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Girlfriend and Boyfriend relationships
$tyli$h Executive:
--- Quote from: ~Ahana~ on July 24, 2010, 03:44:22 pm ---Love is love.
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See, you failed to even define it. :P
Love exists, between money, business, parents, family, possessions and many other things. What I'm trying to say is that love for another guy or girl is not beneficial at all and we should refrain from it as much as possible.
nid404:
--- Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on July 24, 2010, 03:47:45 pm ---See, you failed to even define it. :P
Love exists, between money, business, parents, family, possessions and many other things. What I'm trying to say is that love for another guy or girl is not beneficial at all and we should refrain from it as much as possible.
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Love is an emotion....difficult to comprehend
No...that is not love ::) I am tired ::)
Love is something that lasts forever..
ohk...let me give you an example. You love money? You love your laptop? You love your house? Don't you keep changing them?
Love doesn't change every few months like your car, house and laptop ::)
The woman/man you love becomes a part of your family...Can I say that?
Love is not selfish...you don't look for perks in love borakk... ::) You derive a lot more from loving....loving for REAL.
$tyli$h Executive:
--- Quote from: ~Ahana~ on July 24, 2010, 03:54:59 pm ---Love is an emotion....difficult to comprehend
No...that is not love ::) I am tired ::)
Love is something that lasts forever..
ohk...let me give you an example. You love money? You love your laptop? You love your house? Don't you keep changing them?
Love doesn't change every few months like your car, house and laptop ::)
The woman/man you love becomes a part of your family...Can I say that?
Love is not selfish...you don't look for perks in love borakk... ::) You derive a lot more from loving....loving for REAL.
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I cannot understand why love cannot change. It definitely can and should, if it is logical according to the circumstances.
Ok. Let ME give you an example:
--- Quote ---I fail to understand why people lie about love..
A few days affair was never love. It was lust.
In a relationship, sometimes, it so happens that only one of them loves the other unconditionally and believes that their partner's love is genuine(but it's a lie) When things go wrong, the person goes through severe pain...It is traumatic.
Today, people concoct a story of their love for someone, it is painful in the long run.
It is my earnest request to anyone reading this to never deceive a person and lie to them about love. No one should go through the trauma.No one is worth that anguish.
Whenever you say you love someone, mean it, or just don't say it. This is even when you are saying it to your friends or family...anyone. Say it only and only when you mean it.
All those in relationships, who think it's fun, re-think....it may not be for the other.
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You just quoted ONE of the many disadvantages.
Now ask yourself - Wouldn't it be better to NOT fall in this love for any other guy/girl in the first place?
Love has no real/monetary benefit, only risks. The risk:potential reward ratio is too high to even consider taking the risk.
nid404:
--- Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on July 24, 2010, 04:01:59 pm ---I cannot understand why love cannot change.
Ok. Let ME give you an example:
You just quoted ONE of the many disadvantages.
Now ask yourself - Wouldn't it be better to NOT fall in this love for any other guy/girl in the first place?
Love has no real/monetary benefit, only risks. The risk:potential reward ratio is too high to even consider taking the risk.
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ohk...wait...I mentioned earlier...the relationships today are not on the basis on genuine love...and hence one should refrain from thinking abt it till the time comes. But at some time or the other, your hormones overwhelm you....and what will you do then....go into a self imposed exile? :P
Love gives you a sense of satisfaction, it makes you feel better.
ahan...risks? When you try something new, you risk failure...when you don't, you ensure it.
$tyli$h Executive:
--- Quote from: ~Ahana~ on July 24, 2010, 04:09:51 pm ---ahan...risks? When you try something new, you risk failure...when you don't, you ensure it.
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When I try something new, it is the potential gain which drives me to. I do not intend to take miscalculated risks where I don't have any potential benefit.
--- Quote ---ohk...wait...I mentioned earlier...the relationships today are not on the basis on genuine love...and hence one should refrain from thinking abt it till the time comes. But at some time or the other, your hormones overwhelm you....and what will you do then....go into a self imposed exile?
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Hormones?? Everybody must train themselves, with military precision, to channel their "hormones" into other uses :P . Or in other words, use their "hormones" in a useful and beneficial way, which is definitely not love for another guy/girl.
And this link between hormones and love, as you illustrated, proves that love is nothing but lust, since "hormones" have a sexual implication.
--- Quote ---Love gives you a sense of satisfaction, it makes you feel better.
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How can it satisfy you when you don't gain anything? ::)
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