Thanks for giving your opinion, but i think you are a bit mistaken, not that i am arguing, i am also jusy saying my point of view.
1. You have the wrong meaning for the term of Jihad, I am not able to explain it but check the latest SF magazine and you will know when is the term Jihad used and you will also know that it is not only about fighting and killing.
2. Slavery is not accepted in Islam, because we humans are the slaves of Allah and we only serve him and nobody else.
3. The punishments are according to the crime. e.g, cut the hand of the thief, but you only cut it if he doesn't regret his act before getting caught and if the person who got his property stolen doesn't forgive him.
4. As for hate for non-Muslims is not true, as a Muslim we are supposed to respect all other religions especially divine religions, so you are wrong if you think that Islam says to hate other religions, we are supposed to respect them and treat them with generosity just like another Muslim unless they fight against us and our religion.
Sure, it's fine, everyone has a right to disagree. I will try to answer the issues you raised.
1. You have the wrong meaning for the term of Jihad, I am not able to explain it but check the latest SF magazine and you will know when is the term Jihad used and you will also know that it is not only about fighting and killing.
The literal meaning for jihad is simply "Struggle". Struggle for what?
It could potentially mean struggle for righteousness, piety, altruism and good things.These meanings are backed by some weak hadiths.
However, 95% of the time when Islamic scholars use the term, they mean violent warfare to subjugate non muslims. This is the historic meaning of the term and nobody will accept any other meaning as it is not backed by most Islamic scholars.
2. Slavery is not accepted in Islam, because we humans are the slaves of Allah and we only serve him and nobody else.
By slavery, i mean the institution of slavery, not the connection between someone and God.
Quran gives some rules for fair treatment of slaves, however, slavery is still endorsed. For example, prophet Muhammad killed all jewish men of Banu qurayza, enslaved the women and children.
3. The punishments are according to the crime. e.g, cut the hand of the thief, but you only cut it if he doesn't regret his act before getting caught and if the person who got his property stolen doesn't forgive him.
That is fine, but I was pointing out that such a punishment is considered too brutal in today's age and as such, may not be suitable.
4. As for hate for non-Muslims is not true, as a Muslim we are supposed to respect all other religions especially divine religions, so you are wrong if you think that Islam says to hate other religions, we are supposed to respect them and treat them with generosity just like another Muslim unless they fight against us and our religion.
Unfortunately the difference between "supposed to" and reality is significant.
More here
http://www.pewglobal.org/2011/07/21/chapter-2-how-muslims-and-westerners-view-each-other/