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nid404

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #60 on: April 23, 2010, 09:26:51 am »
I want some one who is good Mulimah. And ofcrse beautiful, afterall at least one has to be a good looking in a couple

otherwise how will u have cute kids...no? :D :D

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« Reply #61 on: April 23, 2010, 09:56:14 am »
@Alpha:

An utterly shocking fact I just read in the '5000 amazing fact dictionary':

70% of girls get married before the age of 18 in Bangladesh. :o

Actually, its true. Girls in villages get married at a very early age here. And its considered something normal by the poor people who live in villages. ::) Things are changing now though. ;)

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« Reply #62 on: April 23, 2010, 10:00:45 am »
@Shoshou:

I see no reason why that should be considered abnormal. My grandma got married no later that 13. And my maternal grandma got married, according to my mom, at only 9. :o

Yea its no way considered normal at present times. But it was (and still is, to some extent) considered normal by people back then.

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #63 on: April 23, 2010, 11:23:14 am »
I don't have much criteria in mind for her except for being a little pretty and cute looking... Like I don't require her to love me or something like that. Maybe, i won't be able to devote much time for her after all. ::) :-[

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« Reply #64 on: April 23, 2010, 11:25:02 am »
I don't have much criteria in mind for her except for being a little pretty and cute looking... Like I don't require her to love me or something like that. Maybe, i won't be able to devote much time for her after all. ::) :-[

You don't want her to love you  :o
You'll find one very easily then... :P

If you can't devote time...why marry? ::) lol jk

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« Reply #65 on: April 23, 2010, 11:30:03 am »
@ nid :  lets hope so. But u can unfortunately get stuck within complexity of genetics
Why so seroisee ??

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« Reply #66 on: April 23, 2010, 11:32:22 am »
You don't want her to love you  :o
You'll find one very easily then... :P

If you can't devote time...why marry? ::) lol jk


require* :P ::)


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Re: Marriage
« Reply #67 on: April 23, 2010, 03:27:15 pm »
@Alpha:

An utterly shocking fact I just read in the '5000 amazing fact dictionary':

70% of girls get married before the age of 18 in Bangladesh. :o

Actually, its true. Girls in villages get married at a very early age here. And its considered something normal by the poor people who live in villages. ::) Things are changing now though. ;)

After this kind of speech, I love to hear the divorce rate/ domestic violence rate.   ::)

Or maternal death.

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #68 on: April 23, 2010, 04:25:20 pm »
'Love' to hear?! :P

I do NOT support child marriage. Nor was I saying we should marry at such young ages. ::) I was just pointing out at the fact that it is something normal, in the village areas of some countries to marry at very young ages, which seemed to be shocking to you and many others here. ;) ::)

Of course, I don't support that. Chances of divorce, and other problems are high.

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« Reply #69 on: April 23, 2010, 04:40:30 pm »
@Shoshou:

I see no reason why that should be considered abnormal. My grandma got married no later that 13. And my maternal grandma got married, according to my mom, at only 9. :o

Yea its no way considered normal at present times. But it was (and still is, to some extent) considered normal by people back then.

What? Actually I am the only one here who is saying it's normal. check my posts.

Perhaps you meant Nid or AF.  ::)

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« Reply #70 on: April 24, 2010, 11:01:29 am »
What? Actually I am the only one here who is saying it's normal. check my posts.

Perhaps you meant Nid or AF.  ::)

Oops. yes, I meant it for nid and AF especially.

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #71 on: April 24, 2010, 11:03:27 am »
I need a hero
I’m holding out for a hero ‘til the end of the night
He’s gotta be strong
He’s gotta be fast
He’s gotta be fresh from the fight
And he’s gotta be sure..<3

*ahem* :P ::)

nid404

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #72 on: April 24, 2010, 11:23:34 am »
None of us said it was not normal...we just expressed our views against the very normal...I think that's absolutely ok

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« Reply #73 on: April 24, 2010, 11:46:00 am »
'Love' to hear?! :P

I do NOT support child marriage. Nor was I saying we should marry at such young ages. ::) I was just pointing out at the fact that it is something normal, in the village areas of some countries to marry at very young ages, which seemed to be shocking to you and many others here. ;) ::)

Of course, I don't support that. Chances of divorce, and other problems are high.


Hehe... He does not want to divulge the rates I asked.  :P

I didn't say it's shocking, I just said it's... given circumstances... not 'logical'.

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Re: Marriage
« Reply #74 on: April 24, 2010, 12:31:16 pm »
I don't have much criteria in mind for her except for being a little pretty and cute looking... Like I don't require her to love me or something like that. Maybe, i won't be able to devote much time for her after all. ::) :-[


I can't understand this too... Then, if a girl hates you as her worst enemy, you'll force her to marry you?  :P


By the way, where is Omer? I don't see him posting these days... esp. in Debates Section; he was one of the top posters.



Additional question:

What type of husband/ wife do you think YOU will make?