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Men Crying - is it non macho??
« on: July 19, 2009, 05:19:47 pm »
The topic says it all

Some men cry naturally when they are touched - they're emotions  :'(  :'(

but some people say it is non -macho

some find it cute, others say its a major turn-off

so what about you guys, do you think crying men are non-macho? :D
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #1 on: August 27, 2009, 02:05:26 am »
The generilation of a man's somewhat ideal behavior is to blame as the cause of being why some men find it non-macho.

People have to rememba that men are also sensetive, they have feelings and they are human, its just human nature for someone to say that that dude is the odd one out cuz he cries. I dont think that is fair, some are born with more sensetive tear glands and some are just more sensetive.

I sometimes think that it is a good thing becasue crying is a way of letting out frustration, most men let it out using anger. So, it may even be a positive thing.

And being macho is not everything, a man does not have to be a body builder to be brave or courageous, rememba courage is often found in the most unusual places.

Today, it is more important to be intellegent or fit or skilled, not macho.
Thank you very much for bringing this in the spotlight.

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #2 on: August 27, 2009, 03:02:05 am »
Ok i dont like this thinking that Men  should cry *turn off*
Crying is a way in which u let go ir speression after u cry u feeel moe relifed n better.
Men at the end r Humans just bcuz they r MUSCULAR strong doesnt mean then r emotionally strong
they get hurt n weak too at times too=]
Being strong emotionally is not the only wau u can be called Non macho
its wierd how we fail to analysise thinggs 4 a narrow prospective not a boreder n Open minded ,
Angel really good topic indeed
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #3 on: August 27, 2009, 09:11:46 am »
 Didnt like it that obama cried cos teddy kennedy died

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #4 on: August 27, 2009, 01:19:41 pm »
macho? lol whats that :P

i think i get what u mean .. sure men have feelings .. but i think they prefer not to cry .. and if they do cry .. it's done privately  :P

girls however .. watch a romantic movie and cry, see a puppy and cry, break-up with boy friends and cry .. WHY do u cry so much ??!! :P

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #5 on: August 27, 2009, 02:03:30 pm »
Looooooooooooooool nah i dont cry when i watch a Love story  :D

Nor do i cry when i see a puppy PFT!! who would i??? By the way I saw a dolamation in DOHA!!!!

Break up/love naaah never hit me  hahahaha!!!!!

Yes i do feel bad when i see a Poor child......or miskeeen people....Yan3 i fell bad bus
« Last Edit: August 27, 2009, 02:17:10 pm by MaNa »
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #6 on: August 27, 2009, 02:04:46 pm »
macho? lol whats that :P

i think i get what u mean .. sure men have feelings .. but i think they prefer not to cry .. and if they do cry .. it's done privately  :P

girls however .. watch a romantic movie and cry, see a puppy and cry, break-up with boy friends and cry .. WHY do u cry so much ??!! :P

i dnt cry in a romantic movie lmmaooo

nd why in the world would i cry when i see a puppy loooooll hahahahahahaha

breakups i dnt knw :P never experienced :P :P :D
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #7 on: September 24, 2009, 10:27:34 pm »
Crying is something very normal
Like seriously, for example.. you're a father, your son just died.. You're gonna stand there all normal ? You're obviously gonna cry unless you're one cold hearted human :)

So I think it's very normal
my opinion ofcourse.. differs from what others think :P

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #8 on: September 25, 2009, 05:20:30 pm »
macho? lol whats that :P

i think i get what u mean .. sure men have feelings .. but i think they prefer not to cry .. and if they do cry .. it's done privately  :P

girls however .. watch a romantic movie and cry, see a puppy and cry, break-up with boy friends and cry .. WHY do u cry so much ??!! :P

LOL! that was so funny how you said why do you cry so much! xD

Yeah but not all girls though :P
some girls are normal, and some are just way over dramatic xD

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #9 on: September 26, 2009, 04:17:23 am »
I would like it if guys openly cried actaully....cause they generally supress their feeling and expect others to know...
It is definitely not a turn off....

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #10 on: September 26, 2009, 12:27:03 pm »
Crying is something very normal
Like seriously, for example.. you're a father, your son just died.. You're gonna stand there all normal ? You're obviously gonna cry unless you're one cold hearted human :)

So I think it's very normal
my opinion ofcourse.. differs from what others think :P


obviously i will cry when smth bad like THT happened not something stupiiiiidddddd  ::) ::)
What can I do, to make it right
Falling so hard so fast this time
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How did I fall in love with you?


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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #11 on: September 26, 2009, 12:28:24 pm »

obviously i will cry when smth bad like THT happened not something stupiiiiidddddd  ::) ::)

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #12 on: September 26, 2009, 12:29:34 pm »
haha obv :)
What can I do, to make it right
Falling so hard so fast this time
What did I say, what did you do?
How did I fall in love with you?


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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #13 on: September 26, 2009, 12:31:51 pm »
haha obv :)
you're a girl or boy? lol sorry i dont know :(

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #14 on: September 26, 2009, 12:34:15 pm »
sokay what do u think i am :P
What can I do, to make it right
Falling so hard so fast this time
What did I say, what did you do?
How did I fall in love with you?


zzzzzZZZZZZzzzzzzzzz

I'll be strong.. I'll be wrong.. all the love goes on.. Oh im just a girl tryna find a place in this worLD..  Taylor swift <3