Amazing article!JazaAllah Khairun for sharing
The best way to avoid being depressed is to turn to God, it really is!
Something I would like to share; a small part from the book "Dont be sad"
Look around you, to the right and to the left. Do you not see the afflicted and the unfortunate? In every house there is mourning and upon every cheek run tears.
How many tribulations and how many people persevere with patience? You are not alone in your troubles, which are few compared to those of others. How many sick people remain bedridden for years while suffering from unspeakable pain?
How many men and women have lost their dear children in the prime of youth? How many people are troubled or tormented?
Find consolation with those that are worse off than you; know that this life is like a prison for the believer, an abode of grief and sadness.
You must also compare your difficulties with the difficulties of those around you, and with those that have come before you: you should realize that you are in good shape relative to them, and that you have merely been pricked by tiny difficulties.
So praise Allah for His kindness, be thankful for what He has left for you, seek recompense from Him for what He has taken, and seek consolation with those that are afflicted.
You have a perfect example in the Prophet (PBUH).
The entrails of a camel were placed upon his head; his feet bled; his face was fractured; he was besieged in a mountain pass until he was forced to eat tree leaves; he was driven out of Makkah; his front tooth was broken in battle; his innocent wife was accused of wrongdoing; seventy of his Companions were killed; he was bereaved of his son and of most of his daughters; he would tie a stone around his stomach to lessen the pangs of hunger; and he was accused of being a poet, a magician, a soothsayer, a madman, and a liar - all at the same time.
Yet Allah protected him throughout these severe trials and tribulations.
Prophet Zakariyah (Zacharia) was killed, Prophet Ya~ya (John) was slaughtered, Prophet Moosa (Moses) was afflicted with great trials, Prophet Ibraheem (Abraham) was thrown in the fire, (may peace be upon them all), and the Imams of righteousness followed them upon this path. 'Umar was assassinated, as was 'Uthmaan and 'Ali (may Allah be pleased with them all).
Many scholars of the past have been flogged, imprisoned, or tortured.
“Or think you that you will enter Paradise without such [trials} as came to those who passed away before you? They were afflicted with severe poverty, ailments and were shaken" - (Qur 'an 2: 214)
Thank yuh fer reading, Ang3l and Tohru! :DThanks to you as well for sharing all the wonderful stuff :D
Ang3l, that was GREAT! Thanks fer sharing! It was simply wonderful! =]
Thanks to you as well for sharing all the wonderful stuff :DNo problem! :D
It was by far the best article. We can all take a peak at it during those 'down' times in our lives.Agreed. I loved it <3
Thanks alot, Romessa and Angel. ;D
I still haven't read your article but I'm going to post some magic words which ALWAYS worked for me. Sub7ana Allah during the MOST difficult times in my life, during the tears, the pain, the hate and the regret... taking Allah's path was only the healing..the only cure. I tried everything and I mean EVERYTHING and my depression would just increase. Sub7ana Allah only when I became close to God I started seeing the light.EXATCLY, How i feel..!
^ The above is from an experience and it's not just a rumor spread or lies said. Remembering how lost I was bring tears to my eyes because it took me long to realize that all I had to do was to follow Islam and understand it. I was blind...completely blind...
Alhamdolilah alhamdolilah alhamdolilah a million times for leading me and making me stand on my on feet again when I was just living in the darkness..when I was alive but not living..when life seemed only a burden and a curse. Alhamdolilah..alhamdolilah..alhamdolilah.
I used to be depressed and all but now in a way I am thankful that it all happened to me or else I wouldnt be closer to Allah and Islam and realize what I have realized after that =)
^OMG. I do the same thing! ;D
Same here!Indeed. :D If she wishes to. :P
Angel must join our soul sisters team. :P
Depression AHHH its hard to fight that. My cousins she suffer from This disease She goes all Out of her Mnd say Stuffs She Doesnt mean And all weird stuff. They Says She suffer From Deppresion her Dad Passed away
Sometimes things are way harder. but we Must be calm And Think out for btter Ways
ALLAH IS THERE Yo
Indeed. :D If she wishes to. :PLOOOLLLLL, this made me laugh :D :D
We were 3 blind mice. :P Now, 3 angels. :D
Calamity befalls every human being. Allah takes test, to see how much you love Him.True
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Thanks for sharing lia =)
Welcome. ;)Lol, why :o
I wish Alf was reading this. ::)
LOOOLLLLL, this made me laugh :D :DHey soul sister! :D
I am ready.! 8) Hey soul sister..... ;D
True
Thanks for sharing lia =)
Hey soul sister! :D
Lol. Amelia can join too! :D
Let's make a soul sister club! :D :P
Thanks, Amelia. . . It was wonderful. :D
What happened to Alpha? :(
LOL. Nothing happened to her. I was just showing off. :PReally? :-\ I don't believe you. ::) :P
Really? :-\ I don't believe you. ::) :P
Ofcourse really. Why would she be depressed when she has me and you and Mony and SF?LOOOOOL XD
OMG, I found a bad trait in me! I like to show-off!! :o ::)
LOL, You guys are sho cute <33
YES, A soul sister club 8) ::)
I love you all so much, Imma tear up now! :'(
Control, control. Imma get you tissues. :P
I need a bucket. *bawling* :P
A tank would do just fine.
So what are we crying for? Where is your soul? Stolen? :P
Bwahahahahahaha!:P ;D
I rather just move to Pacific ocean then. :P
Lol. I forgot. Too much love fer yuh all, I guess. :P
Just the beginning. Wait till you get grey-haired like me. ::)Lol. Yuh have grey-hair? :o
Lol. Yuh have grey-hair? :o
^ We rather have a granny club then ::)
^ We rather have a granny club then ::)
LOOOOOOOOOOL XD XD XD Yuh both are such sweeties. :PAnd you are the cutie pie ;D
And you are the cutie pie ;DTum:(http://www.desicomments.com/dc1/08/132480/132480.jpg)
And you: :D
(http://fc08.deviantart.net/fs45/f/2009/101/c/1/___Cute_Girl____by_Emane1983.jpg)
Awwwww! =]
The thread looks so happy and depression free now! :P
hahahaha, that's the spirit! :D:D
Allah will always ALWAYS be there!!!
*no reason to be sad now cielo *
What's wrong, sis ? :(
Some negative thoughts taking over my mind...
for past few days was thinking that nobody cares about me/am unloved/felt like everyone hates me/felt like a failure :( i know sad times...
but am okay now alhumdullillah ... when you have Allah with you ... no reason to be sad! right
so am all happy again ;D ;D