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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #345 on: July 17, 2011, 04:26:43 pm »
This is great, MashAllah.  ;D Thanks shoshou..mony for sharing.  ;D

Thanks for reading!!!!!

We must be best friends soon. :P I know a lot about you! :D


Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.


When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #346 on: July 17, 2011, 04:54:02 pm »
tasb7i 3ala lail :P

And no one read this? :O

I have NO idea 33sh lazim nugool ::) xD
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #347 on: July 17, 2011, 05:13:59 pm »
An organ that can be used properly and misused harshly- The Tongue.

Awesome article as usual :) +Rep
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #348 on: July 17, 2011, 05:23:13 pm »
An organ that can be used properly and misused harshly- The Tongue.

Awesome article as usual :) +Rep

Yeah and most the people who will be in hell fire will be there because of their tongues.

Thank you for reading, I REALLY appreciate it. Jazkom Allah khair everyone. :-*


Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.


When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #349 on: July 17, 2011, 06:07:37 pm »
Yeah and most the people who will be in hell fire will be there because of their tongues.

Thank you for reading, I REALLY appreciate it. Jazkom Allah khair everyone. :-*

ra3abtneeni  :-X

Can't wait for the NEXT one ;D
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #350 on: July 17, 2011, 06:22:04 pm »
ra3abtneeni  :-X

Can't wait for the NEXT one ;D

Indeed if you control your tongue and speak good then paradise can be yours. The Prophet (saw) said "Whoever can guarantee me two things I can guarantee them Paradise." The companions asked "What O Messenger of Allah?" He replied "What is between his jaws (his tongue) and his legs (private parts)." (Bukhari)

I'll post the next one tonight inshAllah. =]


Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.


When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #351 on: July 17, 2011, 06:23:28 pm »
Indeed if you control your tongue and speak good then paradise can be yours. The Prophet (saw) said "Whoever can guarantee me two things I can guarantee them Paradise." The companions asked "What O Messenger of Allah?" He replied "What is between his jaws (his tongue) and his legs (private parts)." (Bukhari)

I'll post the next one tonight inshAllah. =]

I heard that Hadith before :)

inshAllah :D
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #352 on: July 17, 2011, 09:54:09 pm »
As always, Amazing lesson

You know there is a saying,
Five things never come back:
the spoken words, the wasted time, the past, the neglected opportunity, and friends' trust so think twice and act wise


We should always think before saying :)

In the book "Enjoy your life" I read a sentence i.e. "Only pass comment on what is good"
I think applying this can also protect our tongue from saying wrong

Thank you <33 +rep

Edit: Isnt this supposed to be Lesson 7?
Did I miss out something O_O
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #353 on: July 17, 2011, 10:45:54 pm »
'Five things never come back: the spoken words, the wasted time, the past, the neglected opportunity, and friends' trust so think twice and act wise'
^ I'll make this my new FB status. :D

Only pass a comment on what is good, also there is a hadeeth that says its either you say good or you to stay quiet.

Thanks for reading it love and no this is lesson 8.

Lesson 7 is ummm in the Ramadan thread so this should be lesson 8!
I DID a mistake SORRY! Thanks for pointing it out. <3


Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.


When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #354 on: July 18, 2011, 09:12:44 am »
Marvellous, MA. Don't stop. (:
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #355 on: July 18, 2011, 10:41:58 am »
Amazing mony-chan.
i will try my best to guard my tongue and think before saying anything
May Allah bless you for sharing this with us, Amen

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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #356 on: July 19, 2011, 02:06:08 am »
Something related to this lesson:


In our childhood we bother our mother a lot, she stays awake the whole night just so that her child can sleep peacefully.
She remains hungry but cannot bear the fact if her kid remains hungry for even one moment.
Even when we ask her the same thing 100 times, she replies politely.

When we are a year old, she feeds us and keeps us neat and clean and we return her favor by keeping her awake and weeping all night.

When we turn to two, she grabs our finger and teaches us how to walk and in return we snap her hand and run away.

