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$tyli$h Executive:
Frankly speaking, its difficult for a woman to lead a happy life without marrying. Maybe, a man can lead a happy life without marrying, but very difficult for a woman.
And no, a woman does not become automatically unsuccessful if she marries. She can choose someone who doesn't mind her working or studying. But the decision to not marry altogether is not logical.
Ukhti-R:
--- Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on May 11, 2010, 12:55:39 am ---Frankly speaking, its difficult for a woman to lead a happy life without marrying. Maybe, a man can lead a happy life without marrying, but very difficult for a woman.
And no, a woman does not become automatically unsuccessful if she marries. She can choose someone who doesn't mind her working or studying. But the decision to not marry altogether is not logical.
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exactly.
Everything that;s in the Quraan and Sunnah is logical, and it's for the benefit of the people.
Follow it- you'll lead the best life. inshallah.
sweetest angel:
--- Quote from: Shoshou..Mony on May 11, 2010, 12:47:27 am ---You will die soon, thus having children to send a message to this world after your death. It is like you building the future, teaching your children and your children teaching their own children etc etc like a cycle.
Just like how my grandmother taught my mom, made her the best person your eyes might see. A person who changes bad people to good. I swear to God. Now my mom, raises my sister and I in the same way and GUESS WHAT?! I made 4 people wear hijab and GUESS WHAT ALSO, I was just 12-13 years old. And still when I become an older person I will GIVE ALL MY POWER in making this world a better one. I promise. and you know what also? I will bring children who will InshAllah will be strong like me and who will be the reason this place would become better. I will build the future with my own hands because this is how my mother raised me as long as Allah is by my side.
Pure non-sense to me all what you are saying. That is why I am not debating with you. As long as others agree I will not try any harder to change your point of view.
You are right, there was no need to bring you in this world. You said it yourself. =]
No offence meant to you. Best of luck for living alone. =]
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Dude eeryone gave their opinion in a respectful way but you just saw that sarcasm is better? Anywho this is to show my way of seeing things, i am not forcing it to anyone else and THAT is way i am not going to argue. Howeve to others who do reply respectfully my argument has started wih that a woman can do a better job at career without family. Wanting to marry after family is another story. You converted it to whether or not she should marry at all so i gave my saying on that and i am aware not most people would agree. I cant change the ways life went from forever in a post. And i thought the debate section was to express your view not ti be mocked mony…shousho. And i still say a woman can always be self-dependant, self-reliable as long as she lives. Just the right mind has to be put in.
Oh and i will ask about the interpretion of the aya. I didnt know my understanding for it was wron
Ukhti-R:
--- Quote from: sweetest angel on May 11, 2010, 12:59:53 am ---Dude eeryone gave their opinion in a respectful way but you just saw that sarcasm is better? Anywho this is to show my way of seeing things, i am not forcing it to anyone else and THAT is way i am not going to argue. Howeve to others who do reply respectfully my argument has started wih that a woman can do a better job at career without family. Wanting to marry after family is another story. You converted it to whether or not she should marry at all so i gave my saying on that and i am aware not most people would agree. I cant change the ways life went from forever in a post. And i thought the debate section was to express your view not ti be mocked mony…shousho. And i still say a woman can always be self-dependant, self-reliable as long as she lives. Just the right mind has to be put in.
Oh and i will ask about the interpretion of the aya. I didnt know my understanding for it was wron
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but what about the hadeeth that says " Marrying is half of your faith" ?
Must that not be taken under consideration ?
Or are we just going to live THIS life how we want it, and just HOPE that we get somewhere after ?
***exam***:
i am not going against any religious sayings or anything
but as u say a man can lead a happy life without marriage a women can too
its not of being unsuccessful its just that later ur tyrant to many things
best example a women can not keep going out of the house every now and then 4 work
if she shifts to a new place she has 2 think a lot about her children's studies and husbands job and stuff
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