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Hate? Do we have to hate because we are humans?
Romeesa-Chan:
--- Quote from: SpongeBob-Mony on July 30, 2011, 03:49:23 pm ---Yeah, hate kills BIG TIME. Like it really does PAIN.
I can't hate anyone or allow myself to do so because it only makes my life miserable!
--- End quote ---
Seconded. 8)
I am with Mony on this. (: [as always] :P
$tyli$h Executive:
I think it is a waste of time and energy to hate someone. But I still need to learn how NOT to hate someone and waste time.
Alpha:
“You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.”
Every King knows how to rule himself.
Shoshou..Mony:
@Romeesa, soul sisters. =]
@Stylish, make it a habit. It'll take 21 days perhaps until you start getting used to it.
To stop hating, you first need to forgive those who hurt you in the past. Any energy put forth in the way of hatred, guilt, envy, etc., expressed toward people who have hurt you is wasted energy. Spending time being upset and sad gives your power away to people who have hurt you. They control your feelings like this, because when they appear in front of you..you feel anger and when they go away you feel better. It's like they got the key to your own feelings and they know very well how to put you in a bad mood. Do NOT give your power away.
People come and go in our lives many times throughout our lifetime, spending time hating someone steals your happiness and time better spent on positive things. Also, that person who was careless enough to hurt you, isn't effected whatsoever by your hostile feelings, but you are miserable.
Forgive them, then move on. Someday you will thank them for making you strong. ;)
Just remember one thing : The hate will hurt you more than them. =]
@Alpha, 'Every King knows how to rule himself', perfect saying. =]
Romeesa-Chan:
^Well said, sis. (:
Hating others won't make you any better than them. ;)
One of my fav. quotes:
'Where there is love, there is life.' -Gandhi :D
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