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Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
Lisiiberry:
I don't understand why so many of you are against it, you should experience it before judging; getting close with people and getting to really know them, spending time with them, laughing together as boyfriend and girlfriend or simply dating is so enjoyable, why would so many people do it if not?
I'm not sure whether most of you are Pakistani and Indian? that seems to be primarily the culture I see on here, but in New Zealand and other western cultures, its the norm to be in relationships from aged 13.
Marriage proves nothing and people in my culture repeatedly break their vows anyway so it just isn't successful judging by our divorce rates.
getting married before you date seems foolish since you don't even know the person, how can you judge that you want to spend every moment of your life with this person?? ???
Freaked12:
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ALRIGHT
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Deadly_king:
--- Quote ---I don't understand why so many of you are against it, you should experience it before judging; getting close with people and getting to really know them, spending time with them, laughing together as boyfriend and girlfriend or simply dating is so enjoyable, why would so many people do it if not?
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all this can be done with friends........there is no need of being boy or girlfriends for these kind of things. The trend is different nowadays..........dating seems to be overcome by the temptation of sex!!
People normally do so because they want to impress their friends that they have a boy or girlfriend whom they love which is however not the case.
--- Quote ---I'm not sure whether most of you are Pakistani and Indian? that seems to be primarily the culture I see on here, but in New Zealand and other western cultures, its the norm to be in relationships from aged 13.
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At such a tender age we are still immature and wont be able to take responsible decisions concerning our future life if we get entangled into relationships. Moreover we still do not know the true meaning of love.
--- Quote ---Marriage proves nothing and people in my culture repeatedly break their vows anyway so it just isn't successful judging by our divorce rates.
getting married before you date seems foolish since you don't even know the person, how can you judge that you want to spend every moment of your life with this person?? ???
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The divorce rates are high because there seem to have been more than 1 girl or boy in the life of every individual in their past...........conflicts will always rise between husband and wives due to this!
You need not date someone before marriage but you can still try to know her in other ways.
Having always preserved yourself for only one person is such a beautiful deed that it immediately creates a pure sense of affection and love between two persons once they are united for life!
Alpha:
--- Quote from: Deadly_king on August 29, 2010, 08:45:22 am ---all this can be done with friends........there is no need of being boy or girlfriends for these kind of things. The trend is different nowadays..........dating seems to be overcome by the temptation of sex!!
People normally do so because they want to impress their friends that they have a boy or girlfriend whom they love which is however not the case.
At such a tender age we are still immature and wont be able to take responsible decisions concerning our future life if we get entangled into relationships. Moreover we still do not know the true meaning of love.
The divorce rates are high because there seem to have been more than 1 girl or boy in the life of every individual in their past...........conflicts will always rise between husband and wives due to this!
You need not date someone before marriage but you can still try to know her in other ways.
Having always preserved yourself for only one person is such a beautiful deed that it immediately creates a pure sense of affection and love between two persons once they are united for life!
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+rep. :)
Proud you're Mauritian.
Deadly_king:
--- Quote ---+rep. :)
Proud you're Mauritian.
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hehe.......thanks :)
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