A lot of girls and guys tell me their probs, and I help them out with it
mainly because I always give practical advice.
Like once, there was this girl who cud not tell her mum, that because her mem worked, she missed her a lot, and she thought that if she did have her mum in the house more often, then it wud be very helpful.
U can clearly see, that the girl has feelings for her mother, but i was not sure if this was the only reason.
L8r i found that she had to take care of 2 other small brother, and because of this her grades were falling.
So wat i did is this, i told her to sit down with her dad. I asked her to explain to him the situation. Then I asked her to sit down with her aunt, and explain the problem.
She did what I requested her to do.
Now, I told her that get ur aunt and dad to think up a plan, bcoz the mum got a very good salary, and i mean it was bloody good.
So, they did, what played to my advantage was that her dad also got a lot of money, and tbh, they would never need all that.
So, the aunt and the dad talked to the mum. Now, the mum got furious and called the daughter in.
Now, the daughter stood up this time, knowing that it would be her only chance.
So she gave her reasons, she missed her mum, she had too much responsibility taking care of her brothers.
Angrily, the mother stormed away, she was not going to give up her once in a lifetime oppertunity job.
Now the girl came back to me. She said that I was a good for nothing guy and I messed her whole life up with my stupid advice.
Now this time, I told her that, to take her bros along with her to her mom. The three did wat i told them to do.
Realising that she did not do her duty all this time. The mother realised that self-actualisation was far more than just doing a well pad job.
And after that she did not go back to work, but that made her sad.
She was willing to sacrifice, but she was a brilliant lady, and she did very well at uni, so she thought to herself that she wasted all those years studying for nothing.
Now, the remedy to this was to tell her mom that the ability of a mother is not how much she gets paid, but how well she has raised her children, how well she has taught them and how well she has made them as moral and good citizens.
Now this was dramatic, and I thought that she would not buy it. But i still told the girl to say it. Now, apparently, the mother accepted this, and the daughter found out that, her mother wanted to be nothing but be successful in life.
Now, the mother takes care of her children very well, and the 2 boys, who were 5 when this happened are now teenagers. And thankfully, they are doing quite well in skool. The daughter is now doing A levels and she got 6 A astars at IG, taking 12 subjects, which I think is very good, and all the rest As.
And I cant tell u my nickname, I hav my reasons. just call me TD, short for The Dude.
