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Should marriage be a lifelong commitment?

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Saladin:
OTs right, as much as we all think it shud be, there are many circumstances in which it is not.

Alpha:
Dude 321,

But then, at every minor disagreement, people will send their spouses to court?

Conflicts do occur, it's natural. But you have to bear with them. THIS is what we call "commitment". It's sacrificing every choice for only one choice.


Omer,

Sharing a custody? How? Sharing the kids? What if none of the parents want to take care of them?

My last line... I mean... Divorce is now more of a trend, than a 'rescue' from a hellish marital life. It's being misused, law is being mocked. People want to 'experience' with many partners. They change it like they're changing --------. You get me now...?


Excuse my short answers this time, tired writing the same thing again.

You may have a look at the discussion that I started at the same time as this one. You'll get a better idea of my points.

http://speaking24.ning.com/forum/topics/should-marriage-be-a-lifelong?xg_source=activity

O.T.13.:
nah its aight i prefer the short answers, i aint gonna be able to give enough time or effort for longer ones  :D
well one of them is gonna want the kids otherwise why did they have them in the first place
well "experiencing with many parteners" is more about people's morales than being the concept of marriage: if they were intending on having a "happily ever after" marriage, then the thought of experimenting wouldnt have risen up in the first place

Alpha:

--- Quote from: O.T.13. on February 14, 2010, 06:56:10 pm ---nah its aight i prefer the short answers, i aint gonna be able to give enough time or effort for longer ones  :D
well one of them is gonna want the kids otherwise why did they have them in the first place
well "experiencing with many parteners" is more about people's morales than being the concept of marriage: if they were intending on having a "happily ever after" marriage, then the thought of experimenting wouldnt have risen up in the first place

--- End quote ---

Hehe, I started preferring short answers too now.  :D

Well, about kids, mistakes always occur. If every parent 'wanted' the kid he or she got, then the world today wouldn't be flooded with abandoned children.

Yes, you got me well. It's more about their sense of dignity, their morals. How sad, many have cracked theirs down. And the sad thing is that others unknowingly become their victims.
Does the world really moves on morals? Not for everyone, unfortunately.

O.T.13.:
Yea its the sad truth, morals ain't a necessity anymore to live "successfully"
Unwanted kids I will agree to a certain extent, but abandoned children are not all abandoned because of that, three are a number of other factors that contribute to that number

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