I don't have much experience in love or philosophy but....
Both are the reasons apparently. Yes. That is boredom! That is when, supposedly, they get a feeling of 'restlessness'. And due to that, they try to think of other ways to cope with their 'unfulfilled desire'. But they find, no other activity can occupy their mind. Only the other boy/girl can occupy their mind and only the other person is interesting and that is sheeerr madness! Not even more money is interesting or can occupy the person or satisfy him/her who falls in 'love'! And that is why they get bored, as a price of their philosophiness!
No other activity can occupy their mind > that is boredom itself.
Well, let me ask you, what do you gain from this definition?
And what do you define it as?
It tempts me to say "I dare not interpret."
Yes, that was close too... Mental weariness, but of what? Tired of doing... what? Waiting? Hoping? Assuming? Defending?
I call many girls "man" and they keep laughing.
I don't like it, too manly for a girl.