i cnt assure they wld b happier but atleat they wont be in as pathetic state as they wld b in they r shouting n thrashing each other daily !
There you go wrong. Some people have so much of ego issues that they can even go to the extent of killing their partners.
ohkie n abt the thingi they do later on u cnt really count on every singel parent to do that !
not every single mother goes into prostitution ! they might as well find a good job n live her life ahead !
n if the single dad becomes a alcoholic then what is the guaranty he might not become one cuz of the fights n pressure at home ! ??
Just like you can't count on every single parent who's already gone through lots of trouble to efficiently take care of his or her child.
At least they don't have the opportunity to quarrel, as they would have if they lived together.
Why wouldn't they? People fight everywhere, they don't even care about their surroundings. The streets, supermarkets, stations...
Explain hormonal changes. And how can you possibly CONTROL those changes, so as to prevent divorce? Inject them with supplementary testosterone/estrogen? They are harmful.
That was not a solution, to be direct. That was just a sidetracked reply, avoiding the keyword 'solution'.
Okay, true, they cannot control changes... but as I said, it comes with time and age. Just like puberty. It's a phase of life that once gone, won't come back. Menopause doesn't come again and again now, does it?
By the way, hormonal changes don't occcur that abruptly as you said.
In teenage the sex drive gets higher. It peaks at 23 for men and 28 for women and gradually falls afterwards. You thus, cannot blame hormones for the natural, gradual decrease of sex drives. The chance of divorce because of this gradual decrease in sex drive is very less. If it were an abrupt decrease, then it would've been a good reason for feeling that the other partner is less attractive etc.
I don't remember I mentioned "abruptly"... And sex drives get low for women during menopause, and high for men, during their middle ages. This is when women tend to neglect their husbands. And as goes the common saying, "if biryani is not cooked at home, buy it from outside".
They start having extra-marital affairs.
haha i too think alpha is just filtering of the word solution
n more over some hormonal changes last for long ! n may b if later inlife the partners think they made a mistake n can b back together n both agree to 4 gt the past and move in together then its all fine !
at least it better than the idea of being under hormonal changes n spoiling each others lives
And no, I'm NOT filtering any word.
Made a mistake? That they divorced?
Then,
why make the mistake in the first place itself?
By the way, divorce is a common play in Western countries, and if they are not popular yet in Eastern ones, at least, they are growing in numbers. All around the world.