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How do you treat those who hurt you ?and how to overcome fear of NEW friendship?
Alpha:
--- Quote from: Romeesa-Chan on March 25, 2012, 03:36:42 pm ---Being betrayed doesn't necessarily mean your being oppressed.
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Exactly.
$tyli$h Executive:
--- Quote from: ~Alpha on March 25, 2012, 03:36:21 pm ---Are you oppressed? -.-
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It depends on the extent to which i was betrayed. anyway to each their own.
The Golden Girl =D:
SE : I do wish that but then I start thinking that one day they might realize their wrong doings and repent so I forgive them for not only that but for ME as well so that I get rid off the fire in my heart that keeps burning the tissues of my heart .. never mind the details LOL XD
Alpha:
People hurt you. 3 possibilities:
1) They hurt you deliberately.
2) They hurt you involuntarily.
3) You think they hurt you when in fact they didn't.
And there is only one morale to retain:
Whichever of the 3 possibilities has taught you something.
Your role on Earth is just to grab the lesson and move on. Bad happens to everyone. But you shouldn't imitate it. Don't become what you hate.
Amelia:
Ever wondered how would a life be without hurt, betrayal, anger, frustration, injustice?
1) I'm not going to be held accountable for what others did to me, I'm going to be asked on how I reacted to them. I'm going to be my normal self, indifferent to what they had done to me.
What are we going to get by revenge? Satisfaction? For how long? If you hurt those who hurt you, then what would be the difference between you and the villain?
2) Life will teach you one thing again and again. Never put complete faith on a fellow human, man is bound to err... (this goes towards religion but) you have only two friends "Allah, and those who remind you of Allah" These are the friendships that'll seldom hurt and last forever.
--- Quote from: $tyli$h Executive on March 25, 2012, 03:34:59 pm ---Actually, this is the thing everyone should do.
".....Beware of the supplication of the oppressed for there is no barrier between him and Allah......" - Prohpet (pbuh)
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Dont you remember what the Prophet (saw) did when he went back from Madinah to Makkah and faced the oppressors again?
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