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Re: Marriage
« Reply #105 on: April 30, 2010, 08:15:19 pm »
Will take a while to get used to, the alpha, I am used to talks very philosophically and with much though.

That seemed too simple. LOL

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #106 on: May 01, 2010, 09:38:57 am »
Too simple, and yet, this time, I didn't get your meaning.

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #107 on: May 01, 2010, 11:23:17 am »
Too simple, and yet, this time, I didn't get your meaning.

No, its just that what you say is not always very simple, so I make a habbit of understanding anything of deeper meaning when it comes from you, thats all.

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #108 on: May 01, 2010, 11:52:27 am »
No, its just that what you say is not always very simple, so I make a habbit of understanding anything of deeper meaning when it comes from you, thats all.

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #109 on: May 01, 2010, 12:10:53 pm »
hehehe

I type really fast. LOL

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #110 on: May 02, 2010, 02:50:15 pm »
You said there was no need for her to love you...

Ah, so your choice will be extended to everyone, not just one special you would want to marry.

By the way, you are not the only who can give her expensive cars, jewellery, food, and all. Then, your ideal should marry a prince, rather than you.  :P
Frankly, do you find it logical and normal that somebody marries you for what you have and not what you are? There are so many richer persons in the world, then why would she marry YOU? If somebody just takes away all your money, or you are bankrupt, then will there be no reason a girl would marry you?

And that is whyy you shouldn't become bankrupt! :P

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My sense tells me Nid was right... Giving and taking >>> A Deal. A transaction, an exchange. You take BECAUSE you give.

Sharing > Giving because you want to give, and not expecting anything in return.

You give somebody a piece of bread, and takes one in return.

It's certainly not the same.

I see.... Sharing = gifting then?

Alpha, nowadays, as far as I can see my dad, people 'gifts' him to literally 'take' something...

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You share your own bread with her, and her with you, when you have none.

Thats something insane! :P How'd I gift her a bread if I have none?! ::)


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Re: Marriage
« Reply #111 on: May 05, 2010, 07:26:01 pm »
And that is whyy you shouldn't become bankrupt! :P


LOL.  :) You guy.


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I see.... Sharing = gifting then?

Alpha, nowadays, as far as I can see my dad, people 'gifts' him to literally 'take' something...

That's why you need someone sincere and honest in this world of fools.

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Thats something insane! :P How'd I gift her a bread if I have none?! ::)

and her with you, when you have none.

She'll gift you when you have none.  :)

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #112 on: May 05, 2010, 07:30:28 pm »
LOL.  :) You guy.

Boy*  :P

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That's why you need someone sincere and honest in this world of fools.

Sincere. But definitely not honest!

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and her with you, when you have none.

She'll gift you when you have none.


Seems a nice partnership! But perhaps, she'll be on the more beneficial side! :D

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #113 on: May 05, 2010, 07:33:54 pm »
If that's so... Why don't you get your facts straight?! ::)

This topic is for discussing your opinions and requirements about your dream man, at present:P
 

That's too general... ;)


You didn't reply to this...! ::) ::) ::) :P

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #114 on: May 05, 2010, 08:01:51 pm »
Boy*  :P

Sincere. But definitely not honest!
 

Seems a nice partnership! But perhaps, she'll be on the more beneficial side! :D

Why not honest?

You didn't reply to this...! ::) ::) ::) :P

Most important of all, he should love me.

Simple reason: Because I'm not perfect, just like everyone else.  :)

To love is different from liking someone. You like someone for the good qualities he or she possesses. In love, there's no bad.

Faithful and honest; if we're going to spend the rest of our lives together, I should be able to trust him, and in return, he should trust me too.

Patient and a little bit persistent; because I'm not among those who will easily blurt out the cause of their worry... I don't impose it on someone else.

Kind, sweet, calm and warm... Someone who cares, because I do.

Romantic, I didn't say flirtatious. Love would fade in the long term else.

Someone with a good sense of humour. Life wouldn't be monotonous.

Somebody with all masculine traits, mixed with a tender touch. Somebody who speaks, not shouts. Somebody who has the courage to apologize when need be. Somebody who makes efforts, does try.

The one who will for ever be my side, even if the whole world is against.

About money, if he isn't rich, I can work. And appearance, if he has all of I mentioned above, wouldn't matter.  :)

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #115 on: May 05, 2010, 08:31:27 pm »
I hate honest people. My experience with them are that they are just too proud of their 'honesty', themselves and also have a laidback attitude. No offences please... :-/

I'm not much honest myself. Don't want to be either. But I'll never betray someone or in other words, am fully trustable. And I consider this much 'honesty' of faith to be enough for anything. :) ;)

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #116 on: May 05, 2010, 09:15:41 pm »
I hate honest people. My experience with them are that they are just too proud of their 'honesty', themselves and also have a laidback attitude. No offences please... :-/

I'm not much honest myself. Don't want to be either. But I'll never betray someone or in other words, am fully trustable. And I consider this much 'honesty' of faith to be enough for anything. :) ;)


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Re: Marriage
« Reply #117 on: May 06, 2010, 04:48:05 am »
Welcome to the debate section Roxy! :D

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #118 on: May 06, 2010, 04:48:45 am »
Welcome to the debate section Roxy! :D

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #119 on: May 06, 2010, 06:29:13 am »
Yeah, I forgot... Calm and dynamic.*

Borakk, then you should hate everybody, your problem is with their show-off. I don't like exaggeration, as well, everything should be natural. Just natural.  ;)

Bah, it's just a teenage girl's viewpoint for now. Maybe she'll talk another language after some years...

Welcome Roxy!  :)

Something funny: I welcomed someone, was lazy to type it whole, and used WC instead.  :D  :D