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Teachers and Students => Debates => Topic started by: angell on July 19, 2009, 05:19:47 pm
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The topic says it all
Some men cry naturally when they are touched - they're emotions :'( :'(
but some people say it is non -macho
some find it cute, others say its a major turn-off
so what about you guys, do you think crying men are non-macho? :D
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The generilation of a man's somewhat ideal behavior is to blame as the cause of being why some men find it non-macho.
People have to rememba that men are also sensetive, they have feelings and they are human, its just human nature for someone to say that that dude is the odd one out cuz he cries. I dont think that is fair, some are born with more sensetive tear glands and some are just more sensetive.
I sometimes think that it is a good thing becasue crying is a way of letting out frustration, most men let it out using anger. So, it may even be a positive thing.
And being macho is not everything, a man does not have to be a body builder to be brave or courageous, rememba courage is often found in the most unusual places.
Today, it is more important to be intellegent or fit or skilled, not macho.
Thank you very much for bringing this in the spotlight.
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Ok i dont like this thinking that Men should cry *turn off*
Crying is a way in which u let go ir speression after u cry u feeel moe relifed n better.
Men at the end r Humans just bcuz they r MUSCULAR strong doesnt mean then r emotionally strong
they get hurt n weak too at times too=]
Being strong emotionally is not the only wau u can be called Non macho
its wierd how we fail to analysise thinggs 4 a narrow prospective not a boreder n Open minded ,
Angel really good topic indeed
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Didnt like it that obama cried cos teddy kennedy died
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macho? lol whats that :P
i think i get what u mean .. sure men have feelings .. but i think they prefer not to cry .. and if they do cry .. it's done privately :P
girls however .. watch a romantic movie and cry, see a puppy and cry, break-up with boy friends and cry .. WHY do u cry so much ??!! :P
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Looooooooooooooool nah i dont cry when i watch a Love story :D
Nor do i cry when i see a puppy PFT!! who would i??? By the way I saw a dolamation in DOHA!!!!
Break up/love naaah never hit me hahahaha!!!!!
Yes i do feel bad when i see a Poor child......or miskeeen people....Yan3 i fell bad bus
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macho? lol whats that :P
i think i get what u mean .. sure men have feelings .. but i think they prefer not to cry .. and if they do cry .. it's done privately :P
girls however .. watch a romantic movie and cry, see a puppy and cry, break-up with boy friends and cry .. WHY do u cry so much ??!! :P
i dnt cry in a romantic movie lmmaooo
nd why in the world would i cry when i see a puppy loooooll hahahahahahaha
breakups i dnt knw :P never experienced :P :P :D
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Crying is something very normal
Like seriously, for example.. you're a father, your son just died.. You're gonna stand there all normal ? You're obviously gonna cry unless you're one cold hearted human :)
So I think it's very normal
my opinion ofcourse.. differs from what others think :P
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macho? lol whats that :P
i think i get what u mean .. sure men have feelings .. but i think they prefer not to cry .. and if they do cry .. it's done privately :P
girls however .. watch a romantic movie and cry, see a puppy and cry, break-up with boy friends and cry .. WHY do u cry so much ??!! :P
LOL! that was so funny how you said why do you cry so much! xD
Yeah but not all girls though :P
some girls are normal, and some are just way over dramatic xD
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I would like it if guys openly cried actaully....cause they generally supress their feeling and expect others to know...
It is definitely not a turn off....
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Crying is something very normal
Like seriously, for example.. you're a father, your son just died.. You're gonna stand there all normal ? You're obviously gonna cry unless you're one cold hearted human :)
So I think it's very normal
my opinion ofcourse.. differs from what others think :P
obviously i will cry when smth bad like THT happened not something stupiiiiidddddd ::) ::)
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obviously i will cry when smth bad like THT happened not something stupiiiiidddddd ::) ::)
:D
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haha obv :)
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haha obv :)
you're a girl or boy? lol sorry i dont know :(
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sokay what do u think i am :P
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sokay what do u think i am :P
i assume a girl? lol cuz your name? :P
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mky name is not zainy :P
but yes i am a girl :P
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oh, men crying ;D
i love to c men crying
most of the times, i realli think its cute
esp. when they try to hide it
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yeaa it does loook cute ;D
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oh, men crying ;D
i love to c men crying
most of the times, i realli think its cute
esp. when they try to hide it
you love to watch us suffering? lol!
haha no wonder girls love seeing men suffering xD
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you love to watch us suffering? lol!
haha no wonder girls love seeing men suffering xD
Naturally....it's a built in thing...pleasure to watch men suffer :P
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Naturally....it's a built in thing...pleasure to watch men suffer :P
lmao! hahaha
well that's good i know now, a warning xD
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lmao! hahaha
well that's good i know now, a warning xD
:P :P
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it would b nice 2 see yall sufferin once a while :P
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it would b nice 2 see yall sufferin once a while :P
im suffering now :P
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awwww :P
Why
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awwww :P
Why
teenage depression :P
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ooh myyy wht happened is it family frendz or a "girl"
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ooh myyy wht happened is it family frendz or a "girl"
a mixture of everything :P
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you love to watch us suffering? lol!
haha no wonder girls love seeing men suffering xD
nooooo
ana i feel my heart tears up when i c anyone suffering, esp. men, cuz am sure they wont be crying 4 a dumb reason .. i just feel like i wanna go up their & dry away their tears .. no joke
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nooooo
ana i feel my heart tears up when i c anyone suffering, esp. men, cuz am sure they wont be crying 4 a dumb reason .. i just feel like i wanna go up their & dry away their tears .. no joke
I don't cry for dumb reasons....I don't remember the last time I cried
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women like seeing men suffer ..?
now i understand why my PSE teacher told us not to get married :P
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women like seeing men suffer ..?
now i understand why my PSE teacher told us not to get married :P
Sometimes :P You can take the risk of getting married
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haha ya ..
marriage has its advantages and disadvantages ..
