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Alpha:
--- Quote from: Mr. Enigmatic on April 27, 2010, 03:03:35 pm ---A logical approach, but this decision is far more emotional than logical, that is what makes it adventerous. You see, you never know who turns out to be who, a perfect bride often turns out to be the perfect nightmare.
Now the idea of perfection, is it not viewable in different angles, know I would not want the perfect peanut butter and jelly sandwich to be funny, goofy, etc. Now would I? Or would I? Its hard to tell, because destiny is not for us to decide.
Now yes, I have said perfection is a matter of taste. And what you have done through that argument is simply re-instate logically what I compactly said, perfection is a personnification of the unattainable. What you would want that person to be....
And when you ban yourself, your name gets black. LOL
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He said everything, except: Yeah, that was my view of perfection. ;D
Okay, I know, perfection will differ for different things... But we're talking of only one of those, a life-partner. ;)
Oh, so you've just been banning and reinstating yourself. :P
--- Quote from: Mr. Enigmatic on April 28, 2010, 10:57:54 pm ---I assure u alpha, most girls are not very realistic, atleast not the ones here.
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I assure you too, girls can be very realistic when they have to.
--- Quote from: Mr. Enigmatic on April 29, 2010, 02:37:33 pm ---
Always the commedian. Keep it up.
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Partly agree, Borakk is just talking now. We'll see when he acts later. ;)
Alpha:
--- Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on April 29, 2010, 04:36:11 am ---@Alpha's post in page 5:
Oops, I didn't notice your post! ;) And the quote button is not working for me. :(
If a girl hates me as her worst enemy, I would not marry her. Common sense! :P There are many, and much better girls than her after all. She's not the only one. And I've got no right to force her into anything.
What I meant is that, I don't have any criterias in mind like you say 'someone I would love' etc. 'Love' is a generalized word after all. And I'm not much clear what it means. I wouldn't even know if she loves me. And she would have no idea if I love her.
"What type of husband or wife do you think you will make?"
Husband* :P
I would give her what she wants. Like expensive cars, jewellery, food and everything. She should, and will undoubtedly, love me for that.
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You said there was no need for her to love you...
Ah, so your choice will be extended to everyone, not just one special you would want to marry.
By the way, you are not the only who can give her expensive cars, jewellery, food, and all. Then, your ideal should marry a prince, rather than you. :P
Frankly, do you find it logical and normal that somebody marries you for what you have and not what you are? There are so many richer persons in the world, then why would she marry YOU? If somebody just takes away all your money, or you are bankrupt, then will there be no reason a girl would marry you?
--- Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on April 29, 2010, 04:16:41 pm ---@Nid:
Giving and taking = sharing as far as I can understand in the realistic sense.
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My sense tells me Nid was right... Giving and taking >>> A Deal. A transaction, an exchange. You take BECAUSE you give.
Sharing > Giving because you want to give, and not expecting anything in return.
You give somebody a piece of bread, and takes one in return.
You share your own bread with her, and her with you, when you have none.
It's certainly not the same.
$tyli$h Executive:
Were I joking in my posts?! :o :o ??? If you think I was, I better not make a fool out of myself and get outta here.
Therefore, I'm out of this debate. Continue everybody. I bet if I was joking in my posts, all of you were too.
Saladin:
--- Quote from: ~Alpha on April 30, 2010, 01:49:33 am ---He said everything, except: Yeah, that was my view of perfection. ;D
Okay, I know, perfection will differ for different things... But we're talking of only one of those, a life-partner. ;)
Oh, so you've just been banning and reinstating yourself. :P
I assure you too, girls can be very realistic when they have to.
Partly agree, Borakk is just talking now. We'll see when he acts later. ;)
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What are you trying to prove or disprove..... ???
Alpha:
--- Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on April 30, 2010, 04:48:36 am ---Were I joking in my posts?! :o :o ??? If you think I was, I better not make a fool out of myself and get outta here.
Therefore, I'm out of this debate. Continue everybody. I bet if I was joking in my posts, all of you were too.
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Do you always need to find reasons to get out of debates??
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