@OmerHehe, thanks for reading...LOL
Big mouth?
That's true: even the most noble man on Earth who has accomplished the greatest deeds will NEVER be satisfied. Human hunger is insatiable. There is always more to achieve, more to accomplish. That's not false either: death assigns value to what we do in life. Were we eternal beings, would you care much about always doing the right things in the right way?
yups, true, plus, wuts the point of being eternal if your gonna be a toothless baldie who needs a cane to walk with Success and happiness require quite a lot of good luck? Do you believe in luck? What is luck? Just a stroke of good happenings that you do not expect? How about when you expect them? Does luck exist really? Or is it just a belief we have in time?
Yes, I do believe in luck, good and bad. It is a belief we have in time. And well its actually both, sometimes it is expected, other times its not, you can't really tell. But sometimes when you have had so much bad luck and so little good luck, you just give up on it. You're still gonna be trying your best to do whatever you aim for, but you will try to never leave a chance for luckSo common of many guys of teenage. You're afraid to grow close to people because you are afraid of the pain you will get when they go away from you. Frankly speaking, I like solitude too. I seldom prefer to be with myself. But sometimes the silence of isolation is loud (Yea,
). Loneliness is dark. Life has many colours. Enjoy
ALL of them.
I feel good when I am alone. But I felt better in the company of good people. Their smile brings back mine when it is lost; their chatter breaks the silence when I can't bear it anymore; they lend me their ears when I need to talk; they give me a hand when my own hands are tired; they stand by my side when the rest of the world is against me; they give meaning to my life... I am because of them.
Yes, true. But in some cases, when you miss your companions but they don't miss you back, it hurts, and you might end up hating that good time you used to haveWhy should you deprive yourself of the company of others? Agree that separation from near and dear ones is painful, but experience it, and you will find by yourself that this pain goes far beneath in value than the pleasure and warmth you can derive from good companionship.
Well i'm sure that I will find better companions, but as far as the present and past is concerned, i'd rather have had more solitude than spend so much time with thoseYou are talking about disappointments and 'unfaithful' people. Omer, every leaf has its own shape and colour. Life is sour sometimes. So what? That doesn't mean it's not sweet. Isolating yourself works, that's good for
you. But don't you think you are being unfair to those who have not done anything wrong? Do they also have to pay the cost of others' hurtful actions?
well yea i agreed i am being very self-centered when I isolate myself, but these people i can count on one fist, compared to the others, well, i am sure they gonna survive without me"Don't get too attached to them, and spare yourself the pain you would have been bound to endure". Do not also get so far away that you need to look for reasons and excuses to approach them. Boy, that's only the tip of the iceberg. You still have much more to see. There is much more others can show. You have enclosed yourself ( your true self) within four opaque walls. How will you see what's outside if you remain in them? How will others enter if you don't open the doors and windows?
my doors are not closed to everyone, they closed to those who have passed by and walked away. Yes, when it comes to sentiments i have become a very cold person, but i am sure i am warm enough to be acquainted with, all i need is to get at least the slightest feeling that these people will value me as much as i value themThe world is full of sh*t, insensitive, close-minded, utterly selfish, annoying, cynical, stupid, foolish, hateful people. This same world is also full of kind, openhearted, loving, caring, altruistic, helpful, pleasant, angelic and nice beings...
Man is the only creature who has the capacity to give of himself to others selflessly. Give the best of yourself to the world. Let others face the ups and downs of life with you. Do not be afraid to make close relationships with others. And if you lose them, instead of shedding tears, be happy because even if once, at least, you have had them...
Living in seclusion will prevent you from pain, but will gain you nothing.
There are better things in life. Take the pain of searching for them. Solitude will be the best companion only in a cold and dark tomb...
yes, but someone must no when to socialise and when to isolate himself tooP.S. I like your positive attitude. You are not one of those who linger long on problems and lose their present by dwelling constantly in the insignificant past. You are able to gather courage to
move on. But while moving on, do pause to consider whether what you're carrying of your present to your future has weight or not.
thank you
and yea i try to do so
