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Ukhti-R:
@Alpha: LOL. Besides his religion, I'd like him to be goooddd looking, like seriously good looking, Educated, good job, nice parents (not those annoying mother-in-laws :P), from here but live in Saudi, caring, loving, romantic, funny, entertaining, cool, nice car, understanding, there when I need him, not "perfect", because perfect people wind me up sometimes (:P), muscular, but not toooo muscular with huge arms and stuff, kind hearted, lovely, beautiful, LOL. I can go on for ages- in a world of my own I am, committed, NO SECOND WIFE- I REPEAT, NO SECOND WIFE, not even THINK about a second wife.
LOOL. The list will go one- for ages :P
@Stylish: Thank you ! :D
$tyli$h Executive:
You're welcome Roxy! :)
Alpha, yes she will be. I want her to be too! Not restrict her like you want wives to be... ::)
By the way, I just read sweetest angels first posts in this topic. And THATS the attitude for success! Way to go, girl! :D
Alpha:
Sweetest Angel,
If the world is round, no matter the direction, you all keep roaming round and round... :)
You didn't get me, I referred to the ocean of marriage.
--- Quote ---"a push"?. tell me one thing. As a woman, with kids, who wants to go outside for say, a doctorate degree. Your husband works in the country. Will you, as a married woman, have the final saying if you should or shouldn't go? the answer is NO. You will consider other things first, like your kids, your husband's work and other aspects of people or things dependent on you. Don't tell me as a married couple you will work it out, cause you don't. You will have to come with terms to the fact that your family is first. Even if this comes willingly, it never the less wouldn't have been the choice as a single lady.
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Then, will you forever remain single just because you wanted freedom of choice?
That's an argument that will hold for anything, not only marriage.
TBH, even as a single woman, I would have to consider many factors before I make any decision. Every choice has a cost, it's normal.
Nobody compels anyone to put marriage before studies.
Like you, I have to build up my professional life and career too. But I would just not give myself the opportunity to regret things I could have done, but never did.
--- Quote ---True. But do you mean to say that you can't do that independently? You can, with no obligations or commitments.
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Comes to my point... Do you mean married couples can never achieve success? They can too, WITH support. And help.
--- Quote ---if say, your parents have not given birth to you, their lives would have changed tremendously. to the better maybe?
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I wouldn't say that... ::) LOL, am a burden for them then? All kids hinder success?
I dare speak for my parents concerning this... There couldn't have been better joy for them than their offspring, than me and my sister. :)
--- Quote ---sry my typing is included into the quote box
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No prob.
--- Quote from: Roxy.Converse on May 06, 2010, 01:20:50 pm ---@Alpha: LOL. Besides his religion, I'd like him to be goooddd looking, like seriously good looking, Educated, good job, nice parents (not those annoying mother-in-laws :P), from here but live in Saudi, caring, loving, romantic, funny, entertaining, cool, nice car, understanding, there when I need him, not "perfect", because perfect people wind me up sometimes (:P), muscular, but not toooo muscular with huge arms and stuff, kind hearted, lovely, beautiful, LOL. I can go on for ages- in a world of my own I am, committed, NO SECOND WIFE- I REPEAT, NO SECOND WIFE, not even THINK about a second wife.
LOOL. The list will go one- for ages :P
@Stylish: Thank you ! :D
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LOL, yeah, the list is quite long... :D
But that was honest, and............................................................ well elaborated. ;)
That's for SURE, NO second wife. Not at all. And plus, NO SMOKING. Period.
--- Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on May 06, 2010, 01:41:20 pm ---
By the way, I just read sweetest angels first posts in this topic. And THATS the attitude for success! Way to go, girl! :D
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WHAT was I saying.... ::)
Restricted? :o Show me where I said that. Prove it. :P
Ukhti-R:
lol- yehh, deffo no smoking :)
Saladin:
--- Quote from: Roxy.Converse on May 06, 2010, 01:20:50 pm ---@Alpha: LOL. Besides his religion, I'd like him to be goooddd looking, like seriously good looking, Educated, good job, nice parents (not those annoying mother-in-laws :P), from here but live in Saudi, caring, loving, romantic, funny, entertaining, cool, nice car, understanding, there when I need him, not "perfect", because perfect people wind me up sometimes (:P), muscular, but not toooo muscular with huge arms and stuff, kind hearted, lovely, beautiful, LOL. I can go on for ages- in a world of my own I am, committed, NO SECOND WIFE- I REPEAT, NO SECOND WIFE, not even THINK about a second wife.
LOOL. The list will go one- for ages :P
@Stylish: Thank you ! :D
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Yikes
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