Marriage

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yes this thread is always like that
 

and yeah logic would come in handy through a topic like this one...but they used logic to argue women going to work...they said life should be divided and that owmen staying at home is the best because that is the role she is most fit to

who ever said this i never noticed
how can any1 in this century thing like that ??

[sweetest angel]

Century is 100 years so i'd say it wasn't this century, its from the start of the whole women freedom thing, i guess that was more than a hundred years ago, since 1900's start

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ohk
i just meant like nobody in 21 century will ever say that

but its good to see some1 (u) with similar thoughts

[sweetest angel]

ohk
i just meant like nobody in 21 century will ever say that

but its good to see some1 (u) with similar thoughts

yup its a relief to see people who support.One day they is going to be a whole population of us and then we'll be heared without anyone daring to argue sometime soon i hope

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people actually have started thinking this way but the thing is there are not much here
and soon people will realize about what we mean to say

[Alpha]

I'll reply when I get the time to...

[$tyli$h Executive]

Sweetest angel, I agree with pretty much everything you say, but not the idea that a women shouldn't marry.

Haven't got time either. Expect to join this fun tomorrow.

[sweetest angel]

Sweetest angel, I agree with pretty much everything you say, but not the idea that a women shouldn't marry.

Haven't got time either. Expect to join this fun tomorrow.

Lol okay we'll wait  for u too Alpha 

[Alpha]

Lol okay we'll wait  for u too Alpha 

Thanks...

Seems that you're enjoying holidays, cause I'm hopping with work.

Allez, see you later... 

[sweetest angel]

Thanks...

Seems that you're enjoying holidays, cause I'm hopping with work.

Allez, see you later... 

Lol not really am studying for my Alevels. But its nice to have a place not far away from your desk to spend some free time

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haha so that means this thread is going 2 go dead

[Alpha]

I seriously can't believe how you people are saying no to marriage.

Waste of time? waste of life? Marrying someone, having children from that person, raising up strong men/women in the world is a waste of time? Raising up people who can be the reason this world would be a better place is a waste of time?

Life is not just about me. I will get bored of it if I would always stay alone thinking of not marrying someone because it is a waste of money and life. This is pure non-sense, thinking that money should be spent on me only.

Someday you will want to open your own family, this is life. Someone who would be there with you when your hair is grey, someone who would take care of you when you get sick(children), someone who would always share their bed with you, someone who would you company.

A woman is not living life fully if she is not getting married. I know close people to me who did not get married till today and they are going to be 40 something, they don't like life this way. They don't like it when they see their friends having their own families with their own children while they are sitting there with nothing but work.

Marriage was never a waste of time. If it was, then you yourself would've never been brought up in this world. Look at your parents and look at how they raised you. Do you call this a waste of time and money? I do not believe so.

I don't take parts of debates much but you people made me stunned with your point of view and so I had to say something.

You will die soon, thus having children to send a message to this world after your death. It is like you building the future, teaching your children and your children teaching their own children etc etc like a cycle.

Just like how my grandmother taught my mom, made her the best person your eyes might see. A person who changes bad people to good. I swear to God. Now my mom, raises my sister and I in the same way and GUESS WHAT?! I made 4 people wear hijab and GUESS WHAT ALSO, I was just 12-13 years old. And still when I become an older person I will GIVE ALL MY POWER in making this world a better one. I promise. and you know what also? I will bring children who will InshAllah will be strong like me and who will be the reason this place would become better. I will build the future with my own hands because this is how my mother raised me as long as Allah is by my side.

Pure non-sense to me all what you are saying. That is why I am not debating with you. As long as others agree I will not try any harder to change your point of view.

You are right, there was no need to bring you in this world. You said it yourself. =]

No offence meant to you. Best of luck for living alone. =]

You should debate more... 

You really amazed me... + rep 

[$tyli$h Executive]

Though I'm a guy, I hate the concept of female slavery. If I were a woman (now don't laugh ), I would never like it that I have to hear what my husband tells me to, even if it goes against my wishes.

Women should be more concerned about their career than just about their husband. Its not that what the husband has = what the wife has. Shes got to have her own separate identity and success.

To do this, marriage is often a hindrance to women, I fully agree. But you can be very choosy in your approach and only choose like-minded husbands. Not leave marriage altogether.

[$tyli$h Executive]

i hate to disagree but.....i dnt really buy into this love thing. i don't believe in it. although i see everybody around in my family happily married and my parents are as well...i just dnt believe in a person who'd stay there forever..i mean GOD i'd get bored the next year ><. and why would a girl, after getting out of her parents control, like say 21 years old, would go into some other man's control. can't i b normal just by myself? do i have to BELONG to same male so that i am human? and what kind of common sense makes one believe that a man would always see her as the most perfect :/. if he liked u for your looks, their is always the more beautiful...for ur persona? there is always the more confident, smart,etc...!

so WTH. i'll love to live for me and only me. not for some man who'd think just because i have an XY chromosome i'll have to posses qualities like cooking and cleaning. these are not sex linked genes u know!! sry am a bio student .

i believe in equality between male and female. marriage destroys everything i believe in. from having his name after your kid's (whom u gave birth to AND raised!) to having him set the rules in the house! when will u ppl b unblinded from that repetitive "love" talk -__-. the only love i'll ever give is to my parents and grandparents, whom very much deserve it!

Exactly. Me too. Fully agree with each statement.

After a long time, found someone like-minded!

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like minded husbands are fine but still
a female after marriage can never walk off on her own WTH  why not ??
even we have our identity n staying in ties is not acceptable always