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Marriage
sweetest angel:
but am egyption...
Monica:
I seriously can't believe how you people are saying no to marriage.
Waste of time? waste of life? Marrying someone, having children from that person, raising up strong men/women in the world is a waste of time? Raising up people who can be the reason this world would be a better place is a waste of time?
Life is not just about me. I will get bored of it if I would always stay alone thinking of not marrying someone because it is a waste of money and life. This is pure non-sense, thinking that money should be spent on me only.
Someday you will want to open your own family, this is life. Someone who would be there with you when your hair is grey, someone who would take care of you when you get sick(children), someone who would always share their bed with you, someone who would you company.
A woman is not living life fully if she is not getting married. I know close people to me who did not get married till today and they are going to be 40 something, they don't like life this way. They don't like it when they see their friends having their own families with their own children while they are sitting there with nothing but work.
Marriage was never a waste of time. If it was, then you yourself would've never been brought up in this world. Look at your parents and look at how they raised you. Do you call this a waste of time and money? I do not believe so.
I don't take parts of debates much but you people made me stunned with your point of view and so I had to say something.
Meticulous:
Agreed with Shoshou.
Ukhti-R:
--- Quote from: Shoshou..Mony on May 11, 2010, 12:15:13 am ---I seriously can't believe how you people are saying no to marriage.
Waste of time? waste of life? Marrying someone, having children from that person, raising up strong men/women in the world is a waste of time? Raising up people who can be the reason this world would be a better place is a waste of time?
Life is not just about me. I will get bored of it if I would always stay alone thinking of not marrying someone because it is a waste of money and life. This is pure non-sense, thinking that money should be spent on me only.
Someday you will want to open your own family, this is life. Someone who would be there with you when your hair is grey, someone who would take care of you when you get sick(children), someone who would always share their bed with you, someone who would you company.
A woman is not living life fully if she is not getting married. I know close people to me who did not get married till today and they are going to be 40 something, they don't like life this way. They don't like it when they see their friends having their own families with their own children while they are sitting there with nothing but work.
Marriage was never a waste of time. If it was, then you yourself would've never been brought up in this world. Look at your parents and look at how they raised you. Do you call this a waste of time and money? I do not believe so.
I don't take parts of debates much but you people made me stunned with your point of view and so I had to say something.
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words straight out of my mind and mouth.
Could not agree more.
Monica:
--- Quote from: sweetest angel on May 08, 2010, 07:16:23 am ---
Lol ya maybe. Its just that growing in a place where there has to be a "man" of the house sickens me. Like we are some kind of inferior creations. We are not. Eve has come from Adam's shoulder, for equality, not legs to show his superioratory to her.
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A woman is a woman. She needs a man to be there to protect her. We are not some kind of interior creations if a man is there to protect us. You might be strong with personality but after all your a woman, if a thief comes in your house at night all what you will do is scream and faint >> Yes, I will do that :P I mean I will try to fight but again you are just a woman, how on earth will you fight a strong thief? A man should be there to make you feel secure and safe unless he is so weak with no packs and would end up hiding like what our family friends husband did. :P(he pretended to be sleeping when the thief was there at his house) :P hahahaha.
I don't want to enter religion in this debate, but since you are muslim if I start saying what Islam tells us about marriage, men and women I would prove you wrong in everything you said. "Al Regal qawamoon 3ala 2al nis2a" whether you agree or disagree this is the way it is, this is how Allah created us and this is a fact.
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