As I said, way better speakers than me.
Both of you try to speak in quotes, and only quotes. That won't help you in real life. Trust me.
You try using as few smiley's as possible, just to look wiser.
Trust me, I've witnessed issues you'l never imagine. I'm not proud of what I saw, but what I saw made me a stronger person.
I'm not proud of saying I'm more experienced in real life situations either. All I'm trying to do is giving an advice to 2 mates of mine.
Quotes are good, but not perfect. They don't always work. They'll make you seem wiser and more thoughtful. But what really contrivutes to your thoughtfulness is your reaction to real life situations.
I don't know you in person, but the way I see it, is living in the illusion of the perfection of quotes.