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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #45 on: September 28, 2009, 01:55:23 pm »
yeah, it's not common in real life but I do see it on TV, movies and other shows..

I don't knw what exactly makes you laugh but am serious; am not kidding ::)


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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #46 on: September 28, 2009, 03:40:39 pm »
seeing a guy cry doesnt make me CRY :|
but yea not laugh either
just curious to knw wats wrong.. maybe i could help ;D
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #47 on: September 28, 2009, 03:43:14 pm »
and i forgot to mention..
when i cry actuallly u wont see me crying :P i cry in the washroom or in my room if i get a chance to b alone :D

but if u do it aint pretty ::) :P
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #48 on: September 30, 2009, 07:21:07 am »
Sometimes i can't hold it back.....but most of the times i cry when no one's around...i don't like others watching me cry

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #49 on: October 02, 2009, 08:59:33 pm »
if i get relllyyy Maaaad then it shows :S

but otherwise i hold it :)
What can I do, to make it right
Falling so hard so fast this time
What did I say, what did you do?
How did I fall in love with you?


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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #50 on: October 02, 2009, 09:48:13 pm »
well first we need to seperate simple spontaneous crying from the shoutout sissy crying.
Personally, I see the former as a primary sign of manhoodness - or as u say, macho -
As for the freaking juvenile loud crying, well not only does it degrades a man (and personally i think it degrades females too) but it just means you as mature as an infant
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #51 on: October 26, 2009, 11:22:23 am »
macho? lol whats that :P

i think i get what u mean .. sure men have feelings .. but i think they prefer not to cry .. and if they do cry .. it's done privately  :P

girls however .. watch a romantic movie and cry, see a puppy and cry, break-up with boy friends and cry .. WHY do u cry so much ??!! :P

haha those girls are the real "dolls" (no offense to any1)
but theyre not tough at all. not all girls like crying, usually if a girl cries (especially after a break up) it means that they really are hurt.

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #52 on: October 26, 2009, 11:25:49 am »
...IM EMO...

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #53 on: October 28, 2009, 05:02:40 pm »
lol @saad

rotfl...

funny topic..
i miss u guys

well i never got to know u so i guess u dont really miss me
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #54 on: May 24, 2010, 07:53:12 pm »
it reallie depends .. theres a limit 2 everything ..
if a man cries more than i do than thats a major turn offf lol cuz i think i cry enough 4 the both of usss but that doesnt meean that when he reallie needs 2 shed a tear he holds it in cuz its not machoo its the same as supressing anger or joy .. its comes bouncing back at u after a whileee its implications psychologically are bad for a man or a woman to supress any emotion ... and personally i think men crying 4 meaningful reasons is cuteee it means he has a heart in there somwhere  ;D

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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #55 on: May 24, 2010, 08:01:53 pm »
When i get really angry, especially in a fight... automatically water just gets in my eyes... I don't think its crying cuz i dont normally just cry even if hit or warever, but does anyone know why does this happen to me?
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #56 on: May 24, 2010, 08:46:33 pm »
i noe its cz u saw me nd u were soo afraid :P :P
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #57 on: May 24, 2010, 08:48:26 pm »
If a guy cries, it's deep.

I'd love them! :P
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #58 on: May 24, 2010, 08:50:31 pm »
oooh nice topic
i personally dont mind men who cry
it shows that they do not let their pride get in the way of how they feel
it shows that they do not have an enlarged ego that they are afraid too cry in public cause it might destroy there reputation
showin emotions is a way by which ppl can show that they truly understand each other and really care for each other
but ofcourse they shudnt be an emotional wreck
just cry less the me
which is not much ;)
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Re: Men Crying - is it non macho??
« Reply #59 on: May 24, 2010, 08:58:00 pm »
i noe its cz u saw me nd u were soo afraid :P :P

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No really, :P same thing happens when m in a mall or windy day or smth. I think its cuz my eye is a bit sensitive...
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