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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #360 on: July 19, 2011, 01:52:19 pm »
Yuh know we're not even allowed to 'Uff' our mothers. Yet, yuh see nowadays people thrashing them and being so cruel to them. =/ We get mad at them if they don't buy us the toys we like or the clothes we wanted.  We've become so mean..
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When we turn to seventeen, she wants us to spend some time with her and relatives but we prefer to spend time with our friends only

We should spend more time with her >_<
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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #361 on: July 19, 2011, 02:21:24 pm »
Great things angel,+rep ^^

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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #362 on: July 19, 2011, 08:44:06 pm »
Amazing as well, MA. <333

Keep it up, sis <333

IA, you'll grow stronger with each second passing. :D

I wanted to share this:



~Turning a flaw into a feature: The Cracked Pot, an Uplifting Story

Once upon a time there was a water-bearer in India who had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master's house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pot full of water in his master's house.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water-bearer one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you." "Why?" asked the bearer.

"What are you ashamed of ?"

"I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master's house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work and you don't get full value from your efforts, " the pot said. The water-bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, "As we return to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path."

Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some.

But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again it apologized to the bearer for its failure.

The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot's side?

That's because have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master's table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house."

The moral of this story: Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and warding. You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them."

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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #363 on: July 19, 2011, 08:55:00 pm »
Great things angel,+rep ^^
Agreed.

Good stuff, Ang3l. :D
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #364 on: July 19, 2011, 09:09:16 pm »
^ This is beautiful :D

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You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them."
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Thanks a lot for sharing <33
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #365 on: July 19, 2011, 09:10:50 pm »
Thank you, chere <333 :D ^_^

Isn't this suppose to be lesson 8? ::)
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #366 on: July 19, 2011, 09:12:03 pm »
Thank you, chere <333 :D ^_^

Isn't this suppose to be lesson 8? ::)
Yes it is Lesson 8 :)
Mony wrote 9 by mistake  ;D
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #367 on: July 19, 2011, 09:13:44 pm »
Yes it is Lesson 8 :)
Mony wrote 9 by mistake  ;D

I thought so. ::) :P

Poor ladki. Bohot stress karti hai. :P
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #368 on: July 19, 2011, 09:14:24 pm »
@Romeesa, BEAUTIFUL story.

I said this before..our imperfections is what makes us perfect. :D

Alhamdolilah.

+rep because I TRULY loved your story. :D Jazka Allah khair for sharing.=]


Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.


When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #369 on: July 19, 2011, 09:16:09 pm »
Awesome Angel! Jazaka Allah khair for sharing! +rep. =]

I hope that with these lessons, we never upset both our parents inshAllah and we always give them all the love they need. <3333


Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.


When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #370 on: July 19, 2011, 09:18:06 pm »
Awesome Angel! Jazaka Allah khair for sharing! +rep. =]

I hope that with these lessons, we never upset both our parents inshAllah and we always give them all the love they need. <3333

IA, Ameen.

I hugged my Mom yesterday. . . Alhamdulillah. It felt so good.

I am REALLY VERY bad in showing my feelings.  :-[ :-X
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Re: Lesson 9 ~ Block the escape routes of the detractors
« Reply #371 on: July 19, 2011, 09:23:44 pm »
@Romeesa, BEAUTIFUL story.

I said this before..our imperfections is what makes us perfect. :D

Alhamdolilah.

+rep because I TRULY loved your story. :D Jazka Allah khair for sharing.=]

Ikr? MA :D

I agree. :D

JazakAllah khairon. Glad to share <333
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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #372 on: July 19, 2011, 09:25:21 pm »
IA, Ameen.

I hugged my Mom yesterday. . . Alhamdulillah. It felt so good.

I am REALLY VERY bad in showing my feelings.  :-[ :-X

I used to be embarrassed when I became 10-16 of hugs. I always loved hugs but I would feel shy to hug my dad and mom. Now...I just do it. At first they would ask me the reason surprisingly and I would just answer 'No reason, I just love you'. They would smile...until now it became a habit and they always wait for my hugs and kisses daily. :D

It feels really good..it feel awesome in fact. Giving our love to the parents who raised us up and made us stand on our own feet.


Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.


When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #373 on: July 19, 2011, 09:27:45 pm »
I used to be embarrassed when I became 10-16 of hugs. I always loved hugs but I would feel shy to hug my dad and mom. Now...I just do it. At first they would ask me the reason surprisingly and I would just answer 'No reason, I just love you'. They would smile...until now it became a habit and they always wait for my hugs and kisses daily. :D

It feels really good..it feel awesome in fact. Giving our love to the parents who raised us up and made us stand on our own feet.

I want to but I cannot. It feels awkward.  :-[
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Re: Brought me to tears...=] Lesson 6 ~ Paid IN FULL
« Reply #374 on: July 19, 2011, 09:29:50 pm »
I want to but I cannot. It feels awkward.  :-[

LOL, yes. Just at the beginning Rom.
They are OUR parents! We came from our mommy's tummy!

There is NOTHING wrong with it and nothing weird. Trust me...all what every human being in this world need is love.
You'll feel inner peace and make them happy.



Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.


When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3