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Good VS Bad ~
« on: July 10, 2011, 08:52:55 pm »
Okay so this thread is about basically sharing with us your BAD and your GOOD habits/characteristics.

I usually like writing down the things I find they need to be fixed in my personality because I always try to be better, but at the same time I'd write what is there good in me to never lose hope or feel down. =]

Okay I'll start with my negative side :

- I can be selfish at times. Selfish over the things I LOVE or own. For example if I don't like it when my best friends speak to or make other friends because I feel that they are MY best friends and no one else should speak to them. ::) I know this is TOTALLY crazy but I find that's a big problem in me.

- Insecurity : oh well this relates to the above negative point. I get selfish perhaps because I am afraid that my friends would meet other people and forget about me.

- Anger : When I get angry, I try MY BEST to control but it doesn't always work especially when the person keeps annoying me. I slowly start turning into a volcano, after some time I ERUPT and oh well no one can ever stop me from being loud and saying very mean things.

Positive side :

- It's my hobby to make the world better. I spend ALL my time running thoughts in my mind about how to make a change that sometimes I can forget about everything in this world even the people I love.

- I am VERY GOOD at convincing other people to do what I want to do. I can also have ANYTHING I want due to that gift. I can also have any guy I want easily. :P

Those are just few. I'll post more later on.
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #1 on: July 10, 2011, 09:38:16 pm »
I'm Crooked and I'm AWESOME. 8)

I don't really have a bad side. I try so hard to become a villain and i fail. 8)

And one of yer neg side, Shoshou - > Yuh tend to dominate people. ::)
Good side - > Extremely caring and a sweetheart. (:
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #2 on: July 10, 2011, 09:39:43 pm »
I'll post mine tomorrow ;D
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #3 on: July 10, 2011, 10:49:11 pm »
Quote from: Crooked on July 10, 2011, 09:38:16 pm
I'm Crooked and I'm AWESOME. 8)

I don't really have a bad side. I try so hard to become a villain and i fail. 8)

And one of yer neg side, Shoshou - > Yuh tend to dominate people. ::)
Good side - > Extremely caring and a sweetheart. (:

Dominate as in boss people around? Control them? :O

And dude, I said post YOURS not post mine. I dislike people disclosing my faults. ::)

@Hish, I'll be waiting. :P
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Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #4 on: July 10, 2011, 11:58:18 pm »
Quote from: Shoshou..Mony-Chan on July 10, 2011, 10:49:11 pm
Dominate as in boss people around? Control them? :O

And dude, I said post YOURS not post mine. I dislike people disclosing my faults. ::)

@Hish, I'll be waiting. :P
Well, once yuh debate/argue, yuh don't listen to others. ::)

Wow. :P So that's one of yer fatal flaws too. :P

I said i don't have any faults. I am perfect, Alhamd. ::) :P

Yuh don't have any faults either, paka. =,=
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #5 on: July 11, 2011, 12:11:32 am »
Quote from: Shoshou..Mony-Chan on July 10, 2011, 08:52:55 pm
- I can be selfish at times. Selfish over the things I LOVE or own. For example if I don't like it when my best friends speak to or make other friends because I feel that they are MY best friends and no one else should speak to them. ::) I know this is TOTALLY crazy but I find that's a big problem in me.
HAHA this is normal hunnie, I am the same  ::) I dont like when my friends talk a lot to other people

My bad:
I am usually very unsure about things and sometimes I cant make a decision for myself >_< , I hope I can change this soon

Sometimes I get jealous  :-X

I am very stubborn at times (not with parents though) and also argue a lot to prove my point

I get very straight forward or blunt at times  ::)

Good:
I think I can always understand how someone feels, I can put myself in their shoes

I am forgiving (but I dont forget :P)

I am a good listener

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Thats all I can think of now :P
« Last Edit: July 11, 2011, 12:15:05 am by Ang3l »
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #6 on: July 11, 2011, 12:23:35 am »
Quote from: Ang3l on July 11, 2011, 12:11:32 am
HAHA this is normal hunnie, I am the same  ::) I dont like when my friends talk a lot to other people

My bad:
I am usually very unsure about things and sometimes I cant make a decision for myself >_< , I hope I can change this soon

Sometimes I get jealous  :-X

I am very stubborn at times (not with parents though) and also argue a lot to prove my point

Good:
I think I can always understand how someone feels, I can put myself in their shoes

I am forgiving (but I dont forget :P)

I am a good listener

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Thats all I can think of now :P


You are an undecided person as in. My dad is like that and I really dislike it. I think it has something to do with have a strong decision and believing more in yourself.

As for jealousy, same here, BUT jealousy over the person I love. This means we have low self esteem and a good thing to do is always liking yourself and accepting who you are.
You have positive side and a negative side, just like every other person on this world and so you never compare yourself to other people unless you plan to be like them in a good way, as in competition is healthy at times but when it doesn't create hate.

