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nid404

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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #225 on: June 29, 2010, 05:23:10 pm »
Quote from: Arsenal<3 on June 29, 2010, 05:22:10 pm
Dont get me started on this.:P. :-X

But my final words would be.

Sacrifice it for the enjoyment of it all

You won't be able to enjoy for long.
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« Reply #226 on: June 29, 2010, 05:25:56 pm »
Quote from: Arsenal<3 on June 29, 2010, 05:25:07 pm


Indians or Sub continent as a whole love leg-pulling. It's in our gene.



Elaborate.
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #227 on: June 29, 2010, 05:27:00 pm »
Quote from: Arsenal<3 on June 29, 2010, 05:22:10 pm
Dont get me started on this.:P. :-X

But my final words would be.

Sacrifice it for the enjoyment of it all

Enjoyment? If a guy leaves a girl, with her pregnant, will it be an 'enjoyment'? ::)

In your system, girls will be like a typical 'public property'. Will it be enjoyable for them to remain this way? Are prostitutes happy to do what they do? I highly doubt it.
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #228 on: June 29, 2010, 05:27:32 pm »
Quote from: Arsenal<3 on June 29, 2010, 05:25:07 pm


Indians or Sub continent as a whole love leg-pulling. It's in our gene.



No racist comments please.
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nid404

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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #229 on: June 29, 2010, 05:29:24 pm »
Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on June 29, 2010, 05:27:00 pm
Enjoyment? If a guy leaves a girl, with her pregnant, will it be an 'enjoyment'? ::)

In your system, girls will be like a typical 'public property'. Will it be enjoyable for them to remain this way? Are prostitutes happy to do what they do? I highly doubt it.

Well some men don't care  ::)

 Trust me, getting pregnant without a man to support you is not a pleasant thing to happen...
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #230 on: June 29, 2010, 05:30:47 pm »
Quote from: ~Xena~ on June 29, 2010, 05:29:24 pm
Well some men don't care  ::)

 Trust me, getting pregnant without a man to support you is not a pleasant thing to happen...

That was my point itself.
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #231 on: June 29, 2010, 05:31:41 pm »
Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on June 29, 2010, 05:27:32 pm
No racist comments please.

I am indian.Originally

What i meant was,  Because we have strong traditions and cultures so anything extra - ordinary or outside norms is considered derogatory and will be most likely cast away
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« Reply #232 on: June 29, 2010, 05:33:49 pm »
Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on June 29, 2010, 05:27:00 pm
Enjoyment? If a guy leaves a girl, with her pregnant, will it be an 'enjoyment'? ::)

In your system, girls will be like a typical 'public property'. Will it be enjoyable for them to remain this way? Are prostitutes happy to do what they do? I highly doubt it.

You are assuming i am talking about arranged marriages. I am talking about marriages based on Love.

A man who loves his partner will never leave him/her in pregnancy
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #233 on: June 29, 2010, 05:34:19 pm »
Quote from: Arsenal<3 on June 29, 2010, 05:31:41 pm
I am indian.Originally

What i meant was,  Because we have strong traditions and cultures so anything extra - ordinary or outside norms is considered derogatory and will be most likely cast away

Its ok. And you're right that traditions and values have an unusually 'strong' implications in the indian subcontinent. But views are changing though.
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« Reply #234 on: June 29, 2010, 05:34:51 pm »
Quote from: Arsenal<3 on June 29, 2010, 05:31:41 pm
I am indian.Originally

What i meant was,  Because we have strong traditions and cultures so anything extra - ordinary or outside norms is considered derogatory and will be most likely cast away

You shouldn't let people make decisions for you and your spouse.
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« Reply #235 on: June 29, 2010, 05:35:48 pm »
Quote from: Arsenal<3 on June 29, 2010, 05:33:49 pm
You are assuming i am talking about arranged marriages. I am talking about marriages based on Love.

A man who loves his partner will never leave him/her in pregnancy

Love changes with time...
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #236 on: June 29, 2010, 05:36:05 pm »
Quote from: ~Xena~ on June 29, 2010, 05:34:51 pm
You shouldn't let people make decisions for you and your spouse.

You wont be able to avoid it if you continue to live in Sub-continent.
I agree with stylish though, views are changing.

Better move to another country
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #237 on: June 29, 2010, 05:36:56 pm »
Quote from: Arsenal<3 on June 29, 2010, 05:33:49 pm
You are assuming i am talking about arranged marriages. I am talking about marriages based on Love.

A man who loves his partner will never leave him/her in pregnancy

If a marriage is based in love, IT IS A MARRIAGE! They are still legally bound by the implications of a legal marriage. As such, he cannot just leave her in any situation without paying alimony.

I thought you were talking about "live together" relationships without any form of marriage.
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #238 on: June 29, 2010, 05:38:59 pm »
Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on June 29, 2010, 05:36:56 pm
If a marriage is based in love, IT IS A MARRIAGE! They are still legally bound by the implications of a legal marriage. As such, he cannot just leave her in any situation without paying alimony.

I thought you were talking about "live together" relationships without any form of marriage.

Sorry i mistakenly put the word marriage instead of relationships.
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Re: Has Marriage failed in its aim of prosperity between bride and the groom. ?
« Reply #239 on: June 29, 2010, 05:40:13 pm »
Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on June 29, 2010, 05:36:56 pm
If a marriage is based in love, IT IS A MARRIAGE! They are still legally bound by the implications of a legal marriage. As such, he cannot just leave her in any situation without paying alimony.

I thought you were talking about "live together" relationships without any form of marriage.

I get your point though.I agree
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