Author Topic: Do u think Girls & Boys shld study in the SAME class or SEPARATED classes ?  (Read 23671 times)

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I'd really appreciate it if ur answer is due to ur OWN experience and if it is due to ur opinion then i I'd really like it if it ISN'T baed on ur religion ,culture , the way u were brought up ..etc


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I go to a co-ed school and I like it that way

Primarily, it's because when guys and girls learn together, they interact with each other, become friends and I think it should be that way. Cause I know of guys and girls who studied in single-sex schools and are very shy to go up and speak to the person of the opp sex.

Guys and girls should study together cause it will help them in the long run. Although if schools do not monitor the activities of the kids, which can happen, and does happen, most of the times, kids go astray  :-\


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i studied in a co-ed school until i was in 5th grade and to be honest . Most of us used to get average grades and only 2 girls and a guy used to be the first ones in class (always lol ) ..we were playin together/talkin to each other / playin jokes on each other rather than concentratin in class.

but since 6th grade i have been attendin a single-sex school (boys's class in the other building) and tbh i have been so motivated to beat the boys in studyin and when the teacher says we r late and the boys have finished the lesson . All the girls shut up instantly and pay more attention . and when it's time to receive our grades we r even more competitive . we want to kno the highest grade in the boy's class is so that we even work harder next time/or celebrate :P ... My grades have been better ever since then  lol .

I like this cuz i can have my full freedom but there is a disadvantage to this as well we Girls Talk A LOT ,soo much and that sometimes hinders us . And i agree with Nid that most of the girl's in my class r soo shy when they have to talk to the opposite sex .

I believe girls and guys shld be mixxed in college when they r A LOT more mature and are more likely to THINK of the CONSEQUENCES of there ACTIONS.

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Yes hot guys and girls are a distraction  ::) :P

But you should set your priorities straight. Period.

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Yes hot guys and girls are a distraction  ::) :P

But you should set your priorities straight. Period.

haha lol .... That's true , i agree * i'm still on my side tbh ::) *
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Coeducation schools are FAR better in my opinion.

1. It teaches you how to handle, talk and interact with the opposite sex.'

2. You get used to talking to the other sex, so, nothing new.

Some will argue that coeducation schools may make girls and guys date with each other and learn uncivilized behavior! :P

But this is a wrong concept. In fact, its a benefit in this case. It teaches you how to control your temptations to try to get on with any random member of the opposite sex. So, you won't have any problem when you grow up.

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Coeducation schools are FAR better in my opinion.

1. It teaches you how to handle, talk and interact with the opposite sex.'

2. You get used to talking to the other sex, so, nothing new.

Some will argue that coeducation schools may make girls and guys date with each other and learn uncivilized behavior! :P

But this is a wrong concept. In fact, its a benefit in this case. It teaches you how to control your temptations to try to get on with any random member of the opposite sex. So, you won't have any problem when you grow up.

I agree but most teenagers aren't really mature or wise enough to kno the consequences of their actions .(FYI  I have met ppl who think that doing uncivilized behavior is COOL  which indicates that they can't be placed with the opposite gender of their's . )and that is what made me believe it's much better to study together in college when Almost ever1 is mature enough to kno the consequences . :)
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Moreover , I've read a research abt this and the research indicates that girls and boys do achieve A LOT MORE when they r placed in separate classes .
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I agree but most teenagers aren't really mature or wise enough to kno the consequences of their actions .(FYI  I have met ppl who think that doing uncivilized behavior is COOL  which indicates that they can't be placed with the opposite gender of their's . )and that is what made me believe it's much better to study together in college when Almost ever1 is mature enough to kno the consequences . :)

The chance of a teenager doing any "uncivilized" behaviour is far less than anyone may think if the society is open. For example, my school is co-educational. Some of my friends, when I were in O level, used to get on with girls, but you cannot straight out call this uncivilized. Firstly, this type of students made up a minor portion of the whole class. Secondly, its nothing "uncivilized". An activity is "uncivilized" if they cross the limits, which is VERY rare. Most of them know the limits.

You said its better to study in college  when students are "mature enough". But there is evidence to suggest the opposite. According to my mom, most people "succumb to temptation" in their college years...

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Moreover , I've read a research abt this and the research indicates that girls and boys do achieve A LOT MORE when they r placed in separate classes .

No. I just googled about this and research suggests the opposite.

Current research shows that parents of students attending independent
co-educational schools believe that a co-ed learning environment offers
many benefits. A national survey conducted in 2005–2006 reveals that
79% of Canadian parents with children in independent co-ed schools
heartily agree that these schools better reflect the diversity of our society and
79% believe they better prepare students to eventually enter the workforce.
In addition, 71% agree that these students are better prepared to succeed
in post-secondary education.

Canadian research reveals that students at independent co-ed schools
feel comfortable about who they are and have a healthy and positive
attitude and self-image. In fact, 71% of students indicate that β€œIt is easy
for students at my school to find a group that they fit in with.” The
self-confidence expressed around fitting in enables students in a co-ed
environment to perform to the best of their ability and get the most out
of their educational experience.

The environment and atmosphere fostered also has an impact in other ways.
Students at independent co-ed schools in Canada are more likely (88%)
than other types of students to feel safe in their school environment. Not
only do independent co-ed schools rank the highest when students are
asked generally about safety for all students, but their responses also suggest
that reports of harassment and bullying are lower at these schools.

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I go to a co-ed school and I like it that way

Primarily, it's because when guys and girls learn together, they interact with each other, become friends and I think it should be that way. Cause I know of guys and girls who studied in single-sex schools and are very shy to go up and speak to the person of the opp sex.

Guys and girls should study together cause it will help them in the long run. Although if schools do not monitor the activities of the kids, which can happen, and does happen, most of the times, kids go astray  :-\



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In the same class?

For me, it's simply simple as that: OUT OF QUESTION.

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i prefer co-ed .. because it makes the class more interactive

both guys and girls interact with each other

co-ed is only a problem if there are too many pervs in the class  :P





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co-ed is only a problem if there are too many pervs in the class  :P


Okay ..that really made me laugh :D :D
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