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Should divorce be legal?
Becca:
--- Quote from: iluvme on March 12, 2012, 02:30:13 pm ---You forgot the vice versa.
Women nowadays ::)
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Haha, yeah, women can be pretty violent at times. The poor husbands. :-X
Rvel Zahid:
Its unfortunate when one couple ends up without any other option but divorce. The close ones might try to fix the matters but in some cases it doesn't really work and every attempt fails.
this is a reality that most of the couples after 5-10 years of their marriage get into troubles and divorce comes into the debate.
In the decision making many factors have to be taken into consideration like:-
-The class from which a couple belongs
-religion
-traditions and customs
-education
-number of kids a couple has
-financial condition of a couple
A woman of a lower middle class family might find difficult to take this decision because she is financially dependent on husband. Most of the families might not support her in this decision. You become a target of ill gossip if a woman gets divorce.
insecurity and lack of vision might hamper in taking a decision. I am talking about the less privileged societies. if she is modern and enlightened then she might be able to cope well with the after effects and her self belief might help her to start a new life after abandoning her first marriage.
in the male dominant society the law might encourage males to marry twice or thrice which is immoral if you are doing that in order to seek pleasure. i think its fine if you marry twice if you have infertility issues with first wife because majority can't really afford test tube babies or the use of genetic advancements in order to have a baby. peer pressure and backward society might come into effect if you adopt a baby. this kind of mindset doesn't prevails in educated class and in advanced countries where literacy rate is high, the state owns its people and where laws are being implemented...
The situation is different in developed countries where you see freedom of choice. the freedom might be used in a wrong way but with everything, negatives do exist.
In this case, i believe the advantages overlook the disadvantages in legalising the divorce and making it an open decision according to one's desire. You gotta think for majority benefits while making a decision....
Requiem_reborn:
I divorced my girl friend because she turned out to be a Ismaili (Muslim)
so yes divorce should be legal so that both sides should be happy.
Romeesa-Chan:
--- Quote from: Requiem_reborn on April 17, 2012, 09:02:56 am ---I divorced my girl friend because she turned out to be a Ismaili (Muslim)
so yes divorce should be legal so that both sides should be happy.
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Just because of her being Ismaili ? ::)
$tyli$h Executive:
^^ Ismaili, I think that's a sect of islam. but what's wrong with being ismaili man? Poor girl. :P
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