No one is better than anyone. You have an awesome character so why feel jealous ?

Stubborn..I was like that BUT then I taught myself that it is good to agree to a disagree. And believe it or not, my life is better that way. I can't always be right and why not take the chance to listen to other people for a change? Maybe what they are saying is correct and arguing about one point only makes us look fool and not open minded enough for accepting other people's views.

We are humans, everyone of us have a different way of thinking and guess what? It's better that way. Imagine if we ALL had the SAME way of thinking, if we all wore the same clothes, looked the same, spoke in the same way, did the same thing everyday..do you think we will be living? We will be alive but not living. Our life would be a TOTAL boredom.

Good POINTS :

That's very nice that you are understanding. This makes you a great friend. =]

Okay when you are a good listener then you should take that chance to stop being stubborn because listening is is VERY GOOD THING.

At times, I find it very difficult to listen. I speak more than I listen and this is SO BAD.

MashAllah, forgiving is a great quality! I also forgive easily. :D

I hope my post helped you in a little bit of way. I made this thread so that we ALL ADVISE each other. =]



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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #7 on: July 11, 2011, 12:28:40 am »
Quote from: Crooked on July 10, 2011, 11:58:18 pm
Well, once yuh debate/argue, yuh don't listen to others. ::)

Wow. :P So that's one of yer fatal flaws too. :P

I said i don't have any faults. I am perfect, Alhamd. ::) :P

Yuh don't have any faults either, paka. =,=

You are perfect? Then you are abnormal because perfection doesn't exist.

No, I have faults and the best of us are those who admit their mistakes not the ones who don't do mistakes at all. =]
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #8 on: July 11, 2011, 12:54:34 am »
^ You got that right; I do try to change this thing in me and believe more in myself >_<

As for jealousy, I do get jealous sometimes but not to an extent of hating someone :O and mostly its when my friends pay more attention to someone else than me. :P
I can control my jealousy so it never extends to hatred =)

And Thanks :)

P.S. I dont know why but I like when people tell me my faults :D (crooky, you dont have to read this :P)
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #9 on: July 11, 2011, 01:00:46 am »
Quote from: Ang3l on July 11, 2011, 12:54:34 am
^ You got that right; I do try to change this thing in me and believe more in myself >_<

As for jealousy, I do get jealous sometimes but not to an extent of hating someone :O and mostly its when my friends pay more attention to someone else than me. :P
I can control my jealousy so it never extends to hatred =)

And Thanks :)

P.S. I dont know why but I like when people tell me my faults :D (crooky, you dont have to read this :P)

A bit of jealousy is sometimes healthy. It shows that you care.
I also get jealous over my friends.  ::)

I like it when people tell me my faults but for the sake of them advising me not for the sake of criticizing me.
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3

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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #10 on: July 11, 2011, 01:03:52 am »
Quote from: Shoshou..Mony-Chan on July 11, 2011, 01:00:46 am
A bit of jealousy is sometimes healthy. It shows that you care.
I also get jealous over my friends.  ::)

I like it when people tell me my faults but for the sake of them advising me not for the sake of criticizing me.
Same here, That will make me ignore them  ::)
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #11 on: July 11, 2011, 06:39:43 am »
I'm Nobody. The rest, i think you'll figure out. 8)

I think we should merge this with "like/Dislike" thread.. :)
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #12 on: July 11, 2011, 06:58:34 am »
Quote from: Shoshou..Mony-Chan on July 11, 2011, 01:00:46 am
I like it when people tell me my faults but for the sake of them advising me not for the sake of criticizing me.

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And Ang3llllllll. Wait till i jot my list down. :P
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #13 on: July 11, 2011, 12:30:08 pm »
Quote from: Crooked on July 11, 2011, 06:58:34 am
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And Ang3llllllll. Wait till i jot my list down. :P
I am waiting then :P
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Re: Good VS Bad ~
« Reply #14 on: July 11, 2011, 01:25:10 pm »
Quote from: Nobody on July 11, 2011, 06:39:43 am
I'm Nobody. The rest, i think you'll figure out. 8)

I think we should merge this with "like/Dislike" thread.. :)

This is different. I like/dislike is about anything in life or other people.
This one is about our OWN habits. =]

@Crooked, can't imagine you being broken heart from me. :P

And oh boy, it'll be the longest list ever.  :-X
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Sometimes, ALLAH breaks our heart to make us whole.
Sometimes, ALLAH allows pain so we can be stronger.
Sometimes, ALLAH sends us failure so we can be humble.
Sometimes, ALLAH takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything HE gave us.

When Allah leads you to the edge of difficulty... either ALLAH will catch you when you fall or ALLAH will teach you how to fly! =]

Please make them strong ya Allah...

Romeesa-chan...<3
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