Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships

[Saladin]

I personally am against it. I believe that it was a synthesis of the 2nd world war, when times where hard. I believe that being friends with girls and vice versa is perfectly fine, but I am against the idea of having a relationship. I dont think guys or girls shud be thinking abt entering a relationship until uni or sth. It complicates things, not just for the people involved, but for their parents and friends aswell.

I believe in strong friendships, but nothing with lust in it.

[annie_angel]

i actually agree...i mean really...wid all tht stuff happening u really hurt da ppl around u...

[$tyli$h Executive]

There are two kind of people: mentally strong and weak people.

Desirability of having boyfriends and girlfriends depend on the participant's mental attitude. If he or she thinks 'Its serious. I will marry the girl/boy. No matter what happens'. THEN its definitely wrong and undesirable. Harmful for both.

BUT, if the participants are mentally strong, then its ok. For example if he or she thinks 'its just a temporary get along with the other guy or girl. No plans of the future. Dont really care what happens to the other.' THEN, I see nothing wrong in it. We should let them do as they please. After all, they have their own freedom.

Can't say which class of people is the majority: mentally strong or weak!

[MaNi_DaDuDe]

Relationships ftw!

Lust...lol.. You don't need to know the girl very well for that.. lol. Go to a party. :O

[Saladin]

@ stylish

do u find having a gf enjoyable?? Some breakups have left people mentally ill. Trust me I know, never experienced, but it happened to my best frnd.

[astarmathsandphysics]

Life should be easy come easy go. Passion means too many murders

[Saladin]

i like u astar

ur very happy go lucky.

but with a mad intent to be the best at what he/she does

an average guy with a superhuman brain twist....

i like that.

[astarmathsandphysics]

I too am a bit twisted. The World is going mad and the sane peopleare being mugged and going bankrupt. Too bad. Inject a bit of madness to prosper.

[Saladin]

madness never was or rhymed with my middle name

[astarmathsandphysics]

Has anyone got a middle name that rhymes with madness? It is hard to do the right thing these days.
Somewhere there is a law against whatever you want to do, and some stupid policeman there to stop you.

[Saladin]

well just give the guy in blue a few bucks, and even tony blair will listen 2 u.

[Monica]

To be honest, I prefer marriage not relationships. If you really love the person then you will want to spend the rest of your life with him/her.

GF/BF is just for fun to some people. I know my friends who are still 15/16/17 and each have around 4-3-5 boyfriends, they break up and date other people. It is just a fantasy that is why it ALWAYS ends up with a break up. Sometimes not a break up, but mostly it happens.

If you are serious you will want to marry the person you love even if you are still 16  My aunt got married when she was 14 for example. It is about how responsible the person is.

[astarmathsandphysics]

Thetypical age of marriage in the UK is now about 30 I think and many women don't have children until they are 40 if at all.

[nid404]

I completely agree with dude..It's a fad.

[$tyli$h Executive]

@ stylish

do u find having a gf enjoyable?? Some breakups have left people mentally ill. Trust me I know, never experienced, but it happened to my best frnd.

a.a. Dude!

I don't have any GF (If you mean 'lover') for your information. But I have many girl 'Friends', just friends. And many of them.

I know very well the folly of having a bf/gf. In fact, I've seen such cases more than you. Never experienced though! 

THAT is why I say they are just for a little bit of fun and enjoyment (whether its a bf/gf). NOTHING SERIOUS!