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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #30 on: May 31, 2010, 08:20:35 pm »
so just a guess....

u want to get married rite after your bachelors......

Prolly straight after Uni.

or maybe even in between Uni, but that won't really help with my degree =/
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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #31 on: August 03, 2011, 06:17:10 pm »
Lets revive this topic. ;D

Definitely being single is better. Less interference. Less duties. A high level of flexibility. Not to mention we students are not even in a stage so as to think of marriage itself! ::)

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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #32 on: August 03, 2011, 06:28:11 pm »
Both have their benefits at their right time.  :D
At the moment, being single at 18 is the right thing for me cos I don't want any distractions and concentrate mainly in my studies.
After finishing uni, I would like to get married, IA. :P :D
So basically, I'd go with married life after some years! :D
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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #33 on: August 03, 2011, 06:53:47 pm »
I think it's not a flat rate or something. Marriage, or copulation, has been the trend of all animals, humans inclusive, since we existed. Society has tried really hard to define how and when marriage should occur, as well as associated ideals with it, but the bottom line is: not everyone is going to get married or in a relationship at the same time as others. Yes, most people marry in a certain age bracket, but the variation is enormous across the board. I know it's much to do with social and cultural factors, but within a particular society and class, there is a lot of variation. Why? It varies from person to person. Someone may be ready to marry and manage their studies at the age of, say, eighteen while someone who's done with their studies and not even working may still be unprepared. I want to marry when it's the right time for me, and that can be now or ten years later. People can whine about it all they want: my marriage, my husband, my chocolate. :P
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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #34 on: August 04, 2011, 05:46:47 pm »
I think it's not a flat rate or something. Marriage, or copulation, has been the trend of all animals, humans inclusive, since we existed. Society has tried really hard to define how and when marriage should occur, as well as associated ideals with it, but the bottom line is: not everyone is going to get married or in a relationship at the same time as others. Yes, most people marry in a certain age bracket, but the variation is enormous across the board. I know it's much to do with social and cultural factors, but within a particular society and class, there is a lot of variation. Why? It varies from person to person. Someone may be ready to marry and manage their studies at the age of, say, eighteen while someone who's done with their studies and not even working may still be unprepared. I want to marry when it's the right time for me, and that can be now or ten years later. People can whine about it all they want: my marriage, my husband, my chocolate. :P
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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #35 on: August 06, 2011, 08:57:32 pm »
For me It's Both I guess o.O ...I know I'm greedy :P To be honest each has got it's advantages and disadvantages but for me I can't yet judge since I haven't experienced both yet xD

Seriously , I enjoy being Single now .. My motto now is Single FTW 8) I don't even have time for such nonsense things to begin with =.=

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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #36 on: August 29, 2011, 11:36:20 pm »
One is bad for my stomach, the other is bad for my finances.

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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #37 on: August 30, 2011, 06:59:16 am »
One is bad for my stomach, the other is bad for my finances.

Why stomach ? :-\
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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #38 on: August 30, 2011, 07:20:01 am »
Based on Movies.

You're a Bachelor/single person => You EAT loads =,=   
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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #39 on: August 30, 2011, 10:19:15 am »
Based on Movies.

You're a Bachelor/single person => You EAT loads =,=   

LOL ;D

I thought wives who can't cook properly. :P
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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #40 on: August 30, 2011, 08:33:03 pm »
LOL ;D

I thought wives who can't cook properly. :P

LMAO XD ... It could be though , idk ;)
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Re: Which is good bachelor life or married life???
« Reply #41 on: August 30, 2011, 10:49:51 pm »
Why stomach ?

I cant cook.