Live-In Relationships-For or against?

[Saladin]

i agree wid nid, but i still think that the main cause of all these complications, is bf and gf.

[DrEvil]

i totally support 'nid' here...she has got some strong points there!!

apart from this, i myself sometimes feel awkward in this BF/GF relationship...its a new of its kind with no need of it in our society...it just adds further complications to life...it is just a wrong perception of relationships by the new generation...this idea of BF/GF has crept into the minds of young teenagers and causing them to suffer from difficulties at such a young age...!! 

[[Ash]]

root and cause of all the corruption in relation ship

[$tyli$h Executive]

Well, i think responsibility also counts in Ethics!
where as children are concerned Stylish, its a big responsibility

What i think is that its all unethical! when you cant understand the importance of the relationship!

Hey I said I'm against live in relationships.

[$tyli$h Executive]

root and cause of all the corruption in relation ship

My goodness! bf and gf are just "Friends" after all! Isn't someone really ridiculous who doesn't interact with the opposite sex?

And yes, I agree, if its anything more than friends like lovey dovey or a similar madness, then its quite ridiculous.

[$tyli$h Executive]

You know fun is a very generalized word
It can have a lot of adverse effects

Hey, 'fun' doesn't mean any sexual relationship. Get it now?

Everybody will agree with me: Its fun to talk and interact with the opposite sex more than with the same old faces over and over again.

[$tyli$h Executive]

i totally support 'nid' here...she has got some strong points there!!

apart from this, i myself sometimes feel awkward in this BF/GF relationship...its a new of its kind with no need of it in our society...it just adds further complications to life...it is just a wrong perception of relationships by the new generation...this idea of BF/GF has crept into the minds of young teenagers and causing them to suffer from difficulties at such a young age...!!  

quite true -_-. But I wouldn't blame BF or GF relationship for this. Its the thing you call "Love" which is the centre of all these problem. To me, love or emotion has little implication. It exists for me, but just for show business. Strictly speaking, its just a word for hitting the box office.

[nid404]

@stylish- Love is a strong word....and im 100% sure it is not used to entertain ppl...certainly not
Let me ask u
Do you love your parents and your siblings....will you be wrecked and jaded if anything happens to them....I'm sure you would be...
This same feeling is called love for somebody, if you understand what I mean .A guy, instead of going out with a girl at 16 and getting serious (which is stupid...no offence), must work hard to make sure one can fend for his girl who is on his way....If someone hurries with a gf/bf, his or her real love may be led astray

Well this is kinda off topic

But basically...what im trying to say is, it is not sensible for 18 yr old couples to share a room....Cuz it's jst not acceptable...Who would u blame if things don't work out....Who will look at you again, when they knw you have had such a relationship....

[$tyli$h Executive]

Nid, I am sorry but pointing fingers aggressively at another member is an offence. You said 'instead of going out with someone at 16 and getting serious .......' and 'if you are in a hurry....'. You are pointing your fingers directly at me when you said that.

Kindly edit your post. Point to the general audience using 'us' 'we' 'ourselves' or a similar word. Do not point directly at me or any other member.

[nid404]

k...i thought you was generalized in debates...that's how we've been having it in school....anyway...I'll change it

[nid404]

Lol...I can't change anything more...the grammar goes haywire....
srry if u thought it ws intended for u

[$tyli$h Executive]

Ok Nid, I did the job. . Its okay.

Now back to business.

When I said 'love' I didn't mean the love for parents and siblings. I meant the kind of love between a man or a woman. Now the matter about bf/gf shouldn't be taken seriously. Its just a little bit of fun and enjoyment. Not something serious like sharing a room (with plans of future) or something similar like having a kid (which is quite stupid, I agree).

[Saladin]

do u consider kissing and 'stuff' enjoyment.

wellm wat do u talk 2 a girl abt, like ur gf, what wud to talk to her abt exec??

c'mon, ur very anonymous, like u say 'enjoyment', 'interaction' 'fun'??

wat do u mean??

sounds a lot like a relationship to me

[nid404]

well, One may think it is temporary n all...but then that's not love, rightly as u said, but these relations may become physical due to lust...with dire consequences.
A guy may take it as fad, to keep having new gfs.....but I am a girl and I understand how girls take their relationships to be. Girls give their everything...they really love u. When a guy leaves them, they'd be shattered. But they are strong
That doesn't mean one should keep hurting them...
I didn't knw guys always thought of having gfs for the sake of it....I'm lucky I've never fallen into this trap

[$tyli$h Executive]

well, One may think it is temporary n all...but then that's not love, rightly as u said, but these relations may become physical due to lust...with dire consequences.
A guy may take it as fad, to keep having new gfs.....but I am a girl and I understand how girls take their relationships to be. Girls give their everything...they really love u. When a guy leaves them, they'd be shattered. But they are strong
That doesn't mean one should keep hurting them...
I didn't knw guys always thought of having gfs for the sake of it....I'm lucky I've never fallen into this trap

The word 'girlfriend' or boyfriend can be broken into two parts - girl friend and boy friend.

Is it bad to be friends with the opposite sex? I'm sure it's not.

NOW when I say girlfriend and boyfriend, I do NOT mean 'LOVER' or a similar madness like that.