(gf/bf relationships) people have today, it can't even be classified as love...point 1.

Love is immortal...Happens once and lasts for a lifetime. The love that fades with time is not love.

Love is pure and definitely not selfish. It is about loving someone selflessly without expecting anything in return. Do you see that in today's youth?

I fail to understand why people lie about love..

A few days affair was never love. It was lust.

In a relationship, sometimes, it so happens that only one of them loves the other unconditionally and believes that their partner's love is genuine(but it's a lie) When things go wrong, the person goes through severe pain...It is traumatic.

Today, people concoct a story of their love for someone, it is painful in the long run.

It is my earnest request to anyone reading this to never deceive a person and lie to them about love. No one should go through the trauma.No one is worth that anguish.

Whenever you say you love someone, mean it, or just don't say it. This is even when you are saying it to your friends or family...anyone. Say it only and only when you mean it.

All those in relationships, who think it's fun, re-think....it may not be for the other.

That abt it i guess  ::) :P




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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #125 on: July 24, 2010, 11:31:35 am »
I have to agree. ::)
both of u..what du mean???
i jst laughd it off cz well it is ajoke to see the way ppl get into relationships and blah WTV..i don't care!
thats y-my post was like that..what's that got to do with extremes???

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #126 on: July 24, 2010, 12:00:42 pm »
Love GOD, He will never hurt.
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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #127 on: July 24, 2010, 12:08:45 pm »
Love GOD, he will never hurt.

coolest thing to say...its the ultimate truth ;)

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #128 on: July 24, 2010, 12:10:34 pm »
infact..+rep for saying that :D
i'm repping a lot these days...haha!
but...sadly..i have to wait 2 hrs..UGH!
but i'll keep my word :D

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #129 on: July 24, 2010, 12:12:58 pm »
coolest thing to say...its the ultimate truth ;)

Yes... The ultimate Truth.  :)

+rep too.

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #130 on: July 24, 2010, 12:34:20 pm »
exactly  Alpha  :)
Hope for the Best .....Expect the Worst ;)

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #131 on: July 24, 2010, 12:37:33 pm »

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #132 on: July 24, 2010, 02:53:48 pm »
Love GOD, He will never hurt.

You understood this SO LATE!!! :P

That;s what I've been telling everybody since when I don't know. Love ANYTHING but another guy or girl.

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Love = rubbish

Love = Heart being broken

Love = Regret

Love = Humiliation

Those are the disadvantages. =P

I agree. My other post in another debate explains this very well:::


Look, I am NOT against love. I do not despise love, as you seem to think. In fact, I myself love many things. For example, money, wealth and business, house, family etc etc etc. Love is a strong emotion indeed. This strong emotion IS necessary for someone to achieve something.

BUT and a BIG BUT, when this love becomes for something which is NOT beneficial, this is very illogical, foolish and something to be despised of. A very good example of this is the love for another girl/guy. My point is, love for money and business is understandable and plausible, since they are beneficial to you. But love for another girl/guy? Its not. What will you get by loving that guy/girl? NOTHING. As I said, love is a strong emotion. And due to this very reason, love for another guy/girl will CONSUME the person concerned, that too, without any personal benefit for the person. He/she will always think about his/her lover, neglecting his/her studies, business or work in case of a grown up man, and other very important tasks.

Got it now?

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #133 on: July 24, 2010, 02:56:05 pm »
You understood this SO LATE!!! :P

That;s what I've been telling everybody since when I don't know. Love ANYTHING but another guy or girl.


Oh... well... but that doesn't mean I hate anyone.

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #134 on: July 24, 2010, 02:56:28 pm »
Borakk, sorry to say, loving materialistic things is not love  :) You got to understand the meaning of Love first :)