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Banana:
--- Quote from: Romeesa-Chan on March 16, 2012, 06:50:32 pm ---Not sure. ::)
As for my wedding, nope they don't. >:D
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LOL very very evil.... :P Keep the cake for yourself and deprive the guests of dessert >:D >:D
What if it were Baskin Robbins? :P
Romeesa-Chan:
--- Quote from: Banana on March 17, 2012, 04:28:01 am ---LOL very very evil.... :P Keep the cake for yourself and deprive the guests of dessert >:D >:D
What if it were Baskin Robbins? :P
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Of course, I'll stuff it in my hubby's mouth. :P Guests can go back home. :P :P
Romeesa-Chan:
Sweet, mA. :)
Amelia:
Fatima and Asma bint Abu Bakr, who were house wives married to hard working men who were not rich and able to provide servants and slaves to their wives. These wives were the queens of their houses. They ruled their houses and through that they also ruled their husband’s hearts. Never did they complain about their husband’s poverty but adapted to what Allah had decreed for them. And that made them the women of Paradise.
Fatima r.a. the queen of house got a title of ‘The leader of of women in Jannah!’
Fatima’s r.a. two sisters, one after another were married to the richest man of their time, Uthman bin Affan, but this never gave her any inferiority complex, nor did she nag or showed sadness when her father, the Prophet peace be upon him himself, refused to give her a slave for domestic help.
Compare this content and full life with the career oritented, ambitious and educated Muslimahs who chase ‘Dream Careers’.
They leave their house and go to offices to work and serve their boss and are made to believe that if a woman earns on her own she will be the ruler of her own self. But few think from this perspective, that she is suppsoe to be the Queen of ther house and her husband earning and spending for her.
Embracing Islamic way of life means to adapt to the new way of life without nagging or complaining. It is bracing yourself to hardships and solving them with the help of Islam whle bearing with Patience.
When you grow your beard people will let grow dislike towards you and when you raise your trousers above the ankles people will raise their eyebrows. When you cover your self with hijab people will enlist you in the list of backwards. When you leave your haram job you will end up short of money at the end of the month. You will have to cut down even your needful your expenses in many corners of your life. You will have to change your habits and cultivate new ones which may seem hard and odd. Are you ready to do it? And if you show readiness can you sustain it continuously ? Or are you looking for a Luxurious Islam with Paradise on the earth itself ?
“Do men think that they will be left alone on saying ” We believe ” and they will not be tested?…Surah Ankaboot :2
http://xeniagreekmuslimah.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/the-test.jpg?w=640&h=480
Romeesa-Chan:
^It's a nice perspective. :) Different from our own but once we understand the main concept; it's beautiful. (Y)
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