When we turn to three, she cooks our favourite food and in return we throw the plate on the floor.

When we turn to four, She brings us set of color pencils for drawing and we mark the walls of the houses from these colors.

When we turn to five, she wears us nice clothes and sends us outside to play and we make our clothes dirty with soil.

When we turn to six, she takes us to school and in return we yell and complain to her that we don’t want to go to school

When we turn seven, she brings us football to play with and we throw that to the neighbour’s house and bring her disrespect.

When we turn to eight, she brings us ice-cream; we throw that away and demand to buy another one.

When we turn to nine, she gives us basic book to learn from and we do not read it.

When we turn to ten, she takes us along to ceremonies and we embarrass her due to our actions.

When we turn to eleven, she takes us and our friends to outing and there among the friends we forget her presence.

When we turn to twelve, she orders us not to watch immortal programs and we wait for her to be away so when she is not around we watch our desired programs.

When we turn to thirteen, she asks us to cut our hair short and we reply her with it’s a fashion

When we turn to fourteen, she gives us all her savings so that we can fulfil our desire to go on trips or spend time with friends and when we are on a trip we do not even bother to give her a call.

When we turn to fifteen, she wants to spend time with us but we shut the door and lock ourselves in the room.

When we turn to sixteen, she buys us motorbike, on our demand, but when we ride it we tend to forget all her advices.

When we turn to seventeen, she wants us to spend some time with her and relatives but we prefer to spend time with our friends only.

When we turn to eighteen, she asks us to prepare for our exams but we sleep the whole night

When we turn to nineteen, she arranges the best tutor for us but we do not give time to our studies

When we turn to twenty, she advice us to keep good company and in return we tell her to mind her own business

When we turn to twenty-one, she gives us suggestions for our future and we reply her that I do not want to be what you want me to be.

When we turn to twenty-two, she hugs us on completing our graduation and we demand an expensive gift from her

When we turn to twenty-three, she decorates our room with new furniture, and we tell her that my friends say it’s a cheap choice.

When we turn to twenty-four, she set out our engagement but we get stubborn on our choice.

When we turn to twenty-five, she makes arrangement for our wedding and says don’t forget me after you are married but soon after marriage we get involved in our new life

When we turn to thirty, she shows her desire for grand kids and we reply to her that time has changed it’s the age of family planning.

When we turn to forty, she shows her desire to go to relatives' ceremony with us and we tell her that I don’t have time

When we turn to fifty, she gets ill and needs us and we say that she has become a burden

And one day this estimable creature, our mother, passes away and then we realize that we lost a precious personality but then it’s too late.

Isn’t it painful that the person who bore us and nurture us inspite of difficulties, we don’t have time for that mother.
In today’s hustle bustle we have forgotten the most sincere and valued creature of the universe.



In a hadees Prophet (pbuh) has mentioned:
“The heaven lies under the feet of mother”


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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #357 on: July 19, 2011, 09:18:29 am »
brought me to tears :'(
thank you angel for sharing<3
to by precious MOTHER
"i <3 u mommy and whatever pain i've caused you when i was little, i'll try my best and become a very good daughter to you and make you proud someday"

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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #358 on: July 19, 2011, 09:28:56 am »
Yuh know we're not even allowed to 'Uff' our mothers. Yet, yuh see nowadays people thrashing them and being so cruel to them. =/ We get mad at them if they don't buy us the toys we like or the clothes we wanted.  We've become so mean..
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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #359 on: July 19, 2011, 09:36:35 am »
Yuh know we're not even allowed to 'Uff' our mothers. Yet, yuh see nowadays people thrashing them and being so cruel to them. =/ We get mad at them if they don't buy us the toys we like or the clothes we wanted.  We've become so mean..
true...very true
it's because satan tempts us and make us say and do all kinds of bad things to our parents
i'm truly sorry for what i did to make my mommy and daddy sad
im try my best to make them very happy! ;D