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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #105 on: May 12, 2010, 07:48:12 pm »
well people have their own choice...........
they can choose whatever they want..........
but for me having a bf/gf is not a big deal if u noe how to handle them dou im personally against it bcoz i never had one.........
WE as a STUDENT shud think that study is our main priority nd the rest come as a sec or third or last.....
LIFE is SHORT so take it EASY................
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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #106 on: May 16, 2010, 06:32:04 am »
well people have their own choice...........
they can choose whatever they want..........
but for me having a bf/gf is not a big deal if u noe how to handle them dou im personally against it bcoz i never had one.........
WE as a STUDENT shud think that study is our main priority nd the rest come as a sec or third or last.....
LIFE is SHORT so take it EASY................

totally agree with u  8)
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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #107 on: May 23, 2010, 06:13:42 pm »
well eventually to get married if not arranged that is the only way
i said EVENTUALLY as in uni not school
i have friends who date usually, one day happpy one day sad
a life cycle that never ends
if you wanna get somewhere in life do something about it dont just leave it up to luck!!!!!!!

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #108 on: May 24, 2010, 08:38:31 am »
haven't read any of the previous posts .. bear that in mind

i think that relationships are a good thing. it teaches you to think about others and care for other humans in a way that friendship ( even best friend-ship) doesn't.
also, it is part of the human maturing process. if you've had relationships in your teen years , by the time you're... say, 20, you already know how to deal with and treat the other sex. it's also a great help for people to realise their true self regarding disappointments and happiness, as there are always ups and downs in relationships. this would help in later life
when you get serious problems .

and about the thing with hurting people etc. it's better to learn through mistakes than to avoid the problem altogether


anyway, just my opinion. feel free to reply :)

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #109 on: May 24, 2010, 08:39:45 am »
one day,, when i get married i'll invite all sf 2 my wedding including astar ;D ;D
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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #110 on: May 24, 2010, 08:40:35 am »
one day,, when i get married i'll invite all sf 2 my wedding including astar ;D ;D

coool lol  ;D :D :D :D :D :D
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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #111 on: May 24, 2010, 11:27:14 am »
haven't read any of the previous posts .. bear that in mind

i think that relationships are a good thing. it teaches you to think about others and care for other humans in a way that friendship ( even best friend-ship) doesn't.
also, it is part of the human maturing process. if you've had relationships in your teen years , by the time you're... say, 20, you already know how to deal with and treat the other sex. it's also a great help for people to realise their true self regarding disappointments and happiness, as there are always ups and downs in relationships. this would help in later life
when you get serious problems .

and about the thing with hurting people etc. it's better to learn through mistakes than to avoid the problem altogether


anyway, just my opinion. feel free to reply :)
although people go too far sleep toghether then ditch the baby nd ditch each other
why the trouble
if you wanna get somewhere in life do something about it dont just leave it up to luck!!!!!!!

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #112 on: May 24, 2010, 11:38:28 am »
babies don't happen with every single couple, if they're mature enough and responsible they'd know if they should have a baby or not. and that could go either way - it could get them to marry each other or , as you said, ditch each other.
ditching can happen with married couples as well :/

but i agree with your point, marriage -> babies. not the other way 'round.

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #113 on: June 05, 2010, 03:44:26 pm »
bump


continue please  ::)

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #114 on: July 17, 2010, 12:09:14 pm »
ahem..um...LOL :D ;D
that's all that came in my mind when i came to this thread :D

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #115 on: July 17, 2010, 01:53:27 pm »
true relationships are very rare nowadays.

Its not bad to have a simple relationship. Caring and Trust is the main part
but nowadays all i see is ppl having gfs or bfs just for fun.
its just to show others that "SEE i hv a bf/gf!!" lol

and break-ups for vERY VERY simple reasons ...oh god..

if yor gona have a relationship then choose someone right for u, who understands u from the inside.

Otherwise forget about relationships and just be friends.






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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #116 on: July 17, 2010, 01:55:12 pm »
ahem..um...LOL :D ;D
that's all that came in my mind when i came to this thread :D

ur mind always goes to the extreme ;D
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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #117 on: July 17, 2010, 03:43:47 pm »
ur mind always goes to the extreme ;D

I have to agree. ::)

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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #118 on: July 17, 2010, 04:21:04 pm »
true relationships are very rare nowadays.

Its not bad to have a simple relationship. Caring and Trust is the main part
but nowadays all i see is ppl having gfs or bfs just for fun.
its just to show others that "SEE i hv a bf/gf!!" lol

and break-ups for vERY VERY simple reasons ...oh god..

if yor gona have a relationship then choose someone right for u, who understands u from the inside.

Otherwise forget about relationships and just be friends.


People make mistakes sadly. But one must learn from them.

Like I said before, nowadays it's just a fad.


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Re: Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
« Reply #119 on: July 21, 2010, 09:19:50 am »
i read the entire thrad nd im so happy to c tht so many ppl r against relationships it ruly is a fad
i had one, nd both of us were damn serius nd at the end wen we were plannin to take it to the next level we broke up
so it srsly is a waste of time money nd everything else love doesnt exist in this world anymore u have a very rare possiblity to find it only after marriage hopefully im right
some people sleep to dream while othrs wakeup to follow dem im the second type how abt u