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haha ya ..
marriage has its advantages and disadvantages ..
haha yeah xD that's so true :P
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I don't cry for dumb reasons....I don't remember the last time I cried
ahehe
did i say YOU cry for dumb reasons ??
i mean generally
men r an exception for their crying
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lool marriage :P
hahahaha
and yea crying for dumb reasons hmm.. .
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Actually crying is a big problem for me as a girl.! I just can't hide it :-\
By the way guys, the thing that makes me cry mostly is seeing a guy/man crying,,
this really breaks my heart
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You cry when you see them cry...I feel like laughing :-X....it's not a very common site you see :P
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You cry when you see them cry...I feel like laughing :-X....it's not a very common site you see :P
hahaha you're so cruel hearted :P
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hahaha you're so cruel hearted :P
that was meant to be a joke.....gosh!!
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that was meant to be a joke.....gosh!!
im messing with you too :P :P
gosh.. :P lol
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im messing with you too :P :P
gosh.. :P lol
haawww :P
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haawww :P
Haiiii!! :]
*waving*
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You cry when you see them cry...I feel like laughing :-X....it's not a very common site you see :P
yeah, it's not common in real life but I do see it on TV, movies and other shows..
I don't knw what exactly makes you laugh but am serious; am not kidding ::)
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yeah, it's not common in real life but I do see it on TV, movies and other shows..
I don't knw what exactly makes you laugh but am serious; am not kidding ::)
joke joke ::)
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seeing a guy cry doesnt make me CRY :|
but yea not laugh either
just curious to knw wats wrong.. maybe i could help ;D
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and i forgot to mention..
when i cry actuallly u wont see me crying :P i cry in the washroom or in my room if i get a chance to b alone :D
but if u do it aint pretty ::) :P
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Sometimes i can't hold it back.....but most of the times i cry when no one's around...i don't like others watching me cry
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if i get relllyyy Maaaad then it shows :S
but otherwise i hold it :)
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well first we need to seperate simple spontaneous crying from the shoutout sissy crying.
Personally, I see the former as a primary sign of manhoodness - or as u say, macho -
As for the freaking juvenile loud crying, well not only does it degrades a man (and personally i think it degrades females too) but it just means you as mature as an infant
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macho? lol whats that :P
i think i get what u mean .. sure men have feelings .. but i think they prefer not to cry .. and if they do cry .. it's done privately :P
girls however .. watch a romantic movie and cry, see a puppy and cry, break-up with boy friends and cry .. WHY do u cry so much ??!! :P
haha those girls are the real "dolls" (no offense to any1)
but theyre not tough at all. not all girls like crying, usually if a girl cries (especially after a break up) it means that they really are hurt.
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...IM EMO...
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lol @saad
rotfl...
funny topic..
i miss u guys
well i never got to know u so i guess u dont really miss me
*cries*
what do u feel? anger? happiness? lonliness? psychoness? PURE PH3333R?
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it reallie depends .. theres a limit 2 everything ..
if a man cries more than i do than thats a major turn offf lol cuz i think i cry enough 4 the both of usss but that doesnt meean that when he reallie needs 2 shed a tear he holds it in cuz its not machoo its the same as supressing anger or joy .. its comes bouncing back at u after a whileee its implications psychologically are bad for a man or a woman to supress any emotion ... and personally i think men crying 4 meaningful reasons is cuteee it means he has a heart in there somwhere ;D
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When i get really angry, especially in a fight... automatically water just gets in my eyes... I don't think its crying cuz i dont normally just cry even if hit or warever, but does anyone know why does this happen to me?
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i noe its cz u saw me nd u were soo afraid :P :P
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If a guy cries, it's deep.
I'd love them! :P
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oooh nice topic
i personally dont mind men who cry
it shows that they do not let their pride get in the way of how they feel
it shows that they do not have an enlarged ego that they are afraid too cry in public cause it might destroy there reputation
showin emotions is a way by which ppl can show that they truly understand each other and really care for each other
but ofcourse they shudnt be an emotional wreck
just cry less the me
which is not much ;)
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i noe its cz u saw me nd u were soo afraid :P :P
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
No really, :P same thing happens when m in a mall or windy day or smth. I think its cuz my eye is a bit sensitive...
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ya my eyes too
i wear glasses :)
lool look how i changed the subject!!
i h8 seeing men cry....
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Did you all see Gordon Brown crying on a chatshow? When asked about the death of his daughter. I think he did it for the sympathy. He is a proven liar.
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"There was no need to be shamed of tears. For tears bore proof that men had the greatest of all courage-- the courage to suffer." :)